Does my wife want a MFM or is it just fantasy?

[uneed_love2]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love

What some people can find a turn on can be for others a turn off... example "talk dirty" is a turn on for me and a turn off for Uneed2.

JC, I did order the book: Talk sexy to your partner...
I am learning! However do do make a distinction between sexy and vulgar. MHO

Is Olivia del Rio classy ? May be she is... BUT the elegance and the distinction are quite almost and more often in the eyes of the woman who is watching the video than in the play of the porn actress himself... You can notice that I wrote "more often" and "quite almost" instead of "ALWAYS" because there are always some good exception.

Of course, may be, You could find a porn actress who is "classy" when she does a BJ, or performs anal sex BUT(T) this is generally not appearing at the first sight... At least this is not what I should notice first

I must defend myself here! I find her almost classy because the movie I watched was not done degrading as many are. It gave me the impression that the guys were actually there to pleasure her, not the other way around.

Sexy and gorgeous I have no doubt about it but elegance and distinction will be not perceived at the first sight I assume. For instance if You show such a movie to my old Mom she would have a heart attack and would not qualified this as "classy"

Anyways here is a link about this sexy actress http://www.oliviadelrio.com

JC, any movie that has lots of sex in it, your Mom would find distasteful. I bet even an educational one! It is her choice. Just be sure your movies etc. are locked up!

[Uneed_Love]

Kitty You have to learn how to quote a text when you make a reply... kisses bisous

[curious24]

I've been following this thread for awhile and this is actually one of my fantasies to try. I'm not so much in it for my enjoyment but for the enjoyment of the woman. I tell ya it drives me nuts to see a woman enjoying things so much Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever get the chance. I guess that's why they call it a fantasy

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love
Kitty You have to learn how to quote a text when you make a reply... kisses bisous

It's all fixed now JC, there really isn't anything that can't be fixed around here and that one was a simple one....give her a break, she's a newbie on the board!

Uneed2, does JC call you "Kitty" all the time? That is too cute!

JC. why the 'double' "kisses bisous"? Or shall I put you at the mercy of my handy dandy CPT?

[Uneed_Love]

Originally posted by OhioCouple
It's all fixed now JC, there really isn't anything that can't be fixed around here and that one was a simple one....give her a break, she's a newbie on the board!

Uneed2, does JC call you "Kitty" all the time? That is too cute!

JC. why the 'double' "kisses bisous"? Or shall I put you at the mercy of my handy dandy CPT?

Lori You are a wizard!... You're magick wand is more powerful than mine... even if I use my stick for some boldness with Uneed_Love2 I should never get this bold result here

Yes I always call my sweetheart "Kitty" or "Kitty-Love" and I shall explain why... The second time we met we went to the South of France in a small apart that I share with my sister for the vacations. As my lover was looking at me half with "starvation" half with "admiration" I was very embarrassed and feeling a bit unconfortable... it's not the proper words I should use to describe my feelings but as I am a shy guy it was too much for me at that moment... and I told her "hummm the way You are looking at me I feel like a golden fish which is observed by a Kitty"... Besides as she has a way "to purr" when she is happy since this time I call her my Kitty-Love

Now why a double kisses-bisous which is the same ? As You know she is a Canadian citizen and more especially living in British Colombia so when we are talking together we do this half in french half in english... The kisses-bisous is "our trade mark" to describe us the english-french talking couple

Kisses

JC

[Uneed_Love]

Originally posted by curious24
Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever get the chance. I guess that's why they call it a fantasy

Never give up - but keep it up - because untill now hubbies cannot been cloned... So for a MFM fantasy You need at least 2 males (or even more ) which let's you 2 options :
- Find a female and marry her then look for a single man
- Reply to the ads of couples who are searching for a stud in order to satisfy the wife.
Who knows fantasy could become real one day. Good luck and be patient.

Have fun.

JC

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love
[B]
Now why a double kisses-bisous which is the same ? As You know she is a Canadian citizen and more especially living in British Colombia so when we are talking together we do this half in french half in english... The kisses-bisous is "our trade mark" to describe us the english-french talking couple

JC, you missed my point entirely. I was trying to impress you that I knew they meant the same thing, no CPT involved!

As I failed miserably at my attempt at humor....this one should get you chuckling. (This is all CPT)

pas bisous et est-ce que baisers suis avoir la même signification ou je fou? Huées! Ça ne fait rien, je savent que je suis des écrous!

[curious24]

Originally posted by Uneed_Love
- Find a female and marry her then look for a single man

that is if i can find one.. i have no idea where all the single ladies are..

[b]- Reply to the ads of couples who are searching for a stud in order to satisfy the wife.[b]

i've tried that before.. but i usually don't get a reply back.. seems odd to me.. ah well.. thanks for the advice!

[Roxysbayou]

Originally posted by curious24
that is if i can find one.. i have no idea where all the single ladies are..

Hubby found me at the movie theater.

[curious24]

Originally posted by Roxysbayou
Hubby found me at the movie theater.

cool! some guy was coughing on the back of my head at the last movie i saw and i got sick grrr...

anyway.. sorry a bit off topic had to vent..

[Roxysbayou]

Originally posted by curious24
cool! some guy was coughing on the back of my head at the last movie i saw and i got sick grrr...

anyway.. sorry a bit off topic had to vent..

...Well that's enough to spoil the mood! When I was single I was definitely a party girl! I hit the nightclubs every Thursday and Saturday night very some time. That's all great for a one night stand. But I did find that the quality of men in those kinds of places, and women to I'm sure, was not what I was looking for when it came to getting serious. Plus alcohol really inpairs your judgment...lol. I met a great guy once in a laundry mat not far from my apartment too. Maybe that should be a new thread...what are the best places to meet women? Maybe I'll start it, even though it doesn't necassarily apply to swingers it would be fun to know where people have come together.

[curious24]

Originally posted by Roxysbayou
...Well that's enough to spoil the mood! When I was single I was definitely a party girl! I hit the nightclubs every Thursday and Saturday night very some time. That's all great for a one night stand. But I did find that the quality of men in those kinds of places, and women to I'm sure, was not what I was looking for when it came to getting serious. Plus alcohol really inpairs your judgment...lol. I met a great guy once in a laundry mat not far from my apartment too. Maybe that should be a new thread...what are the best places to meet women? Maybe I'll start it, even though it doesn't necassarily apply to swingers it would be fun to know where people have come together.

thanks for the advice!

i swear it's easy for a woman.. i just have zero luck when it comes with women.. most of the time when i go out to a bar or something it's the nasty guys that get the numbers.. like the ones that are like 5'10" or 5'11" are all built up and muscles out the wazoo.. the shirt that is unbuttoned about 3 buttons.. have the side burns down their face.. and the messed up hair... it's really annoying cause i just don't see how ANYONE could like those kind of guys.. it really dumbfounds me...

[Uneed_Love]

Originally posted by Roxysbayou
[Bit would be fun to know where people have come together. [/B]

Four years ago I met my Kitty-Love on the web in a forum... Not a sexual one... We were talking first about esoterism and Spirituality... then Tantra and finally esoterism turned into erotism... and I told her that in the word libertine You can found the word liberty... LOL

Kisses

JC

[uneed_love2]

Originally posted by curious24
that is if i can find one.. i have no idea where all the single ladies are..

Actually, there are just as many single ladies that are looking for men! And I hear from them that they have no idea where the guys are! So...

Have you tried big stores? Look in the baskets of the ladies that look interesting to you. Are they buying food for one person or more? Its usually pretty easy to judge. You can always ask them for advise, how to cook this vegetable, does she think it is worth it to buy organic food, anything will do to break the ice. It is a very safe environment with lots of women!

There was one guy that used to do it all the time. His favorite spot were bulk eggs. I guess the discussion if its worth it to buy white or brown, bulk or packaged, small, medium or large was worth the effort. He always left the store with someone...

Just make sure that you dress up nice and are in a positive mood!
You have to go with the attitude that you will meet a nice lady. Because if you go with the idea that ladies are not interested in you, they will feel that and they won't be interested!

Another way might be to tell your friends and family that you would like to meet a nice woman and to introduce you if they know of someone. Just make sure that they know what you are looking for!

Good luck to you

[Vjklander]

Originally posted by Roxysbayou
: it would be fun to know where people have come together.

um, well, uh,
I found Mrs. Vjk in my bed.
Never one to look a gift horse in the mouth, I kept her.
J