Young couple freaked my wife out, now she says she doesn't want to do this anymore

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by lovinher

You invited a couple over without your wife knowing about it? If she had been part of the screening process your delema would never had happened.
I think you got off lucky.

I agree. Jay knows physically pretty much what men I will be attracted to and who I probably won't. But he still never plans anything without running it through me, and same here. You cannot ever assume that your spouse will just be on board. Now, if your spouse makes a comment say that they are attracted to someone...and their bday is coming up for instance...it would be cool I think to plan something special like an FMF or MFM....however, only if he or she has mentioned that they are attracted.
Shelly

[Cerberus]

Originally Posted by lovinher

You forgot it?
Call me a cynic but I don't buy that. CYNIC LOL really by the end of the other night we were toasted exhausted and sleeping.



So she agreed to have a quiet evening or to have them come over?

She said ok to them coming over but highly objected and I apologized.

I think it was just a bad experience and after our talk tonight she say it just need a break.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by Cerberus

She said ok to them coming over but highly objected and I apologized.

I think it was just a bad experience and after our talk tonight she say it just need a break.

And don't feel bad....experienced swingers do this all of the time. We went to a crazy ass house party in June lol and needed a break. Well, my vagina needed a break at least!!
LOL
Shelly

[lovinher]

She said ok to them coming over but highly objected and I apologized.

Oh, that explains it then.


Now you know what not to do.