Want to see my wife have sex with other men but she's not sure

[Estaque]

Your story sounds almost exactly like mine.

Find a swinger's party in your area and tell your wife to get ready cuz you're both going. I'll bet you a paycheck she'll be into it. Find a couple at the party and do the deed. If all goes as planned you guys will be the newbie swingers on the block.

That's what I did. Now we're hooked and having a blast!

Not really cool with letting the wife bang people she works with though. That would mean they'd get to spend more time with her than I do.

[Ssugarlips]

My husband and I see others separately as well as share a few partners. The arrangement works for us and our marriage.

The one unbending rule we have is that we meet the other's potential partners face-to-face. There are a few reasons why this is our rule:

1) My husband is concerned with my safety and he wants to check out any man who is going to be with me. I want it clear that I am happily married and not looking for a replacement mate.

2) I want to meet any women he is seeing to let them know up front that no cheating is going on and that my husband is available for friendly sex; he's not looking for a second wife.

3) If I am going to meet a woman lover, I want her to meet my husband in case they are attracted to one another. If so, then it makes FMF play an option. We have been fortunate to find one special lady that loves both of us...together, separately, and as a social friend.

4) A couple of the single men I have taken as lovers have proven to be good friends of both of us...good friends are always welcome in our life.

[nujaxcpl]

well, here we go with an update to my original post....after many hot sessions over the past couple of weeks and much discussion about my wife fucking another man I let it drop. I told her I wanted her to do it and just let it go at that. Imagine my surprise on Tuesday night when she called to say she was running late at work. I didn't think anything about it and when she got home she acted a little strange. Not in a bad way, but strange in a good way. She wanted to take a hot shower and get into bed with me for some hot sex. OK I thought. She undressed in an unusual way, taking her clothes off quickly and putting them in the hamper in a hurry. I also noticed she was wearing a sexy thong, not usually her style for work. Once she was in the shower I decided to investigate and wouldn't you know it...a sticky, cumsoaked pair of panties. I got undressed and got in the shower and surprised her. I slid my hands between her legs and could tell immediately that she had been fucking. But I never let on that I knew.

Later on, as we started our lovemaking I asked her why she was so wet tonight...she said "I did waht you wanted me to do tonight". She told me that it wasn't the best and that he came rather quickly. She said she would rather do it with just me, but admitted later that she would think about doing it again with him...yeah, right...I think after a few days curiosity will get the better of her and she will have to try and see if he can last longer next time.

Wow...also, I think I have her talked into going to a swingers club after dinner on Friday to check out the atmosphere and do a little recon...I told her I didn't expect anything other than to check the place out.

Once she was in the shower I decided to investigate and wouldn't you know it...a sticky, cumsoaked pair of panties.

She wore her panties in the shower

[nujaxcpl]

No, she took them off and put them in the hamper. Once she was in the shower I took tehm out of the hamper to investigate my suspicions. I always let my curiosity ruin surprises (Christmas has always been a letdown, I find all the presents ahead of time)...LOL!

[curious1103]

Alright! Way to go! The best part about it is when she's re-telling the situation to you, or maybe even recreating the performance. You can actually feel her get wetter, more aroused as she's telling you her story, details of what they did, how she moved and felt. You visualize your wife from the other guy's point of view, in essence, you become the other guy and your wife is no longer your wife but the other guy's wife - not sure if that made any sense? Anyway, it's a huge turn-on for the both of us.

[guitarlover]

I would imagine that a first encounter with a new partner would be so enticing and exciting that it would be difficult to hold off the flood of a real good orgasm. I remember that the first time with my S.O. was so exciting to feel myself finally inside her and fulfilling a long awaited fantasy that I came way too fast to satisfy her. However, she said that she felt complimented that I was so excited to be with her. Naturally, I got it right later on, and I am able to hold on longer.
I feel the urge to share her with the right man / woman, too. I don't know why, but the thought is so naughty that it really turns me on. Apparently, I'm not alone in this sharing thing after reading so many other posts from other guys. I find it interesting that a lot of women don't feel that way about sharing their guy....with exceptions, of course. My hat is off to those ladies! LOL
So, I hope that YOUR woman's second go around will be more satisfying and I hope that she shares the experience with you rather than keep it to herself.