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03-03-2006, 10:56 AM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 121 Location: New York Status: Married couple
 |  When talk first, then Pics = no attraction
Online finally shows you pics after talking for weeks. And there is just no way you are attracted in the least. But you like them as friends what do you do? How do you tell them?
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03-03-2006, 11:45 AM
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| Laura's Male  Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,947 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male
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Honesty works. That is what this is supposed to be about. Not just with your spouse but all others you meet in the Lifestyle. We all have our preferences of what we like and don't like. We can have friends without having sex with them. I think that is one reason we still pretty much to meeting people at the club. You know what they look like right up front and they know what you look like. That way there is no misunderstanding and having to deal with all of that. |
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03-03-2006, 11:55 AM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 121 Location: New York Status: Married couple
| Re: When someone you have talked to Quote:
I agree honesty is the way to go. But I have had people blow up at me andwent completely crazy. For the most part I just tell them they aren't our type and I would still like to be friends with them. Usually that goes well. Every now and again people go nuts! LOL | |
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03-03-2006, 12:02 PM
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| Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,947 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male
| Re: When someone you have talked to
Look at it this way. The ones that go nuts you don't want to have as freinds anyway. Now if you have led them along for a long time then told them I can see maybe getting a bit upset. Since you know a great deal of this has to do with the way the people look get the picture part, or meeting to see what they look like out of the way soon. Don't drag it out.
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03-03-2006, 02:29 PM
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| Oh...Why not?...  Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple
| Re: When someone you have talked to Quote:
 That's not fair.  Maybe this is letting you know that if you had a nice time talking with them that looks aren't all that important. Otherwise get it out of the way. So what if they're pissed. They'll get over it and so will YOU! M.D. | |
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03-03-2006, 03:48 PM
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| Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,947 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male
| Re: When someone you have talked to
Watch out M.D. That sounded a bit like advise to me. |
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03-03-2006, 04:26 PM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 121 Location: New York Status: Married couple
| Re: When someone you have talked to
LOL sorry guys not trying to be a bitch lol I really am nice hahaha. Just want you to know not everything I post is a personal one haha. Just kinda trying to get an idea of what others do. I know what I do LOL
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03-03-2006, 05:47 PM
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| Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple
| Re: When someone you have talked to Quote:
M.D. | |
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03-03-2006, 10:00 PM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 121 Location: New York Status: Married couple
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Why ? Must be you think I am a bitch LOL Oh well not everyone can like me. LOL | |
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03-03-2006, 11:44 PM
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| Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple
| Re: When someone you have talked to Quote:
  You'd probably be a lot of fun to meet and talk to.M.D. | |
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03-04-2006, 12:04 AM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 121 Location: New York Status: Married couple
| Re: When someone you have talked to
haha ok I was just checking still trying to feel all the dynamics of this board  be easy on the newbie LOL I try to be alot of fun. :P
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03-04-2006, 01:37 AM
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| Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple
| Re: When someone you have talked to Quote:
M.D. | |
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