Prosecutor claims wife's knowledge of visits to AFF as motive for murder

[JustAskJulie]

Prosecutor Says Ryan Widmer Had Motive To Kill - Cincinnati News Story - WLWT Cincinnati

So she found out he was hanging out on AFF... and that was his motive for murder.... some people should really lighten up.

[JustMrJ]

I'd say that without proof that she knew about his AFF activities, that is bullshit.

The only person that knows if that is certain is Ryan and he is not likely to tell us.

[VegasLee]

"So she found out he was hanging out on AFF... and that was his motive for murder"

In this country today, that is correct, the normal people think that way and that is the normal way of thinking for 99.9% of the people in this country.

We live in a very, very twisted society today.

You can get drunk, get in your car, run over a child and kill them and your family will stand behind you, hire the best attorney they can, get on the witness stand and say what a great guy you are and defend you until they turn blue in the face.

You get caught dipping your dick in some strange, which is HUMAN NATURE and they will put a gun to your head and kill you if they can. If nothing else they will break every speed limit getting to an attorney to file the divorce and take everything you own today and in the future.

Now tell me just how normal this country is and how these normal people think and they try to tell me I am going to hell and I should be locked up for my Lifestyle.

[Speed & Trixie]

I'm glad they convicted him, and I'm glad AFF/ swinging got left out of the trial phase.

The last thing we need is people saying the poor woman deserved it, no matter WHAT she was/n't doing behind her hubby's back!

Trixie

[Chicup]

Weird case.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Weird case.

Word.

Also glad it wasn't allowed as evidence. Besides, a man perusing a site means nothing. Lots get their kicks just from window shopping (thus the large number of "no shows" we deal with).

Betcha he also checked out about eleventyteen porn sites that weekend as well. So, I'm going to say it wasn't AFF that made him do it any more than it was hentai tentacle porn.

[pablocasso]

Originally Posted by VegasLee

"So she found out he was hanging out on AFF... and that was his motive for murder"

In this country today, that is correct, the normal people think that way and that is the normal way of thinking for 99.9% of the people in this country.

We live in a very, very twisted society today.

You can get drunk, get in your car, run over a child and kill them and your family will stand behind you, hire the best attorney they can, get on the witness stand and say what a great guy you are and defend you until they turn blue in the face.

You get caught dipping your dick in some strange, which is HUMAN NATURE and they will put a gun to your head and kill you if they can. If nothing else they will break every speed limit getting to an attorney to file the divorce and take everything you own today and in the future.

Now tell me just how normal this country is and how these normal people think and they try to tell me I am going to hell and I should be locked up for my Lifestyle.

Good post, it is like me and you think alike

[realcplub2]

First off.. How did this woman KNOW he had frequented AFF?

Second, How was he listed on AFF? As a Single Male? As a Couple?

Third, anyone step forward to say they had an encounter with these people/this person?

Fourth and finally, I can agree to a point with VegasLee, However.. If they were pursuing this as a couple, what are the chances it was JEALOUSY on HIS part?

Honestly, the whole case would be nothing more than murder, however the factor that this woman brought into it, leaves our community again under scrutiny and in a shadowy spotlight.. No one ever points out how many people are in the lifestyle and gee, the murder rate is pretty low compared to other lifestyle choices.

No one ever talks about people playing the FANTASY LEAGUE FOOTBALL, and how JIM came home after his team traded Joe Blow..

[lovinher]

I'd better hide the guns.

[htscpl]

Originally Posted by Speed & Trixie

I'm glad they convicted him, and I'm glad AFF/ swinging got left out of the trial phase.

The last thing we need is people saying the poor woman deserved it, no matter WHAT she was/n't doing behind her hubby's back!

Trixie

WHOA ! Who's to say they weren't doing the Swinging thing as a couple ? You weren't at the trial neither was I so it is hard for any of us to say, yeah or nay, on the guilt or innocents. I also don't see anyone blaming the victim here.

What should be troubling to those of us in the Lifestyle is the assumption that if you are visiting dating or swinger sites then your marriage is on the rocks and that gives you motive to kill your spouse! If the rest of the world would get over the assumption that there is something wrong with you, your spouse, and/or your marriage if you are a swinger, it would go a long way towards the freedom the Lifestlyle is really about.

Well, that's my two cents.. ok maybe 1/2 a cent.