Swinger traits (good and bad) to watch for?

[SW_PA_Couple]

I find myself not able (I'll be serious this time) to make a list of favorable or unfavorable traits. How I react is intuitive more then analytical.

I will none-the-less give it a try. Top on any list I might make is the readiness to return a smile, a frown or a scowl.

[JustAskJulie]

jealousy is a big one.
If you are talking to one of them and they bad-mouth the other, whether in their presence or not... walk away and never look back.

[SaSsyNsWeEt]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Which planet, my dear fun4Ds, do these people live on. I'd be happy to meet anyone who has any two of the above.

That's because you haven't met us yet!

[Rivertour]

At the meet and greet, look for any signs of drama. If something is said that could lead to drama, it probably will. Graciously walk away. If they are qualities you like in people, then by all means have fun. It is all about the fun, isn't it. The first few times, use a hotel until you are more comfortable, that way if things aren't what you expect, then the potential for issues goes away. By all means, never burn bridges, especially within the lifestyle. People can cause difficulties in your life. Don't want to be a Debbie Downer here, for the most part, we have met some truly nice people through the lifestyle. Good Luck and have fun, and always be cognizant of your partner, because he/she is the only thing that truly matters.