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Old 08-27-2010, 01:21 AM   3 links from elsewhere to this Post. Click to view. #1 (permalink)
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Ms. AZdr and I have been together 5 years and have almost as long been talking about having a threesome with another girl. Of course finding a unicorn has been next to impossible, although we have had a few near misses that have only made us more eager. The Ms. and I make love 7 to 10 times a week, and if I even mention another girl going down on her, she cums immediately...and hard...Works for me too!

We have finally decided to enlist the services of a beautiful escort when we go to Las Vegas in several weeks. We found a beautiful, well reviewed escort online and have already scheduled an appointment. Since then, we have probably doubled our love making activity and the Ms. has been coming 3 to 4 times per session....just from the thought of Vegas.

So, here is the question. For those who have had threesomes the same way....any advice for us?
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I personally wouldn't do it.

The thought of paying someone for sex of any kind is a total turn off for me. I have to know everyone is into it and wants to do it. I think it's a bad idea but to each his own.
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I'm with closetswinger. The idea of paying somebody for sex never even began to float my boat, or even offer a drop of water. Just me I guess.

I know it can be hard to find a unicorn, and maybe this is a way through that if you're both ok paying somebody to have sex with you.

That said, I'd do it legally. There are legal brothels in Nevada that service all sorts of kinks. This isn't a kink, or even close. Wives are welcome at brothels. Plus, the women at brothels are regularly tested for STDs. Escorts, it's a crap shoot. I've heard the STD rate among prostitutes in Vegas is over 50%.

There are plenty of brothels listed in the yellow pages in Nevada. You can find lists of them online. Call them, and you can prove to yourself they'll welcome you AND your wife.

In short, if you're going to do this, do it right.
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Its your choice going this route, I have no objections.....

OK, Ill cut the bullshit. Hiring as hooker was always a fantasy of mine !

Although not experienced other than role-playing, which seemed pretty fulfilling of my desire...

Sheepishly, I want every detail while you do this


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Just curious. I have had some misconceptions about sex for hire in Nevada in another post (VegasLee straightened me out) as I have never done that.

Maybe I am being naive again, but how do you know the escort service provides women that are for hire sexually. Since I know they are legal all over the place, there surely some that provide JUST escort service. How do you know she will be up for a threesome or even sex for that matter?
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Just curious. I have had some misconceptions about sex for hire in Nevada in another post (VegasLee straightened me out) as I have never done that.

Maybe I am being naive again, but how do you know the escort service provides women that are for hire sexually. Since I know they are legal all over the place, there surely some that provide JUST escort service. How do you know she will be up for a threesome or even sex for that matter?
2 more questions to ask yourself:

1. How do you know it is not a police sting operation?

2. How safe is she? STD's.

Ads are meant to make everything look better than real life. VegasLee like you said has good knowledge on the Vegas/Nevada situation in this area. Listen to him.
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Just curious. I have had some misconceptions about sex for hire in Nevada in another post (VegasLee straightened me out) as I have never done that.

Maybe I am being naive again, but how do you know the escort service provides women that are for hire sexually. Since I know they are legal all over the place, there surely some that provide JUST escort service. How do you know she will be up for a threesome or even sex for that matter?
Well, we have done a bit of research. First, we are not planning to use an escort agency. There are many independent women out there and quite a few that cater to couples. There are also many sites on the web that provide reviews from previous customers with the biggest being the erotic review. These will give you a good idea about what the girl is willing to do.

This idea is very exciting to us. Of course we would also love to find the unicorn who is not an escort and will keep on searching!
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Old 08-27-2010, 10:57 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Ok, what your setting up in Vegas IS NOT LEGAL.

Might be legit, might be a police set up, might be you getting ready to get ripped off.

The pictures of the girls on the web sites, in the phone books and on those cards they pass out on the Las Vegas Strip are just that, PICTURES. They are NOT the girls that will meet you. I know this for a couple of reasons. I know the owner of the largest escort agency in Vegas, he buys pictures from photo dealers of very hot looking women. He would NEVER publish a photo of a girl that worked for him even if she was hot. He has better sense then that. Why put a picture of your real girls out there for the police to keep on file?

The STD rate is not 50% plus on the illegal hookers in Vegas. That is one of those great Vegas rumors that people like to spread. The health department says that rumor can not be backed up with facts but does not keep people from spreading it. Many of them are druggies though.

Why take the legal chance when you can hit the legal places. Some of them will even send a Limo to your hotel and pick you up. They are about a hour away. Nice women, Nice places and clean. The women are checked each week and have a clean bill of health.

Nothing wrong with what you want to do if that is what works for you but might as well try to be safe about it.

Many of them that "come to you" will quote you a low price. All that normally does is get them to your room. Once they get there it is a whole different ball game. They will want more money no matter what they tell you in Email or on the phone. That is how the game is played in Vegas.

Do the girls at the legal houses cost more? More then you are quoted up front by the local girls yes. When all is said and done most of them are not any more expense then what you will really pay for what you want.

If you want to know about a couple nice legal places send me a message and I will give you links to them. I know the owners of two of the best and nicest places in Nevada.


Vegas is great but you have to use good common sense or you are asking for trouble in this town.

Come to Vegas, have fun but think before you do something you may regret.
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2 more questions to ask yourself:

1. How do you know it is not a police sting operation?

2. How safe is she? STD's.

Ads are meant to make everything look better than real life. VegasLee like you said has good knowledge on the Vegas/Nevada situation in this area. Listen to him.
1) Most of the escorts have reviews and history. I guess you never know if it is a sting operation, however I believe most of the sting operations go after the escorts, not the customers.

2) STD's are also a worry. I guess not really different than with a swing partner. You need to have some precautions, no different than any partner. Also, I do not believe the STD rate is that high. Many of the high end girls are very safe, although from what I have read, most the girls will do BBBJ's which is not a high risk activity.

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Sting operations can go after both.

The reviews and histories can be developed and managed by them.

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You have been cautioned. Prostitution is not legal in Vegas.
That being said, we know a couple personally that got caught in a sting operation in Vegas.

If you want to experience your fantasy and pay for it go over the hump to Pahrump. Prostitution is legal in that county. There are a couple of brothels who will be happy to fill your fantasy.

If you do not know how to find them ask at the Pahrump Chamber of Commerce. We were guided to one of the brothels as one of the best places to eat in the county.

The Philly Cheese Stake sandwich at Shari's is very good.

We did not, have not, and will never pay for sex with an escort or what ever you choose to call her or him. It would be a big turn off for us.

That being said we are not judgmental. Do as you like. But you have cautioned by several of us who have no dog in this hunt to avoid any call girl/escort service in Vegas.
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1) Most of the escorts have reviews and history. I guess you never know if it is a sting operation, however I believe most of the sting operations go after the escorts, not the customers.
Think again. This was just this week.

Henderson Police officer busted in prostitution sting

If they will bust a cop, they will bust you.
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Think again. This was just this week.

Henderson Police officer busted in prostitution sting

If they will bust a cop, they will bust you.
Thanks for the caution. I hear you and maybe the legal way is the best. Just did not want to travel the hour out to the brothel. While I know stings are a possibility, I feel that you can take a lot of the risk out of it with homework. We have already contacted one very well reviewed, higher end Courtesan and believe, she is even more worried about security than we are!

We will let you know how it goes. Maybe we will get lucky and find a single girl, non-escort before then.
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Thanks for the caution. I hear you and maybe the legal way is the best. Just did not want to travel the hour out to the brothel. While I know stings are a possibility, I feel that you can take a lot of the risk out of it with homework. We have already contacted one very well reviewed, higher end Courtesan and believe, she is even more worried about security than we are!

We will let you know how it goes. Maybe we will get lucky and find a single girl, non-escort before then.
What homework? I bet the vice cop who got busted would like to know the answer also. Here is some of my homework: Las Vegas lawyers explain Nevada Solicitation & Prostitution laws hope it helps.

Again, reviews are only worth the time it took her to type it. Higher end Courtesan? Is she 7 feet tall? Her worry about security may get you a quick thump when he shows up to roll you. She is just trying to ensure you are not police.

We keep harping as a group. Most of us have already worked thru this fantasy of yours. We are not trying to move at the speed of light in order to achieve it.

And watch all the COPS shows that you can, especially the stings. I love cops, the show.
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If we don't hear back from you I guess we can assume things did not go well

As they say you can lead a horse to water.

If there is one thing I have learned on this board (actually there are many things lol) It is that when it comes to Las Vegas, listening to VegasLee is a good idea.

Good luck, I hope it works out well for you.
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