First time....with an Escort!

[azcoupledr]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

This I can understand, although I don't understand your limitations finding another female companion ? Could you expand on this ?


Well its obvious you have a small group of people who HAVE used this alternative route. Sure anyone could voice their opinion on why they haven't or wouldn't, thats easy enough.. I hate to be Bobby Bummer but dang, were all adults here. Prostitution IS the oldest profession known to mankind. The OP didn't say anything remotely close to finding some crack head on a corner and doing the dirty deed. I think they have done their homework, know the ramifications, and made their choice. The are asking for experience or advice in something.

The thing is, do people who choose different alternatives have the answers. I say NO. Unless you have known or been with a professional hooker how can anyone say ?

I ask the OP AZcouple to share their experience, every detail. Not because I don't have an imagination, I can guess the worst possible scenerio....I can also be open minded enough to think of the possible good outcome. So why not follow along with them ? It might be a chance for postiterity....

I don't promote illegal prostitution, however I don't chastise people on something I personally haven't tried. I speak from personal experience and advise through that experience. I also think prostitution should be legal, but this isn't about anyones opinion of what is right or wrong.

I think plain and simple the OP asked for experienced opinions and this has gone to almost persacution. I ask, to share the details for others to learn something who may follow this path and yes I believe do it legally to begin with. I don't think anyone broke any laws at this point. I have to wonder what peoples ideas might have been had the OP enlisted the legal opportunities and what all might have said then ? What if at this point they do take a legal route, what would the questions be ?

Trying to stay on topic... AZCOUPLE, you mentioned that this phone call put MrsAZ at ease. Could you tell me how ?

Hi Fun4D's, thanks for the interest We will definitely keep you up to date on how this goes. Your first question understanding our limitations on finding another female companion. Well, I think this is hard on many couples. First, at this time, we are BOTH only interested in females. We do not want to swap with another couple, nor loan the females out to each other. The Mrs. is also VERY willing, but not that outgoing. When in public places, she is not really ready to approach other single women....she gets very nervous.

We are looking for an escort as a sure thing, and are looking for a very high end girlfriend experience. We know we are paying her....but consider it kind of like role playing...hopefully she is really into it....or at least a good actress. We have found a very well reviewed escort who we are planning to see. We have never discussed money. Her website details the donation required, but we are assured it is an all inclusive experience. We are expected to leave the donation in the bathroom without ever discussing money.

We have spoke on the phone once and she was looking to understand boundries and limitations. She also put the Mrs. at ease...was very flirty...fun to chat with...and down to earth.....

We are VERY much looking forward to our first threesome!

[LikeMinds321]

Your date should be coming up in about a week.

When is your date with the escort?

Will you first meet in a public place, then go to a hotel room?

LM

[fun4Ds]

I think allot about peoples safety, for reasons of our own I suppose.

What precautions have you taken at this point ?

Have you considered having someone to make a contact with via phone throughout the experience ? (Just a check) We do, if we have any suspicions and quite honestly we promote this to all, when meeting unknown people.

[azcoupledr]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Your date should be coming up in about a week.

When is your date with the escort?

Will you first meet in a public place, then go to a hotel room?

LM

Not so close, we are actually going to be in Vegas the last week of September....so still almost 4 weeks to go. The plan is to meet in the bar for a drink, make sure we are all comfortable, then go back to the room.

No money is ever discussed and there is no commitment. If for whatever reason, we are not happy at the bar, you do not need to go forward.

There are quite a number of independent escorts that cater to couples and are well reviewed on line.

Of course, if anyone here really worries about our safety and has a hotwife who wants to role play as an escort...we would would consider that too!

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by azcoupledr

Not so close, we are actually going to be in Vegas the last week of September....so still almost 4 weeks to go. The plan is to meet in the bar for a drink, make sure we are all comfortable, then go back to the room.

Well now thats not what I was expecting to hear I would have thought a deposit or some form of retainer fee ? Keep in mind, I have only had my information from men who claimed the use of a professional. But even with them, descriptions were vague....

No money is ever discussed and there is no commitment. If for whatever reason, we are not happy at the bar, you do not need to go forward.

If you wouldn't mind I would like to hear how this discussion goes later on. And I know, this may in fact be the stopper.

Of course, if anyone here really worries about our safety and has a hotwife who wants to role play as an escort...we would would consider that too!

Ohhh, so Now you see why my fantasy turned out so good with Mrsfun and her friend. But thats the thing, I did pay them with my savings. The money was gone other than they picked up the breakfast tab

The thing is, I learned something from it. Like others, I think the reciprocation is where I would feel the pang. I'm not trying to sound naive, but there is something about a professional wanting to be with us/me without the money, because we were in fact still a fun couple to be with. That is there for me personally. I know that doesn't make sense.... Funny when we cant find our own answers sometimes.


Again, please keep us posted with how you feel along the way, even if you decide not to follow through