Question (about swinging definitions)

micropilot · 07-14-2010, 01:26 AM

Hi I'm new to the forum, just wondering how do you call when you want to have sex with your wife and be watch by other couples while they are having sex at the same time. That is something that me and my wife have been talking about to start with and then see what happened . It is one of our fantasies but want to take baby steps and then see how it goes.

thanks, Jose

slevin · 07-14-2010, 02:29 AM

Exhibitionism and Voyeurism would be what I'd call it. How I would describe it in a profile?

"We're exhibitionists and we want to experiment with having sex in the same room as another couple. No swapping or anything like that; just having sex with your own partner in the same room as us"

PB&J · 07-14-2010, 03:28 AM

Or I see it called "watch and be watched"

ViSexual · 07-14-2010, 03:39 AM

If you're asking what the term is, well, it's;

SRS (Same Room Sex)

And I think you'll find plenty of couples who are into just this. It's probably the softest of 'Soft Swinging' and a lot of fun.

Now, to be honest, it's usually the starting point for newbies and, like marijuana leads to hard drugs, can lead to more advanced swinging! LOL!

**two4youinswva** · 07-14-2010, 05:48 AM

I have heard all three of the above mentioned terms used:
Exhibitionism/Voyeurism
Watch & Be Watched
Same Room Sex

Use any (or all) of these descriptors and folks will pretty much understand what you're looking for.

LagniappeDC · 07-14-2010, 07:08 AM

Sounds right to us. That is exactly where we started. Was very hot for us and sure you'll find fun people to experiment with. Heck, we still enjoy watching and being watched after all this time! Good luck.

micropilot · 07-14-2010, 01:25 PM

Thanks for all your replys

MsGoneWild · 07-15-2010, 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ViSexual

If you're asking what the term is, well, it's;

SRS (Same Room Sex)

And I think you'll find plenty of couples who are into just this. It's probably the softest of 'Soft Swinging' and a lot of fun.

Now, to be honest, it's usually the starting point for newbies and, like marijuana leads to hard drugs, can lead to more advanced swinging! LOL!

haha, i read this and thought.. omg full-swap is the crack of the swing life style!

SecretAsianMan · 07-15-2010, 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsGoneWild

haha, i read this and thought.. omg full-swap is the crack of the swing life style!

No no... "the crack" in the Lifestyle is a different thing, luv.

(I mean, technically - wouldn't that be anal?)

Suburbia · 07-15-2010, 02:07 PM

Same Room Sex is definitely a gateway swing. Its how my wife and I started and now we are full blown swap and even play alone.

sweet_tna · 07-15-2010, 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

No no... "the crack" in the Lifestyle is a different thing, luv.

(I mean, technically - wouldn't that be anal?)

Yeah, it would more likely be the "blow" of the lifestyle . . . (ahem)

=)

M1F2KTJ · 07-16-2010, 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Suburbia

Same Room Sex is definitely a gateway swing. Its how my wife and I started and now we are full blown swap and even play alone.

I agree. We shared a room with another couple one time on vacation and we both had sex at the same time. I looked over and watched him having sex with his wife and I caught him looking over at us. It was kind of awkward. We were all horny and it was just a natural thing to do. I thought I could sneak it in and we tried to be quiet about it. It was cool that we both had the same idea. The room was dark but there was enough light from the lights outside to see and know what was going on. I didn't know if her or the other guys wife watched or saw what was going on. His wife was really cute and sexy and to see her there enjoying getting fucked by her husband was awesome. I wanted to take his place and I wouldn't have minded if he took my place. That wasn't going to happen without talking about it with her or them first. I didn't want to ruin the vacation.

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07-14-2010, 01:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
micropilot Registered User Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 2 Location: Albuquerque NM Status: Couple	Question (about swinging definitions) Hi I'm new to the forum, just wondering how do you call when you want to have sex with your wife and be watch by other couples while they are having sex at the same time. That is something that me and my wife have been talking about to start with and then see what happened . It is one of our fantasies but want to take baby steps and then see how it goes. thanks, Jose

07-14-2010, 02:29 AM	#2 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,215 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: Question Exhibitionism and Voyeurism would be what I'd call it. How I would describe it in a profile? "We're exhibitionists and we want to experiment with having sex in the same room as another couple. No swapping or anything like that; just having sex with your own partner in the same room as us"

07-14-2010, 03:28 AM	#3 (permalink)
PB&J Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,308 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple	Re: Question Or I see it called "watch and be watched"
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07-14-2010, 03:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
ViSexual Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 521 Location: Florida Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Visexual	Re: Question If you're asking what the term is, well, it's; SRS (Same Room Sex) And I think you'll find plenty of couples who are into just this. It's probably the softest of 'Soft Swinging' and a lot of fun. Now, to be honest, it's usually the starting point for newbies and, like marijuana leads to hard drugs, can lead to more advanced swinging! LOL!

07-14-2010, 05:48 AM	#5 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,653 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads	Re: Question I have heard all three of the above mentioned terms used: Exhibitionism/Voyeurism Watch & Be Watched Same Room Sex Use any (or all) of these descriptors and folks will pretty much understand what you're looking for.
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07-14-2010, 07:08 AM	#6 (permalink)
LagniappeDC Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 203 Location: Washington DC Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:lagniappeDC	Re: Question Sounds right to us. That is exactly where we started. Was very hot for us and sure you'll find fun people to experiment with. Heck, we still enjoy watching and being watched after all this time! Good luck.
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07-14-2010, 01:25 PM	#7 (permalink)
micropilot Registered User Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 2 Location: Albuquerque NM Status: Couple	Re: Question Thanks for all your replys

07-15-2010, 02:07 PM	#10 (permalink)
Suburbia Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 35 Location: Beavercreek, OH Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:suburbia	Re: Question Same Room Sex is definitely a gateway swing. Its how my wife and I started and now we are full blown swap and even play alone.

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