me my wife and my nephew

marcuss · 05-07-2010, 05:59 PM

my wife has an attraction to my nephew .and its obvious he likes her as well.i have talked tomy wife kim i will call her about having a threesome for the first time.i think my nephew jack would be willing and she would as well.i think i would enjoy this as well.my problem is im afraid its to close to home.we are both new to this and would like it to be safe and and with someone we both trust to keep the secret.we have been married 30 yrs and are very curious to try this.are we crazy? has anyone else played this way before?

ps my nephew is 25 yrs of age and i dont want male to male contact.neither would he just fun with the wife

LikeMinds321 · 05-07-2010, 07:51 PM

This would not be a good idea for many reasons.

You said that you felt he could be trusted to keep a secret. My feeling is that because he is your nephew, he would be more apt to let it be known that he has had sex with his aunt. Maybe not on purpose, but is the risk of your family finding out worth it? I also think that at 25 yo he could become attached to your wife.

I'm guessing your a couple around 50 years old. It's hot to think about being with a man that young. It seems so convient since he's someone you know and he's hot for your wife and she is for him. However, I think you'll realize, on further consideration, that this is a bad idea.

It's not uncommon for couples to look at people they know to start their swing journey with. It seems "easy" and "convenient" that way, but going this route is like driving through a dirt road full of land mines waiting to tear you apart.

If you want a MFM threesome there are hundreds of men to choose from who are registered on swinger ad sites. You can take your time finding the right man for you. You never need to give him your last name, you don't need to tell him where you live, or what you do for a living. Spend some time with him over dinner or drinks, or meet him at a swingers club, and when you feel you can trust him, you'll have your man.

Take plenty of time to learn about swinging through reading these forums. You'll find there is a lot to consider before swinging. Find out what you'll be getting yourselves into.

to the Swingers Board.

LM

**SW_PA_Couple** · 05-07-2010, 09:10 PM

WELCOME to The Swingersboard. I'm glad you found us.

I will not offer an opinion on whether this is good or bad. I will offer an opinion as to whether or not this is swinging. It is not.

~Michael

**two4youinswva** · 05-07-2010, 10:48 PM

Welcome to the board!

Did you read the reply from LikeMinds321? Good! Now, read it again.

The number of things that could go (horribly) wrong in this scenario makes it a situation that we'd definitely avoid.

Best of luck to you!

marcuss · 05-08-2010, 05:54 AM

thank you everyone!we have not approached this with my nephew.and after reading the advice from likeminds321 we WONT! i guess the thought of the situation outwayed my common scence.im glad i had a place to post my ?

Meetussoon · 05-08-2010, 08:56 AM

Although you may need to wade through a certain number of pretenders, there are lots of honest, respectful, single males out there to take this leap with. There are also, trustworthy, honest married men in open swinging marriages who can help. HINT. LOL.

Tom

**fun4Ds** · 05-08-2010, 11:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marcuss

thank you everyone!we have not approached this with my nephew.and after reading the advice from likeminds321 we WONT! i guess the thought of the situation outwayed my common scence.im glad i had a place to post my ?

Thanks for listening to some great advice marcuss, and welcome to the Swingers Board

What do you guys think now ?

Do you think you'll take different alternatives ? If so, what would you find exciting ?

fun4ds

marcuss · 05-09-2010, 06:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Thanks for listening to some great advice marcuss, and welcome to the Swingers Board

What do you guys think now ?

Do you think you'll take different alternatives ? If so, what would you find exciting ?

fun4ds

yes fun 4ds were definetly going to move in a safer direction.were going to start talking with other couples on swinger sites and slow our game plan down a little.

***JustAskJulie*** · 05-09-2010, 08:47 AM

Why is this NOT swinging? To the OP, typically playing with family especially young guys who may be apt to talk is probably not the best choice. As you said too close to home. That said, to answer your question, my first threesome was with my (now ex) husband and my sister in law (my brothers wife). Granted no blood relationship involved anywhere in the scenario so it's a little different. Other than possible age/maturity/discretion issues I don't see an issue with your scenario.

Chicup · 05-09-2010, 09:53 AM

Yea, no blood relationship makes it a little different.

Sort of like the difference between being on Donahue and Springer.

**two4youinswva** · 05-09-2010, 10:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

Yea, no blood relationship makes it a little different.

Sort of like the difference between being on Donahue and Springer.

Dammitsomuch, you owe me a keyboard.

DiscreetDesires · 05-10-2010, 10:48 AM

Sounds like you've made a good decision Marcuss!

Welcome to board and have fun on your journey together!!

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05-07-2010, 05:59 PM	#1 (permalink)
marcuss Registered Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 3 Location: ohio Status: couple	me my wife and my nephew my wife has an attraction to my nephew .and its obvious he likes her as well.i have talked tomy wife kim i will call her about having a threesome for the first time.i think my nephew jack would be willing and she would as well.i think i would enjoy this as well.my problem is im afraid its to close to home.we are both new to this and would like it to be safe and and with someone we both trust to keep the secret.we have been married 30 yrs and are very curious to try this.are we crazy? has anyone else played this way before?ps my nephew is 25 yrs of age and i dont want male to male contact.neither would he just fun with the wife
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05-07-2010, 07:51 PM	#2 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: me my wife and my nephew This would not be a good idea for many reasons. You said that you felt he could be trusted to keep a secret. My feeling is that because he is your nephew, he would be more apt to let it be known that he has had sex with his aunt. Maybe not on purpose, but is the risk of your family finding out worth it? I also think that at 25 yo he could become attached to your wife. I'm guessing your a couple around 50 years old. It's hot to think about being with a man that young. It seems so convient since he's someone you know and he's hot for your wife and she is for him. However, I think you'll realize, on further consideration, that this is a bad idea. It's not uncommon for couples to look at people they know to start their swing journey with. It seems "easy" and "convenient" that way, but going this route is like driving through a dirt road full of land mines waiting to tear you apart. If you want a MFM threesome there are hundreds of men to choose from who are registered on swinger ad sites. You can take your time finding the right man for you. You never need to give him your last name, you don't need to tell him where you live, or what you do for a living. Spend some time with him over dinner or drinks, or meet him at a swingers club, and when you feel you can trust him, you'll have your man. Take plenty of time to learn about swinging through reading these forums. You'll find there is a lot to consider before swinging. Find out what you'll be getting yourselves into. to the Swingers Board. LM
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05-07-2010, 09:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
SW_PA_Couple Julie's Helper Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,679 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Status: a very married man Swing Lifestyle Name:SW_PA_Couple	Re: me my wife and my nephew WELCOME to The Swingersboard. I'm glad you found us. I will not offer an opinion on whether this is good or bad. I will offer an opinion as to whether or not this is swinging. It is not. ~Michael
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05-07-2010, 10:48 PM	#4 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,653 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads	Re: me my wife and my nephew Welcome to the board! Did you read the reply from LikeMinds321? Good! Now, read it again. The number of things that could go (horribly) wrong in this scenario makes it a situation that we'd definitely avoid. Best of luck to you!
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05-08-2010, 05:54 AM	#5 (permalink)
marcuss Registered Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 3 Location: ohio Status: couple	Re: me my wife and my nephew thank you everyone!we have not approached this with my nephew.and after reading the advice from likeminds321 we WONT! i guess the thought of the situation outwayed my common scence.im glad i had a place to post my ?

05-08-2010, 08:56 AM	#6 (permalink)
Meetussoon Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 133 Location: Toledo, Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:meetussoon2000	Re: me my wife and my nephew Although you may need to wade through a certain number of pretenders, there are lots of honest, respectful, single males out there to take this leap with. There are also, trustworthy, honest married men in open swinging marriages who can help. HINT. LOL. Tom

05-09-2010, 08:47 AM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: me my wife and my nephew Why is this NOT swinging? To the OP, typically playing with family especially young guys who may be apt to talk is probably not the best choice. As you said too close to home. That said, to answer your question, my first threesome was with my (now ex) husband and my sister in law (my brothers wife). Granted no blood relationship involved anywhere in the scenario so it's a little different. Other than possible age/maturity/discretion issues I don't see an issue with your scenario.
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05-09-2010, 09:53 AM	#10 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: me my wife and my nephew Yea, no blood relationship makes it a little different. Sort of like the difference between being on Donahue and Springer.

05-10-2010, 10:48 AM	#12 (permalink)
DiscreetDesires Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 122 Location: Houston, Texas Status: Married Couple	Re: me my wife and my nephew Sounds like you've made a good decision Marcuss! Welcome to board and have fun on your journey together!!
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