Forty, Fifty something women: sex with younger guy (20-something)- problem for you?

[Golden_men]

If young guy try to seduce you, will you let him?

Kissing, sex with young guy will be difficult for you?

[TheLorax]

I am not an older woman, but I can tell you that as a younger man,
when I was in my early 20s I got a *lot* of action from women in the 35-45
age range. I knew they just wanted to play and that was ok. There wasn't the crap to deal with of game playing that women my age were into (not all of them, but it was far more prevalent). They knew what they wanted, were straightforward about pursuing it, and in almost all cases I had a great time. As a young man, like most young men, I didn't have a lot of experience with women being open about expressing interest in me, so it was a great ego boost.

[sahajacpl]

Originally Posted by Golden_men

If young guy try to seduce you, will you let him?Kissing, sex with young guy will be difficult for you?

Male here. Just the opposite. In my early twenties it was older women, some even married, who tried to seduce me. It was fun fucking these older women. I did fuck two older women who were married. The sex with them was just great. I learned a lot from the married women about how to pleasure a woman and the art of sexual intercourse, the many different ways how to fuck and the effective use of the penis to pleasure her and to bring her to orgasm.

[SecretAsianMan]

Originally Posted by Golden_men

If young guy try to seduce you, will you let him?

Kissing, sex with young guy will be difficult for you?

I think most gals like the idea of being with a younger guy (hence the whole trend of "cougars" ... "MILFs" ... and even "GILFs" )

[TNT]

Originally Posted by Golden_men

If young guy try to seduce you, will you let him?

Kissing, sex with young guy will be difficult for you?

The variables are numerous...they include, what mood I'm in, what his maturity level is, the atmosphere I met/meet him in and if I want to be a teacher or not.

I've had sex with men 20 years younger than me...but, it's not something that I really pursue...I'd rather have sex with a man who is equal to me in sexual knowledge or has something to teach me. Older men (30+) have less hang-ups where sex is concerned and for me personally a bit more fun. However, if all variables line up I don't have a problem having sex with a younger (20 something) man.


Teresa

[red96]

Since we have sons in their mid to late 20's we find it awkward to be with men that age. Can't get over the thought they are young enough to be our child I guess. We did hook up with one guy in that age range and it was a fun experience but we still felt a little uncomfortable. We prefer gentleman that are closer to our ages. Late 30's to early 50's but that does not mean we do not consider younger guys we just do not seek them out.

[CXXC]

I speak for Mrs. CXXC here as she and I have had this conversation several times. As she is 35, the age difference is really not that great. Men in their 20's are perfectly fine to play with regarding the "Age" factor. However, when one considers their experience levels, consideration and pleasure factors and maturity, she is prone to seek men in their 30's to upper 40's. There have been a handfull of 20 somethings that have been a complete surprise to her. However, they are few and far between. They simply don't know what to do or how to treat a woman!

[exploringRM]

My wife is 48 and several months ago was having fun with 25 year old at a meet and greet. It was off-premise so they never really got naked together though he did invite us to a hotel party (he managed the events there) that was in a few weeks. Alas it never came to be as we could not make the party. She did enjoy the attention!

While we don't actively seek out younger couples (or single men either) if the opportunity is there I think she would go for it.

[lv2prty]

i love younger men. fun to teach them. i love to do things to them that a young girl would never do.

[Golden_men]

Originally Posted by lv2prty

i love younger men. fun to teach them. i love to do things to them that a young girl would never do.

What kind of things ?

[LFM2]

I'm 46. I have problems even thinking about having sex with someone younger than our own children. Our oldest is 28. I have no idea how I'd handle it, but there is a young man (he's 24) who loves older women. I've never even met him IRL, but he sure does write a ton of emails. I don't know... maybe someday I'll think differently. Maybe I'm missing out on something really fun?!?

[kewlcitycpl]

Although I prefer men who are 30+ years old, I have been with a few guys in their 20's including one in his early 20's. They certainly are filled with enthusiasm and stamina, and can make more a fun time. One thing that is important to me however is their level of maturity, even at that young age. I certainly am not interested in being with a young guy who will then go and tell all his buddies about the encounter.

For those women who have been with a much younger guy, do you feel very sexy knowing that a guy so much younger is so excited to be with you? I know that is part of the thrill for me.

Marilyn

[Chicup]

I for one could never have sex with a woman younger than my daughter.

Of course shes three.......

But seriously when I was younger, I was completely turned off by older woman. Whats interesting, is that while I've gotten older my 'upper' strike zone has stayed the same years wise as it was. It just goes up 1 or so every year. Obviously its not a hard fast rule though.

On the flip side, unless the young woman was of greater than average maturity and intelligence I'd be reluctant to swing with a woman half my age.

[lv2prty]

okay, to answer some questions from golden men and kewlcitycouple.kewlcitycouple asks it a turn on to know that a young guy would want to do me, the answer is YES< YES< YES. The advantage to me is their beautiful rock hard bodies get me rocking right away. they are usually very horny and eagar. They will most likely let me rub them and lick them longer. most older experienced guys want to move in to quick and they want to be in charge. with the young guys I am in charge. Also i love to be the teacher to the young guys that really have never learned yet how to please a women. i show them where the g spot is and i love to ride them like no young fragile, respectable girl would.

[curiousagain]

I've had sex with women younger than my oldest child and then had an issue with it. But, a female friend pointed something out to me. I spent about a year during my middle twenties dating only women in their forties and early fifties kind of experimenting and enjoying NSA sex just for the joy of it. She said she had done the same in her twenties, dating only older men for a lot of the same reasons. She asked why I wasn't comfortable being on the other side of the same situation, helping someone to experiment, enjoy, and maybe learn a little. It was a bit of BFO (blinding flash of the obvious) for me. The only worry I've had about it since is how other people might perceive it, but I tend to worry less about those things as time goes on.

Each moment occurs only once, enjoy them.