What if he has a much larger penis than me?

[cutecuple]

You are going to run into many "what ifs". Not sure your ready for this....we've been with couples that aren't ready and it will lead to disaster.

Might want to talk to her about....plus its about enjoying yourself. If she meets a guy with a large penis......good. You'll both be better cause of it if your communication is there.

[PleasureO]

You shouldn't worry about something like that. If you & her are secure in you relationship that becomes a after thought. Also if you two have a good relationship with your playmates it is not even a thought. I"ve been in this a situation couple times. In fact some playmates of ours the husband's cock is about 1-1-1/2 inches longer and about 1 inch fatter then I am, however he is 6'3" 290 lb. But since we all have a good relationship we not in competition with each other or each others wives.

[Mr.Essex]

If a larger than average penis was a woman's sole requirement in a man, then a microphallus would measure 8" x 6". Instead, microphalluses are always under the 2" mark and men are still being born and reaching physical maturity with penises that barely measure 5" on a good day with maximum stimulation. Bottom line, if you're insistent on entering the swinging lifestyle, you'll eventually meet a man who dwarfs you in cock size. Hell, I'm well-endowed enough that 9 times out of 10 I'm the biggest guy in the room, yet that 1 time out of 10 has occured enough that I don't sweat the measurement. Believe me: you haven't truly entered into the swinging lifestyle until you've found yourself at a party or in a club surrounded by gossiping women who "accidentally" peeked in the shower and saw "Big Bad John". Allowing that fear to derail your desire is senseless to the extreme, and (unless you're literally under the 3" mark) your size is sufficient to satisfy any woman who crosses your path. And if you are under the 3" mark, there's always room for happyfunsquirt time! Bring a woman or 5 to a squirting orgasm and they'll line up for a chance to taste your teeny weeny. Hell, you'll probably make yourself the most popular guy in the club!

[mjsocal]

It seems to us that the point of swinging is to experience someone different from your spouse. A bigger penis, a different race, a younger or older person are all part of the equation. I doubt you wife is with you because of the size of your penis and chances are she's already had bigger before you came along and yet she is with you. So relax and enjoy her pleasure and your own as well.

[actorstuntman]

My wife and I starting out wanting to have 3-ways with women.I thought it would eventually lead to her having sex with men too.I suggested we have a threesome with a male first.As it turns out I enjoyed that even better than the sex with two women.
We had sex with a friend of mine 3 times.I loved watching them.
I also had a fantasy to seek out a guy who was larger and see him with my wife.But as it turned out she played with it for awhile.But didn't want to actually go through with it.She preferred to be with a friend,where she felt more comfortable.Someone she knew and was at ease with.Someone we could trust to be gentle.
In fact we never did end up with a very large guy after all.Most of the time people worry about things that never even happen.
In a twist my biggest fantasy is still wanting to see her with a guy who is huge.To see her pussy tying to take it all in.To see her enjoy getting fucked by a large cock.
Everytime we had a threesome with a male we fucked like mad over and over for 3 days afterwards.It was the best sex I've ever had and it started with seeing another man fuck her in front of me.

[oncewere]

Having been granted a much undersized penis, I understand. To compensate, I've had to practice, to be as effective as I can be. I avoided certain positions and made sure that I connected well in the positions that worked best. Foreplay made a big difference. That took a lot of experimenting and practice -- not a bad thing in itself.

If you are concerned about being on the short side, try advertising the length of your dick plus the length of your tongue.

Seriously, if you can satisfy your partner, you are OK. If she enjoys a bigger dick once in a while, treat it as your gift to her. Look at it this way, she doesn't have to give the rest of you up to find variety.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by oncewere

. . . If you are concerned about being on the short side, try advertising the length of your dick plus the length of your tongue. . .

If, when you arrive at the party, the girls see you licking your eyebrows, you can rest assured that they will pay very little attention to any other physical attributes.