What if he has a much larger penis than me?

[Miss Sunshine]

It won't matter how big he is, it's a matter of playing and having fun. If he is bigger then go with the flow!

[BiloxiCouple]

With my 12 inch penis, he better be ready to impress.

[lv2prty]

i agree, let your wife enjoy it. if she loves you she will know that it is a treat and she won't just give you up. think about it like this, i like ice cream and eat it alot. sometimes i get nuts on my ice cream, but i nevr toss the ice cream aside to just eat the nuts. ha ha

[JustAskJulie]

size is so not everything. And sex is not making love. So there are two things. Shey may enjoy him a lot and she may even develop "new toy syndrome" where she wants more of him and it may make you feel "less than" but it's important to understand that that doesn't mean she enjoys him more, wants him more or even loves him. He's just different. You are still the one she loves.

[willyoats]

If swinging is really right for you, size won't make any difference.

We have had probably 100 partners over the years. Out all of those, at least one was bigger, one was smaller, one had nicer breasts, one had nicer ass, one had nicer hair, one was more romantic, one was better built, one was ... Get the picture? If swinging is right for you, none of that will matter in the long run. You will still love your primary partner more than anybody else.

If that doesn't happen, then you will have found out that swinging is not really right for you. Then, you'd better patchup your primary relationship or get out.

[Edison Carter]

Ed here--Sometimes it surprises me that people claim to be interested in Swinging for sexual variety then, when faced sexual variety exclaim,"Oh, not that kind."

It's like going to a steakhouse then telling your hosts you're a vegetarian. Sheeesh

[The Fuse]

Originally Posted by willyoats

If swinging is really right for you, size won't make any difference.

We have had probably 100 partners over the years. Out all of those, at least one was bigger, one was smaller, one had nicer breasts, one had nicer ass, one had nicer hair, one was more romantic, one was better built, one was ... Get the picture? If swinging is right for you, none of that will matter in the long run. You will still love your primary partner more than anybody else.

If that doesn't happen, then you will have found out that swinging is not really right for you. Then, you'd better patchup your primary relationship or get out.

My thoughts are along these lines too.

Personally, I'd take a playmate with a small cock over one with a big belly. If a man is fat, are we going to advise him not to swing because his wife may discover she prefers a thin man? Nah... she may prefer another's body, but that's why it's so important to have a strong relationship and satisfying sex life before starting to swing.

[Powerglide]

Originally Posted by tmayou

I would like my wife to have have sex with another man. my concern is that what if he has a much larger penis then me and she enjoys it more than mine.
And if so how would that affect us.

If you get into swinging, well, then, unless you're the second coming of John Holmes, it's not a question of if your wife is going to have sex with some fellow packing a bigger schlong, it's when. This has already happened to just about every guy here on this board, and guess what? We're all still in great loving relationships and still having terrific mind-blowing sex with our partners.

Swinging is not a competitive sport! It's about the joy you both experience when you each give each other permission and encouragement to experience ultimate sexual freedom and pleasure. The greatest experience I ever had swinging was not fucking another man's wife -- although those have been some unbelievably wonderful experiences. The greatest experience I've had swinging was holding my partner's hand and gazing into her eyes as she was having her brains fucked out by a guy with a bigger penis. As she screamed out her orgasm, her eyes locked onto mine, and I saw a kind of love and thanks in her eyes I'd never seen before. I felt so good that I was helping her reach such intense ecstacy. I almost came right then, but held out so I could give her a good rousing fuck when he was done. Which I did, while she sucked him off. We tag-teamed my dear woman for nearly an hour, and when he left, she curled up like a little girl in my arms.

I should add that the more we swing, the more we've learned, and the better and more intimate our times together become.

A final comment: size is not anything you can do anything about (Pay no attention to those ad on tv!) But you can devote yourself to giving the best head, and knowing your wife's body and what it craves better than anyone. I know exactly where Leslie's g-spot is and exactly what kind of stimulation she craves most and when and how hard and how fast and what precise movements of my tongue on her clit she likes best, and so on. Make yourself an expert at pleasing your wife and you'll never have to worry about size issues.

[jmw81]

What your facing is some thing in a similar situation we had. We have always loved the freedom in sexual experiment with others. In fact, we like MMF the best. I use to think that if the Mrs would have a larger cock, she might not like mine as much anymore (which I'm a little above average). Anyways, I was always a little nervous about that concern until one day it hit me that its just sex and can't replace what is between the 2 of us. So as fate would have it, she starts to talk to a nice looking black man ( which is one of her fantasies at the time) and they hit it off great. I then talked to him to get a feel and see if I was comfortable with the situation. Making the story shorter, we went back to a motel room and continue to have some drinks and talk. Wife goes into the bathroom to get ready for the fun. She comes back out and starts to make out with the dude. As she was making out with him, she was undressing him and bam, he has huge cock. At this point she excuses herself for a moment and asks me into the bathroom with her. She ask me if I was alright with it being that I had concerns before. At that point I was really more turned on by it as this could be a different experience then the previous ones. I tell the mrs to go on ahead and enjoy herrself. I then sit down and watch them. She was a little uneasy at first being he was so big but after 5 mins, it was like fireworks. Needless to say, I'm glad we went through with it. One of our top 5 encounters. Now I'm just about 7 inches myself but this guy had at most 11 inches. To this day, there is no change in our sex life. In fact its better. You have to feel out the situations and never proceed with anything your not sure about. For us the concern was there, but communication was the biggest payoff. I was really happy for her to be able to enjoy something that was so wonderful. I hope this helps you out but you should always voice your concerns to your partner before setting out on this wild adventure.

[mnd7398]

I searched for someone with a bigger penis than mine for her first threesome experience. I had gotten her a dildo that was a lot thicker than me to warm her up to the idea of "playing".

She never liked the big dildo saying that it hurt her but she had no problem having sex with a guy with a penis just as big as the dildo. She LOVED it. I thought that she would be permanently stretched to the point that she would no longer enjoy having sex with me. I found out that a woman's pussy is very flexible. I can't speak for a woman but my wife and girlfriends always felt just as tight after fucking someone with a big dick as always.

It was described to me that my cock was "comfortable" compared to the guy whose cock was "pleasantly painful".

Ladies?

[maggoo]

I suppose first: Does your wife want to have sex with another man
Assuming: A positive answer to that you can then contemplate the logistics and whether or
not you would be able to accept her having sex with another man

[skbaman]

You are thinking/worrying too much abou this. And probably read one too many stories of these women going crazy for a bigger dick. It just don't happen like that. Not from my experience. And I've been told I have a nice size cock.

[bendmeovernow]

Now take it from me.. i have a 7 to 8 inch at home with my husb... and have many playmates that differ in size. I don't believe that bigger is better. i believe that if you know how to work what you have then you can be a 2 inch dick... or even can't keep it up at all. I have many guy friends that can't and i still enjoy them.... we just have a diff way of pleasure. Issues ike that aside... i don't think you need to worry about size...... i'm sure you know how to please yoru wife and that will keep her wanting you no matter what size the other guy or guys are. You do need to talk with her about all your fears though first... it's the only way to swing.

[Chicup]

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[two4youinswva]

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