elderly couple wants to get into swinging

[sirlancelot]

hi
we are in our 70s and would like get into swinging....where would we be welcome or is this a place for us

[SexyRedmondCpl]

Well, for starters... You've found the right place to start, and everyone's welcome here.

In our experience, there's no upper limit in the lifestyle. Our regular club's core demographic is 30-60, but there are plenty of members on both sides of that. As long as you approach the lifestyle with an honest and open mind, you can have fun at any age.

~Mike & Lea

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by sirlancelot

hi
we are in our 70s and would like get into swinging....where would we be welcome or is this a place for us

JoAnn and I are approaching 60. We see and interact with many people of your age group. We find them in all the same places that people of other age groups are found -- at private parties, swingers' clubs, on-line hook-up sites . . .

~Michael

[sahajacpl]

Originally Posted by sirlancelot

hi
we are in our 70s and would like get into swinging....where would we be welcome or is this a place for us

Hello there, and welcome to the Swingersboard and the swinging lifestyle. You have come to the right place to get your questions answered by very knowledgeable couples ,who are members of this Board, and have been swinging for years. You will also find, when you explore the many posts, that all age groups are represented in the swinging lifestyle.

Also, for most couples who swing, and, enjoy having sex with someone other than their own spouse, mate or S.O., chronological age is the isue of least importance. Us swingers are open to playing with fun-loving and broad-minded couples, regardless of age. In fact, many swingers, ourselves included, look forward to playing with and swapping mates with older couples for the whole range of sexual activities that includes intercourse. Its entirely upto you two to set your limits as to how far and how quickly you wish to proceed in exploring the swinging lifestyle.

So, have no fear. You haven taken the first and most important step toward enjoyment of this wonderful lifestyle where both of you, husband and wife can swap partners, play and enjoy sex with a variety of partners.

One is never too old to enjoy sex between the two of you as a couple and also sharing your partner with another couple for social, and, more importantly for sexual intercourse. There is a whole new world of sexual enjoyment awaiting the two of you.

[Rackir]

Welcome to the board!!!!!

The cool thing about the swining community (in my expierence), is that even if you don't fit nicelly into the norm, (due to weight, age, preferences, whatever) there are still going to be people out there that are into you.

There was an older couple (late 60's, mid 70's) at the club the last time we were there go at it hot and heavy on the dance floor, and the overwhelming consensous from those we were talking too was how cool it was that they werent letting somthing as silly as age get in the way of thier fun. Though I diddnt see how thier evening went, I'm willing to bet that they diddnt wind up in a room as just a couple .

So yup, totally welcomed and embraced!

[BamaRide]

I love my fellow swingers... any age any time!

BamaRide

[talltim123]

I am in my 70's and play with one couple who are also in their 70's as well as with another couple who are about 60. On several occasions other ladies from late 50's to late 70's have joined us. I have found that older ladies are often more at ease with their own sexual desires and open to trying new experiences. A single male friend (late 50's) and I have introduced 5 ladies ages 48 to 75, to their first mfm and a couple of them progressed to enjoying mfmf as well as exploring their bi curiosity. One is never too old to explore and enjoy multiple person encounters, though the pool of those interested and willing is smaller than the 20-50 age group, as evidenced by the few seniors posting on swinging sites.

[AskMeOk]

Sure! Welcome! Get out there and mix and mingle. It may not be the cake walk that is would have been in you 20's, but what the heck. Get out there and have a good time.

We find that house parties are the venue of choice for the "older" crowd, but the clubs have us oldsters in residence, too.

Since we are on the subject. Can anybody give us a clue why 1) the older we get the more time, money, and experience and less (fertility we have (that's a plus)), 2) the less like it is that we are (still?) swinging? We just don't get it!

[sahajacpl]

Originally Posted by talltim123

I am in my 70's and play with one couple who are also in their 70's as well as with another couple who are about 60. On several occasions other ladies from late 50's to late 70's have joined us. I have found that older ladies are often more at ease with their own sexual desires and open to trying new experiences. A single male friend (late 50's) and I have introduced 5 ladies ages 48 to 75, to their first mfm and a couple of them progressed to enjoying mfmf as well as exploring their bi curiosity. One is never too old to explore and enjoy multiple person encounters, though the pool of those interested and willing is smaller than the 20-50 age group, as evidenced by the few seniors posting on swinging sites.

Great to hear you are still actively swinging in you 70s. The few swing experiences we have had with mature ladies (60s, 70s) have been just great. We agree that these ladies are at ease with their sexual desires and therefore make great partners for play and intercourse. We think the reasons seniors do not post on the swing sites in great numbers is that they fear rejection.

Is there a way we can promote swinging to the seniors?

[Alura]

Sir Lancelot! I was shocked recently when I told a friend that I'll turn 70 in December. She said she thought I was in my early fifties. Well... she may be a diplomat or she may be like others who aren't really very good at judging peoples' ages.

I'd suggest just keeping your mouth shut about age unless the subject comes up.

Mr. Alura

[Alura]

Originally Posted by sahajacpl

Is there a way we can promote swinging to the seniors?

AAAhhhhh, Fuck 'em!

Mr. Alura

[SecretAsianMan]

This is definately a place for you - if you're looking for a place to talk about the lifestyle and getting information about doing it.

There's no age limit to the people here - as long as you're a consenting adult.

Glad to have you here & we'll be happy to help you along in your path towards discovering this new lifestyle for y'all

[TheLorax]

Originally Posted by AskMeOk

Since we are on the subject. Can anybody give us a clue why 1) the older we get the more time, money, and experience and less (fertility we have (that's a plus)), 2) the less like it is that we are (still?) swinging? We just don't get it!

I think it has a lot to do with novelty, drive, energy, and attitude.

I've found that as I've gotten older and more experienced, I have less drive to do something "new" because I've done almost all of it and learned what I like and what I'm not that fond of. Newness is a powerful drive for most folks and once that goes away there may not have been much other drive underlying. Sex drive generally diminishes as people age, for some folks it goes away completely, for others it just drops off (and there are some folks for whom it gets stronger, but that's less common).

Attitude is also important. There's a lot of social pressure for folks to become less sexual as they get older. Constantly bucking social pressure is tiring.

As far as I'm concerned though, human sexuality doesn't end at an arbitrary age, and if folks want to swing at 90 and are attracting partners, I say more power to them!

[Rackir]

Originally Posted by TheLorax

I've found that as I've gotten older and more experienced, I have less drive to do something "new" because I've done almost all of it and learned what I like and what I'm not that fond of. Newness is a powerful drive for most folks and once that goes away there may not have been much other drive underlying.

Interestingly I've found the opposite. I've always been an experience junkie, but I find that the older I get, the stronger the urge to find something "new" (or at least different) becomes. When I was younger I really I could content myself with constraining the "quest for something new" to only particular aspects of my life, but now I find that the aspects of my life where I can comfort in the routine are growing smaller and smaller (hence being a student again at 38).

Part of it is undoubtedly a sense of growing mortality compared to the infinite list of human potential. One scale (time) is growing shorter, while the other (stuff to try) never shrinks. But I think that a largest part is the fact that the more try, the more I fond I like and so I am constantly finding new branches of experience I want to explore.

[TheLorax]

Originally Posted by Rackir

Interestingly I've found the opposite. I've always been an experience junkie, but I find that the older I get, the stronger the urge to find something "new" (or at least different) becomes..

I think that's a slight tangent to what I was talking about. I still have the drive to find something "new", but the things I did that were "new" back then are either part of my normal routine and are no longer "new", or I found I didn't care for them. As far as sex goes, while there are a few permutations that I haven't done, I've pretty much experienced the full range of sexuality and there isn't much more that is "new" for me.

I was getting at the fact that the novelty itself is a powerful drive and once the novelty wears off that particular drive goes away.