Is it wise to start with a MFM threesome?

[MajorQuestion]

(non-experienced poster here)

Ironically my only 3 some as a man was MFM. It was a bust, but only becuase I was sexually young and retarded about the whole thing. I completely owned the failure.

But she was completely into it and most likely would have been the experience of her life if I didnt shy up.

I would absolutly try it again, I adore women exploding on sexual expression.

[1curiouscat]

Well....I'm no longer just a curiouscat It took a couple years and a lot of bumps in the road, but Mr Cat and I had our first MFM last thursday night. I'll post more about in in first time experiences, but lets just say I had a lot of fun and I am very eager to see what else we can experience together

[mandlori]

Cat - Great that you finally got to do it and had a great time. Only thing we would say is that although you had a great time the first time, don't rush to fast into the second thinking they will always be so great. My wife had a fantastic time with our first experience, a mfm, and so right away scheduled a mfm with another guy for the next weekend. Let's just say that if the second one was the first, there would have never been a second. But having had such a great experience the first time, we were more selective and went for the next. It was totally wild and she had her first DP. The only thing she thinks was better was when a couple who invited us over for dinner and hot tub had a male friend drop in so she had 3 guys (including me). Can't wait to hear more about your experience.

[Tina and Bob]

Happy things went so well for you two. Are you thinking of playing with the same guy again or are you one and done? Generally we are one and done with a few exceptions for when I play alone, but it's always nice to have a fallback guy for last minute play situations. Someone you are comfortable with and know what to expect and are compatible with. Good luck with playmate number two.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by 1curiouscat

Well....I'm no longer just a curiouscat It took a couple years and a lot of bumps in the road, but Mr Cat and I had our first MFM last thursday night. I'll post more about in in first time experiences, but lets just say I had a lot of fun and I am very eager to see what else we can experience together

When you start with an MFM the real question is what your Mr. is feeling. It can be quite a system shock.

[1curiouscat]

Thank you for the words of warning, and rest assured we aren't rushing into anything. Life circumstances dictate our play dates have to be few and far between anyways. We have talked extensively about it, and we want our next encounter to either be a fmf or a couple. We want to sample the buffet before we go back for seconds on anything

As far as whether or not we will play with our third again...its undecided at this point. We both liked him, he was very nice and respectful so its not out of the question.

[1curiouscat]

Originally Posted by Chicup

When you start with an MFM the real question is what your Mr. is feeling. It can be quite a system shock.

We have talked extensively about it, and Mr Cat said the reason he watched for so long before he joined in was to see how he really felt about seeing me with another guy. He said there was no jealousy just a "Wow that is HOT" lol. We were both a little nervous that jealousy would kick in, but I think because it was us both playing together, and the guy wasn't anyone either of us knew (no emotional connection whatsoever) it was just FUN. He said he really liked seeing me enjoy myself with another guy, and of course is enjoying the side effects of me not being able to keep my hands (and other body parts to myself

[barefootjason]

This sounds amazing.

My wife and I have talked about having another guy join us in bed. And she has brought up swinging and the possibility of going to a club in the past few days.

We have not yet taken the plunge. We continue to talk in bed each night about fantasies and threesomes, swinging. So I am hoping that soon we will take the next step.

[arcangel]

We began in the lifestyle with a MFM and all was ok. More better than i could susppect. She felt quithe excited so me too watching how she sucked another cock. But the real fact she enjoyed very much was the several times she came whe he got into her and afterwards letting him to cum inside her mouth.