First time, considering a close friend

[PB&J]

A virgin. seriously. For your first mfm. When you two are going to be nervous as hell too. Our first mfm was with a guy who had a lot of experience, not just with sex but with swinging. Otherwise, it's the blind leading the blind, and honestly you need someone to know what's going on. That's the problem I see with his lack of swinging, let alone sexual, experience.

[LikeMinds321]

As a woman, if I wanted my cherry broken, it sure as heck wouldn't be with a guy whose wife was there watching it happen!

I would think it would be extra tough for men; they have a penis that has to stand at attention for all to see...and to perform well...no faking it. I'd think the pressure would be incredible for a guy whose first time would be with his best friend's wife.

The virgin male is probably too naive to see the potential problems in all this, and I think you are too.

If you were all looking for a way to fall into a love triangle, a poly relationship, it maybe could work. But is that what you want?...your wife sharing love with two men? I think it could head in that direction if you popped your friend's cherry.

LM

[JetSetClub]

You know. You come here post this and get all this good advice. From real people who have been down this path. You are either going to listen to it or not.

My only added comment to this is for you and your wife to have a lot of just one on one time after.

Jetsetclub
Dallas Texas
Steve Manager

[Sir Dude]

It worked out well for us. Your situation sounds almost exactly the same. However, my wife had a little freak out at first when I told her that I asked him. I think I may have rushed into it before she was ready. Poor communication.

We are still friends with the other guy but we don't see him often anymore. He met someone and she moved in with him a couple of months ago so all the MFM action stopped. However, our relationship became closer before he met his new girlfriend. In fact on two occasions him and my wife had sex while I was at work and in one case, out of town. I did demand pics since I wasn't there. hehe

I stopped by his place for a beer last night but they were gone golfing. The threesome did not define our friendship but it did change it. Now that the MFM thing isn't happening it is as if the relationship moved back to where it once was. However, we'll always have the memories and you never know, maybe once again some day.

I wouldn't complain if he wanted a foursome with us and his new girl friend. Hehe, but I don't think that'll happen any time soon,most likely never.