advice? : I finally told the wife I want a MMF experience...

[N8ture Girl]

Originally Posted by T_Dallas

Sorry, Maybe I used some bad terminology.

the blurry statement was to relay the excitement and such. It was more like an exhilarating roller coaster ride. I was really fine with everything that happened.

And yes she loved it! Isn't that what she's supposed to do? Why would you do it if she wouldn't love it?

The 'boyfriend title' was MY thing to throw out there. She didn't even consider that type of thing until I stated it.

I suppose the real test is going to be over the next few weeks.
After this weekend Ken won't be around until the end of next month.

During that time I will actually be able to see what and how our relationship has changed and how she reacts to him not being there. That will be able to tell me a lot.
if we end up stopping everything... then we do.
I have to trust her. I DO trust her.
IF / Until she betrays that trust.

I will keep things updated as time progresses.

Does anyone agree with what Edison said?
Cause now i've got those thoughts going through my head when before I didn't.

I didnt read it the same way as Edison did, however I can understand his logic, many of us has seen/experienced things go a little too far. I took the blur as a whirl-wind of excitement and the boyfriend comment as a joke. We have done that ourselves " have you talked to your boyfriend/girlfriend lately" kind of thing as a jokingly comment.

Dont worry about stuff that my never happen, be mindfull of it, but dont worry about it. Other wise these worrisome "what if" ideas will only put a damper on your fun. Keep the communication open always, if you do have a concern talk about it.