First time Experience - are threesomes easier?

truckerbuddy · 06-11-2009, 07:35 PM

As i was going through the ( First time Experience ) I found that there are a lot of threesomes for first time experience.
Is this just a easier what for some people to start?? Now don't get me wrong.. sounds good to me. just asking

unusualsuspects · 06-11-2009, 07:47 PM

As for threesomes, it may be easier just in terms of math (3 people vs. 4 means less baggage to deal with).

I'd say in our experience in order from easiest to hardest to find and play:
Single male for solo play with wife
Couple looking to borrow wife
Single male for threesome
Couple for play
Single female for threesome
Single female for solo play with husband
Couple looking to borrow husband (here for completeness, but hasn't happened yet)

We generally are full swap only, so not sure how much that affects it. Also, both my wife and I are mostly straight so we have not deliberately sought out exclusively same-sex situations. This is with new partners, mind you; people we've played with before are some of the easiest people to play with again regardless of situation *grin*

truckerbuddy · 06-11-2009, 07:59 PM

unusualsuspects i hear ya ... Single male for wife.. A dime a dozen. It's looking at ( First time Experience ) i just seen there was a lot of first time experience with a 3some. just strak me funny in a way.

**fun4Ds** · 06-15-2009, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by truckerbuddy

unusualsuspects i hear ya ... Single male for wife.. A dime a dozen. It's looking at ( First time Experience ) i just seen there was a lot of first time experience with a 3some. just strak me funny in a way.

I think most people may be looking for one thing and end up finding another. Sure, most look for the single female statistically, (although we didn't) but rather end up with a couple the first experience, in reality.

I think things evolve to where most want to try all combinations at one time or another...

sweet_tna · 06-15-2009, 08:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

I think most people may be looking for one thing and end up finding another. Sure, most look for the single female statistically, (although we didn't) but rather end up with a couple the first experience, in reality.

I think things evolve to where most want to try all combinations at one time or another...

That's what happened with us. We started out looking for just couple/couple swapping, and have ended up trying all sorts of combinations.

Evolution is a wonderful thing, isn't it?

=)

Thundermerwe · 06-15-2009, 08:40 AM

Threesome. Us as a couple with a single male. It is the easiest and the least complicated to arrange and execute.

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unusualsuspects Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 30 Location: San Jose, CA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:unusualsuspects	Re: First time Experience As for threesomes, it may be easier just in terms of math (3 people vs. 4 means less baggage to deal with). I'd say in our experience in order from easiest to hardest to find and play: Single male for solo play with wife Couple looking to borrow wife Single male for threesome Couple for play Single female for threesome Single female for solo play with husband Couple looking to borrow husband (here for completeness, but hasn't happened yet) We generally are full swap only, so not sure how much that affects it. Also, both my wife and I are mostly straight so we have not deliberately sought out exclusively same-sex situations. This is with new partners, mind you; people we've played with before are some of the easiest people to play with again regardless of situation grin

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truckerbuddy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 145 Location: ST. George, ont, ca Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:truckerbuddy	Re: First time Experience unusualsuspects i hear ya ... Single male for wife.. A dime a dozen. It's looking at ( First time Experience ) i just seen there was a lot of first time experience with a 3some. just strak me funny in a way. __________________ Here to day, gone tomorrow

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Thundermerwe Registered Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 5 Location: Capetown, SouthAfrica Status: Couple	Re: First time Experience Threesome. Us as a couple with a single male. It is the easiest and the least complicated to arrange and execute.

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