Are these just fantasies she doesn't want to act on?

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update!

we've been talking about this on and off for a while. she is attracted to other guys sexually and is interested but has a major hangup of me being there to join in or watch or whatever.

it ended there.

recently revisited this when she told me she was attracted to a guy (prob not meeting that one) which opened a convo about her attraction to other guys in general. she's open to meeting another guy alone. she prefers it to start as a date and then escalate. she says she knows im into seeing her so she said she'll video tape it for me.

i'm seizing the moment though she wants to find the guy through personals and wants to have a certain look and hit it off.

has anyone else had arrangement like this?
what is everyone's general thoughts on this?
any idea why she would do this and not with me there?

thanks