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New friends or Old friends?

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Old 04-11-2009, 09:58 PM   #1 (permalink)
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How many of you get with a couple or single you know, vs. going out meeting new people at a remote club?

I would prefer to go out and do whatever without seeing that person every day or at work, does anyone share the same idea?
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Old 04-12-2009, 11:15 AM   #2 (permalink)
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We tend more towards clubs. However, we will see people again that we've met at the clubs and invite them over to play or vice versa. As far as playing with people that we already know (from other venues), it's probably not going to happen. Especially if they work with us.

Here are some past threads you might want to check out:
Vanilla friends ever push your sexual buttons?
Sex with friends
Drama due to vanilla/non vanilla friends together
We went overboard with vanilla friends - Advice needed
vanilla friends potential swingers???
Would you swing with a co-worker?
Bringing in fantasy co-worker
New Proposition - MFM with a co-worker
is my co-worker putting me on?


And the archives:
Friendship & Swinging - The Swingers Board
Swinging and the Workplace - The Swingers Board
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Old 04-13-2009, 05:19 AM   #3 (permalink)
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How many of you get with a couple or single you know, vs. going out meeting new people at a remote club?

I would prefer to go out and do whatever without seeing that person every day or at work, does anyone share the same idea?
I can understand that I think allot of people can.
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I would like to have sex with strangers: you have had sex and that's all, you don't know anything about this person and viceversa.

I like also to make lots of friends, to discuss with them, to visit clubs and have fun
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Speed and I started to "get involved" with a single we both already knew, and it was a HORRIBLE idea. (It's possible for things to work out well, but most of the stories on this board indicate it's pretty rare.)

Now, we'd prefer to meet someone/couples outside our "vanilla" world. We still want to be friends with him/her/them, because it's hard for me to enjoy being naked with someone I don't feel like I have a mental connection with too. The nice thing about meeting people at clubs or online is that we already know they're into the lifestyle (on some level).
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