Fullfilling my wife's Birthday fantasy

My wife is turning 40 in July and we are planning to go to Las Vegas to celebrate. After the family and friends celebration is done we are toying with the idea of going to a swing club to try and fullfill her fantasy of having me fuck and suck her while others caress her and lick her nipples, while she is blind folded. We have been to a club twice before and had sex while others watched but have never approached others about participating in any way. She would like to have 2 men and 2 women caressing her but having never done this before, the idea of bringing it up with anyone is intimidating to say the least. We feel that it might come off as sounding selfish to ask 2 couples to help fullfill her fantasy with little in it for them.
Any suggestions or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

Any suggestions or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

First suggestion; sign up for an account. Let us get to know you

Second; it might be difficult to set up if you don't live in LV. Alternatively, try to feel out what swing club there would be a good one to go to, and see who is available and ready to go for this when you are there. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.

[BiloxiCouple]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

My wife is turning 40 in July and we are planning to go to Las Vegas to celebrate. After the family and friends celebration is done we are toying with the idea of going to a swing club to try and fulfill her fantasy of having me fuck and suck her while others caress her and lick her nipples, while she is blind folded. We have been to a club twice before and had sex while others watched but have never approached others about participating in any way. She would like to have 2 men and 2 women caressing her but having never done this before, the idea of bringing it up with anyone is intimidating to say the least. We feel that it might come off as sounding selfish to ask 2 couples to help fullfill her fantasy with little in it for them.
Any suggestions or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

Take this statement with you to the club and share it. You might be surprised by how well it might work. Some of us are might be accommodating.

[arvcpl]

I think you would actually have a pretty easy time fullfilling this and all you have to do is ask. Having a small group of people touch and caress her is very noninvasive and people generally are ok with the idea of touching a woman.

People get squeemish about doing things with men and it's not like you are asking anyone to do anything with you and it's not like you are asking anyone to fuck her or eat at the Y or anything like that.

Honestly unless she has some kind of skin lesions or disease I really can't see anyone turning you down for this. I would assume people would think that this would be a fun activity and would glad to help out and wouldn't see it as selfish in the slightest.

As long as you are upfront that they are just to feel her up and nothing more and as long as you are polite and respectfull in how you ask I can't imagine anyone actually turning you down.

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

My wife is turning 40 in July and we are planning to go to Las Vegas to celebrate. After the family and friends celebration is done we are toying with the idea of going to a swing club to try and fullfill her fantasy of having me fuck and suck her while others caress her and lick her nipples, while she is blind folded. We have been to a club twice before and had sex while others watched but have never approached others about participating in any way. She would like to have 2 men and 2 women caressing her but having never done this before, the idea of bringing it up with anyone is intimidating to say the least. We feel that it might come off as sounding selfish to ask 2 couples to help fullfill her fantasy with little in it for them.
Any suggestions or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

We hope you register, friends

We don't think this fantasy is so far out there, that it is unattainable.

But we are firm believers, that good communication is essential. I don't know why you couldn't ask people at the present clubs you visit, maybe someone you might have talked with and got to know a little bit more in your own location. Without registering, we can only guess the intimidation you are facing is just because you are new and perhaps a little shy. Thats O.k.

Have you thought about contacting someone through the personal websites you currently use, in the Vegas area ?

I know we use Swinglifestyle and the new Swingerzonecentral. The search feature on these sites allows you to search a specific area. Hopefully, you might find a compatible couple you might work something out before arriving.
Someone, who in turn might either agree to participating in this fantasy as a new, soft swap couple. Or, even a more experienced couple. We more experienced couples, don't mind giving a helping hand or two or four

Finding Two couples to help with this would be more of a task than just one couple. But ya never know.

Would One couple work ?

[nakedbro]

Like everyone has already said, there should be no problem fulfilling this request. It is, to say the least, pretty mild and not an intimidating request at all. Just ask!

As for a club in Las Vegas, I would suggest the Red Rooster. It has been around for 26 years and is very laid back and the people who attend respect your level of experience to play. You and the wife control how far you want to play. So your request should be easily fulfilled. Check out the website Las Vegas Red Rooster - Swing clubs, swing parties and swingers in Las Vegas - Las Vegas Swingers Club read the posts and signup so that you can read the member profiles. Good luck and let us know when you plan to be there in July?

[VANudistcpl]

We would have to agree with everyone. Having other couples carress your wife would not be a problem. Just remember that you need to communicate with everyone and define your limits.

Once you register, lets us know how it went.

[jjtrindc]

You might want to consider setting up an account on one or more of the swinger dating sites and search out couples in Vegas to begin "setting" this up. Especially when going to a club that you've never been to, it could be a crap shoot (to use Vegas terms!), on who is there, the vibe, etc.

My wife and I toyed with going to Vegas for her 40th. We ended up booking a week at Desire Cancun and couldn't have been happier. Spending a week naked in Mexico with a resort full of like minded couples is awesome. We're going back in May with a big group. Join us...we'll make sure we get that fantasy all taken care of!!