Webcam Play to Start?

[ncfuncouple]

My wife and I have actually had some minor experiences a few years ago at a local swingers club here in NC and then when the second child came along things outside of our homelife stopped. We made recent attempt to visit a club and I found out that she is not really interested in doing this again. She has jealously issues which are unfounded because I am totally committed to her, she is absolutely gorgeous, and to be totally honest I don't really want to swing...I want to watch her (which I have told her many times).

To get to my point...are there any good sites where where couples can meet either other couples or even single males for webcam play? I am sure you can do this on yah** or something once you have met the people, but where do you meet them to start with? We have memberships at a few of the swinging sites and I guess that would be a place to start. Is yah** decent for cam play or is there a better chat system for that?

I would like us to get to the point where I would watch her play for real, but on cam for now would be a nice start.

Any help would be much appreciated.

[Pinmonkey]

first off Welcome to the board.

Secondly, please don't dismiss her jealousy issues as unfounded. You may be totally committed to her, but for some reason she has her doubts. I think it's perfectly normal, don't get me wrong, but you should be sensitive to her doubts, and it sounds like you are.

As for webcamming sites... I would NOT suggest yahoo. Last time I was there it was full of "bots" and spam and was a pain in the neck. there are a number of web sites dedicated to cam-to-cam activites. Some are paying sites, some are free. Some are a combination. I don't really participate anymore, but a couple that I have used in the past are ANYwebcam.com they are combination site. Free works fine for "perving" and for broadcasting yourself. We have used AFF for camming when we were a paying member and had mostly positive experiences. Good luck.

[LOL_OMG]

Welcome

My suggestion would be to get your wife into reading these boards. Let her go at her own speed but I think you might be surprised what taking in knowledge here can do to a womans sexual urges. Since you have already dabled it should not be difficult to get her to read some of the posts.

Good luck
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[curious_2for2]

Another decent webcam site is JMeeting Free Live Web Cam Chat. We abandoned YaHell years ago, because of bots, spam, and lack of real participants. If you meet another couple and want to use Yah**, fine, but the adult rooms are generally filled with anything but adults, or people with cams.

C_2for2

[AnnS]

We play on CamFuze Free Webcams. The people are friendly, it's intimate, and free.

[sexcupid]

If you have a profile on any of the websites (AFF, Swing Lifestyle, etc)...most people prefer to go to another chat agent to communicate. We've had some success with using Yahoo webcam...but as curious_2for2 mentioned, if you actually go to the Yahoo chatrooms you probably aren't going to find what you are looking for.

Make sure you mention in your profiles that you want to use the webcam and see where it goes from there. But you also have to be active in your search, and I know there are plenty of folks (single males in particuar if one of my friend's experience is any indication) that are willing to cam.

As for your wife's jealousy issues...you know it's not an entirely rational emotion. Talk with her to try to figure out the root of the problem. Your primary goal may be to just watch her and never play with another woman...however, she may be thinking that's just your foot in the door to having that happen on down the road and it may be lessening her enjoyment of any activities. Also, you have small children...pregnancy can do a number on the psyche (as well as other body parts) and perhaps she can't quite turn the mom persona off and turn on the sex kitten. But that is all just speculation on my part. Just talk to her.