GF plays alot

[azgoodtimes]

I have been dating my girlfriend over 5 years now. Our sex life has always been great. My GF orgasms easily and sometimes masturbates 5-7 times a day, outside of the additional times we have sex together. As we have become more comfortable with each other, we have really started to enjoy having her masturbate and tell me her fantasies while I watch. Sometimes we watch porn together while she plays alone. I always finish her off, sometimes after the 5th or 6th time.

Her fantasies are usually about group sex and mostly involve only girl play. She has a pretty extensive porn collection from prior to our relationship and they are mostly all-girl videos. She tells me she wants a 3-some with another girl but is not interested in other couples. I am of course excited by the idea.

I guess my question is...how should we get started (knowing how difficult it may be to find another willing participant)?

[ncmd_couple]

Azgoodtimes,

Your best bet is a swinger's club in your area. But there are single Bi women out there. You just have to be patient.

S

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by azgoodtimes

I have been dating my girlfriend over 5 years now. Our sex life has always been great. My GF orgasms easily and sometimes masturbates 5-7 times a day, outside of the additional times we have sex together. As we have become more comfortable with each other, we have really started to enjoy having her masturbate and tell me her fantasies while I watch. Sometimes we watch porn together while she plays alone. I always finish her off, sometimes after the 5th or 6th time.

Welcome to the Swingers Board azgoodtimes

Sure wish you guys were our neighbors

Her fantasies are usually about group sex and mostly involve only girl play. She has a pretty extensive porn collection from prior to our relationship and they are mostly all-girl videos. She tells me she wants a 3-some with another girl but is not interested in other couples. I am of course excited by the idea.

Have you thought of using some of the personal ads found here like Swinglifestyle or Swingerzone central. We use these sites to find compatible couples or singles for playmates. I don't think this should be an issue for you if you post what you have posted here

I guess my question is...how should we get started (knowing how difficult it may be to find another willing participant)?

Have a look around some of the forums here like getting started and finding people on-line. Let us know if we can help in any way.

[azgoodtimes]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Welcome to the Swingers Board azgoodtimes

Sure wish you guys were our neighbors



Have you thought of using some of the personal ads found here like Swinglifestyle or Swingerzone central. We use these sites to find compatible couples or singles for playmates. I don't think this should be an issue for you if you post what you have posted here



Have a look around some of the forums here like getting started and finding people on-line. Let us know if we can help in any way.

Thanks. We have posted a few ads but have been mostly frustrated. Mostly we chatted back and forth a bit and they always turned out to be false leads. A guess you have to kiss many frogs to find your one princess.

She was really disheartened by the process. Builds your hopes up, you get all excited and then nothing. We have not tried the clubs. No really good ones in our area and from what I understand, little or no single women.

[JustAskJulie]

There are some good threads around here on finding the elusive SBF, it seems that most of those who have been lucky in that situation have done so by luck... whether by finding a girl at a vanilla club or by looking at the people they already know.

[bifemme_19148]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

There are some good threads around here on finding the elusive SBF, it seems that most of those who have been lucky in that situation have done so by luck... whether by finding a girl at a vanilla club or by looking at the people they already know.

I'm in the same position!

I just tried putting up a listing on Swing Lifestyle, but man, this is so much different then when I was 19. It seemed like every bi/bi-curious woman I knew seemed to know how to seek me out back then!

Ah, maybe one day we'll strike gold and find a girl. I'm keeping my fingers crossed and going to check out those threads!!