For the Guys before a MFM

NymphoWind · 12-09-2008, 02:47 PM

Hey guys,

Well basically I have been making setups for Xmas Eve, having a MFM has been my partners fantasy for a while now, anyways since I've grown to share that same fantasy, and since I've gotten her to openly tell me that she really wants to have it, and how excited she is, i figured hey why not!
(It's great to see how much more she's been smiling lately knowing how soon Xmas Eve is coming...)

Anyways, so far the plans are working out pretty well, I have a hotel in mind, which have good rates, and finding the right guy isn't easy, so I took the time to ask two different friends if one of them would be up for it...
Anyways I was wondering for those of you who have had a MFM, did any of you start getting a little nervous as the day started to come closer?

I mean when i was first planning it, i was completely excited, without any nervous feelings, but as Xmas Eve is only a short time away, I'm starting to feel a little bit nervous, hoping everything will go good, but although I have this feeling, I still can hide how excited and horny the very idea of the night...

Anyways! Have any of you ever felt like this before? And how did it go?

***JustAskJulie*** · 12-09-2008, 04:59 PM

You will probably get more and more nervous as the date draws closer. Whether it's your first MFM or just your first time planning to play or go to a club, you will be nervous. I doubt there's anyone here who would tell you they weren't nervous the first time they planned to do something related to swinging (and even many times after the first).

MrkLin · 12-09-2008, 05:13 PM

Oh heck yeah you're going to be nervous. I'd be a bit concerned if you weren't. It's completely normal - for everyone involved. Actually, that nervousness is part of the excitement. It sounds weird to say it, but enjoy it.

By the way, if you think you're nervous, try being the other guy. He's thinking different things than you are, but he's the one who is going to have to perform. Now there's some pressure...

bbarnsworth · 12-09-2008, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MrkLin

By the way, if you think you're nervous, try being the other guy. He's thinking different things than you are, but he's the one who is going to have to perform. Now there's some pressure...

Not having been a third for an MFM, I never thought about it that way. But, you're right!

**ncmd_couple** · 12-09-2008, 06:33 PM

I'm assuming that your good friend took up the gauntlet and is going to help you with this.

Our first MFM was with a friend of hers that she had been with before we met. I knew him, had met him, but hadn't really talked to him much until that day. It turned out great, the two of us were focused on satisfying her and making sure that she had a good experience. That is the key, that the two of you are there to satisfy her in every way, your not there for yourselves. Enjoy!

S

joaninla · 12-10-2008, 01:49 PM

I echo everything NCMD-Couple said. 100% right on IMHO.

CarAsia · 12-11-2008, 08:57 AM

LOL
You will be nervous BUT
It is like having your first date or anticipating your first kiss.
Nevertheless it is fun and exciting!!!
Have fun and keep us posted.

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12-09-2008, 02:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
NymphoWind Make me purr... Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 64 Location: Vancouver Status: Couple Blog Entries: 3	For the Guys before a MFM Hey guys, Well basically I have been making setups for Xmas Eve, having a MFM has been my partners fantasy for a while now, anyways since I've grown to share that same fantasy, and since I've gotten her to openly tell me that she really wants to have it, and how excited she is, i figured hey why not! (It's great to see how much more she's been smiling lately knowing how soon Xmas Eve is coming...) Anyways, so far the plans are working out pretty well, I have a hotel in mind, which have good rates, and finding the right guy isn't easy, so I took the time to ask two different friends if one of them would be up for it... Anyways I was wondering for those of you who have had a MFM, did any of you start getting a little nervous as the day started to come closer? I mean when i was first planning it, i was completely excited, without any nervous feelings, but as Xmas Eve is only a short time away, I'm starting to feel a little bit nervous, hoping everything will go good, but although I have this feeling, I still can hide how excited and horny the very idea of the night... Anyways! Have any of you ever felt like this before? And how did it go? __________________ Instead of accepting what we know, lets learn more about ourselves, and have fun doing it!

12-09-2008, 04:59 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 25,711 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 78	Re: For the Guys before a MFM You will probably get more and more nervous as the date draws closer. Whether it's your first MFM or just your first time planning to play or go to a club, you will be nervous. I doubt there's anyone here who would tell you they weren't nervous the first time they planned to do something related to swinging (and even many times after the first).

12-09-2008, 05:13 PM	#3 (permalink)
MrkLin Your Tent or Ours? Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 706 Location: Northern NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrklin Blog Entries: 11	Re: For the Guys before a MFM Oh heck yeah you're going to be nervous. I'd be a bit concerned if you weren't. It's completely normal - for everyone involved. Actually, that nervousness is part of the excitement. It sounds weird to say it, but enjoy it. By the way, if you think you're nervous, try being the other guy. He's thinking different things than you are, but he's the one who is going to have to perform. Now there's some pressure... __________________ Never fry bacon while you're naked...

12-09-2008, 06:33 PM	#5 (permalink)
ncmd_couple Julie's Helper Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,023 Location: North Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncmd_couple	Re: For the Guys before a MFM I'm assuming that your good friend took up the gauntlet and is going to help you with this. Our first MFM was with a friend of hers that she had been with before we met. I knew him, had met him, but hadn't really talked to him much until that day. It turned out great, the two of us were focused on satisfying her and making sure that she had a good experience. That is the key, that the two of you are there to satisfy her in every way, your not there for yourselves. Enjoy! S __________________ Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!

12-10-2008, 01:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
joaninla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 111 Location: Los Angeles Status: couple	Re: For the Guys before a MFM I echo everything NCMD-Couple said. 100% right on IMHO.

12-11-2008, 08:57 AM	#7 (permalink)
CarAsia Registered Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Indonesia & China Status: Couple	Re: For the Guys before a MFM LOL You will be nervous BUT It is like having your first date or anticipating your first kiss. Nevertheless it is fun and exciting!!! Have fun and keep us posted.

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