What do you tell others about where you are when swinging?

[ktimephoenix]

Originally Posted by cplnuswing

When her mother calls, it's like:

Every time we make a weekend club trip, it happens,

lol, reminds me of when we first started dating, every time we were in an adult shop, right on cue, Mrs Phoenix would get a call from her mother, saying she was in the general area and wanted to catch up.

thankfully by about the 100th time, Mrs phoenix had worked up the courage and told her straight out. her mum was the type that thought it was hillarious thankfully.

Originally Posted by AdultSocials

The pets don't care what we are up to :-)

Ours do. the cat gets annoyed because he didn't have anyone to sleep on, the malamute gets annoyed because she has to stay outside over night, and the german shepard must be able to smell other people on us because he gets very very stand offish. in fact, he's only just started being friendly again from saturday.

[shy_couple]

Originally Posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty

We just keep it simple and tell people we are going to meet some friends for dinner & drinks.

We say the same thing. But it does get tough when the babbysitter is trying to make innocent conversation and asks what restruant/club, what part of town? Friends from work or from out of town? Then she says you guys have friends all over town (we live in LA and meet people from different parts of the city). Mean time we are standing there feeling that we look really dissheveled and smell like sex.

She doesnt run down the list of questions everytime we go out but these are the ones that I remember from past outings.

[bbarnsworth]

The way we handle this is "It's our date, and we're just funny this way; we like to keep our dates private to ourselves"

[lovegeneration]

Well, I don't hide this! I have a lot of friends doing this!