how to introduce my wife to swinging

[SCcpl40]

It's easy to flirt because it's safe and most feel it's harmless and not crossing any lines. The fantasies, the pillow talk doesn't break the norm and doesn't let someone else into your bed. Some couples never get pass that point. Some venture out a little bit with being voyeurs, a little more adventurous like the girl/girl play and soft swingers. Each of them have their own reasons for not going forward to becoming totally into the lifestyle.

If you both are very secure in yourselves and your relationship, you have complete honesty and trust, the migration from fantasy to reality will move along at the pace of the one who's most resistant. Nurture each other, never judge, and have no regrets. Remember sex is fun and fulfilling, not something just to do or be pressured into.

[bendmeovernow]

well i can't add too much to this one.. all are good advice. well the person that isn't telling the wife it's for swingers.. you might be embarassed if she walks out and your in a group of people without her. so i'd tell her it is a alternative style party... and that it's just to meet people and see what's going on with it and if it's for you and her. most think swingers and think where's the orgy.. so maybe if she's okay with it but worried about that it would work out. who knows..... might work out