A Threesome, how to get the wife interested

[miacpl30]

we have been trying to explore swinging and or a threesome for several years. We dabbled a few years ago on swingers date club and met a few cpls for dinner but never got past that stage. We were overwhelmed with work and family and took time off when it wasn't even discussed. I recently brought up a ffm threesome and slowly its in the works for the next few weeks. I think asking nicely regularly can help but dont nag. I think you need to go over groundrules bc there are always things that will surprise you etc. Will let u know how it turns out.

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by TheGreatRaja

I have been talking to people on other boards and come to the conclusion I would like to introduce my wife to another person in the bed room. I have brought the subject up to the wife and her normal response is, "No... not in this lifetime,"... or other such negative response. Last night she said that she wouldn't consider it because it you 'Violate the Sanctity' of our marriage. So tell me, since my wife is very straight laced and all is there any chance I could change her mind, or am I wasting my time even discussing it with her

Every now and then, we get emails and instant messages from married men asking how they can get their wives into swinging. A common complaint is about how conservative the wives are when it comes to sexual experimentation. This complaint always baffles us. Before marriage is the proper time to find out how sexually open someone is. While others may have done so successfully, it's unreasonable to expect to convert a straight-laced spouse into the fulfiller of your every fantasy.

Regardless, we wish you the best of luck and we are anxious to read how this weekend's meet and greet went. However, we would like to pass on some advice to all of the single men who are currently in the lifestyle: if you want to continue swinging after getting married, make sexual open-mindedness a part of your criteria for chosing a wife.