Guys tell us why you want to watch a man fuck your woman, AND women how does it feel?

[untamedhawk]

I just had the thought of (Why do we men want to see another man fucking our women?) My story is:

I'd love to see another man between her legs , and slowly driving her crazy - or - Behind her as she takes it all in"bananadog. Bullshit! I want to see her fucked so hard that she cums with every ounce of energy left in her . I want to play part in this as well, but would prefer to watch most of it at first.

YES! I'm a newbie! NO! It hasn't happened yet!! But DAMN! I know she wants to fuck someone else (just fuck) and is scared about it 'self conscious'. I'm not looking for judgment, just your imagination wrote down.

I want her to know that if she desires another man, that we can talk about it, bring him over, and she can lose her mind with her drug (SEX) while I lose mine while she plays.

Hawk

[mfmyeahbaby]

I prefer to say it this way. I rather say instead of I would like to see her fucking or having sex with another man, I would say it this way I love to see her enjoying herself. I appreciate her opinion in this matter, and that is usually she indulges in her play with a joy that is grand, and she loves that fact that I enjoy her harmless pleasures. that usually ends up with very intense sexually play and we have a great time together for a long time.

[untamedhawk]

Oooh! I liked the way you responded to that! My goal here is to get the opinions of all of those willing to share - why they share, and the possible opinions of the ladies telling how it feels to have sex with another man (How he feels in her).

Hawk

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by untamedhawk

Oooh! I liked the way you responded to that! My goal here is to get the opinions of all of those willing to share - why they share, and the possible opinions of the ladies telling how it feels to have sex with another man (How he feels in her).

Hawk

Sounds like you are looking to get off more than get opinions.

[untamedhawk]

Chicup

With a reply like that, it appears that you want to judge any new characters that come into this site. Yes I do like to get off! Yes I am looking for opinions! So please, if you want to help..... Leave the comments to insightful and less ridicule.
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Hawk

[rpu3]

Sorry Hawk, but I'm with Chicup on this one. Not that he needed my stamp of approval, of course.

As a woman, I'm not interested in describing in how a different guy "feels in" me to some random guy on an advice website in the advice forum. Once you ask a question of the ladies that doesn't feel like a request to write a Penthouse- or Hustler-like letter, the more inclined some of us may be to give you an insightful answer.

I think you may be more interested in the Swinger Stories forum, since you are looking for "imagination wrote down".

As to the why we share - quite simply, why not?

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by rpu3

Sorry Hawk, but I'm with Chicup on this one.

I have to agree. I am not beating you up - or I am trying not to beat you up. But when I read it, I thought "what's the point of answering this?" I mean the answer is, "I enjoy swinging - watching (or sneaking peaks of, depending on how well my attention is kept by my playmate ) Mrs Spoo play is fun."

That's it.

I get the question. I really do. Taking this step is exciting and the anticipation you probably feel is overwhelming. I remember the feeling. It is like "Big Boy Christmas". I still feel that way, but not as often - and until recently, it had sort of disappeared So I know what you are asking and probably why you are asking it.

But - I am really not going to answer the question.

One of the cool things about this board is that it isn't one running story. It could be - and if it were, I wouldn't be here. The last thing I am going to do - as the husband of a swinging wife - is tell you about her escapades. As weird as it may sound, I am just as protective about the sexual details of our life as a vanilla person might be.

Just know this - your excitement is normal. The anticipation is a really powerful thing. But that first experience can either be anticlimactic or like stepping out of a plane... You never really know how you are going to react. Just hang in there - keep talking as a couple - and when that experience finally hits you two, we'll celebrate with you!

Or counsel you through a bad experience, whatever the case might be...

And we won't ask for details

Spoomonkey

[untamedhawk]

OK I'll give you that... In all honesty, I posted a thread here before. I was looking for answers for my fiancé - on how to make her more comfortable with the ideas we have. I'm not looking for 'How long it lasted' or 'how many times did you cum'. I'm simply interested in stories of why we men want this, and why the women enjoy doing it. :surrender :surrender :surrender

Hawk
p.s. I don't mean to be so blunt, it's just my way.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by untamedhawk

I'm simply interested in stories of why we men want this

Because we have a brain the size of a peanut and a ridiculously easy to entertain

I think EVERY guy wants it on some fantasy level. The difference between them and swingers is that swinger husbands can actually handle it. Honestly, most men would flip out and kill someone...

Now - a really great question would be - "why can swing husband handle it?"

That'd make for good conversation

Spoomonkey

[untamedhawk]

Spoomonkey,

That deserves a huge THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm hoping to be a regular here, I sure do like the site - and I'm not one for forums.

Hawk

[spectraschain]

Now - a really great question would be - "why can swing husband handle it?"

Yeppirs, thread a needle through this one.....

[Edison Carter]

Ed here--My wife was having group sex before we met, but it was a completely new experience for me. She wanted me to try and I agreed. She setup a play night with her friends, two men and two women that were friends and sex partners. Susan explained she was just going to dive into things and to just remember, all the sex was fun sex.

Well, she wasn't kidding. First, it's strange meeting four people, especially two men who have 'done' your wife.The two men had, before we were married, several mfm's with Susan, some lasting all weekend. Once everyone got settled, Michael and Tom had Susan stripped, on all fours and were totally 'rockin' her world' and she was loving it. The fact everyone was very playful made it much more confortable for me. Shortly after Susan got going with her threesome, her two galpals were working me over.

Anyway, Susan had told me how much fun it was for her and that it was 'just sex', but it was also a very fun time with friends. I enjoyed the fact she was enjoying herself and was so happy and playful. And, frankly seeing her suck cock while being taken from behind was very erotic and I felt no jealousy at all. Later that night, when we had sex, the party was still going on, it was absolutely wild. Then, I became the guy taking her from behind while she was sucking Tom's cock. It was great and we've never looked back.

What made it fun to watch Susan fuck is that she's really pretty, has a great smile and loves sex. Even more so, she really inspires a man or woman to really have great sex whether it's one on one or multi-player.

[lovinher]

I think for most who play together it's about sharing the experience. It is for me anyway. Not just the fact that some guy is fucking my wife. I wouldn't enjoy a swap if I was the only one of us having a great time. I want her to enjoy it as much if not more than me. It's the whole package.
For a guy who is trying to convince his SO to let loose and enjoy the lifestyle you better think of a better way to describe what you want to her. (based on your other post). I'm not bashing your post, but I think you need to slow down a bit.

[untamedhawk]

Great posts everyone!

LOVIGHER? I'm not taking any of this as a bashing.. Although you have brought up a g r e a t subject! For a guy who is trying to convince his SO to let loose and enjoy the lifestyle you better think of a better way to describe what you want to her. (based on your other post). I'm willing to listen to any and all advice too!

We are taking it slow as far as getting it going, but I'm also trying not to step on her feelings (as confusing as this is at first for her). I'd like to reiterate on her gunghoness (lol) I had talked & talked in a manner that made it an erotic thought to her, and she was only doing what she thought I wanted. I saw the guys picture before she asked, and told her he would be perfect for her first time - if we only knew he'd be interested. With that being said, I told her if it were me and I were her I'd ask (AND SHE DID...... ) He deleted his profile......(?)

So, lay it on the line/tell it like it is/ or /show me a better way to approach this with her - to her. What made the women of the board finally go for it? Any additional information is greatly welcome!

ED! Thank you for the story, I enjoyed reading it.

Hawk

[spectraschain]

What made the women of the board finally go for it?

Hmmmmmmm...it was her idea...