Is giving head easy for you girls?

[ausbloke]

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My fiance is reasonably open minded and i have a fantasy of watching her give another man oral, a while ago we went to a swingers club with no intension to do anything just look. anyway we got pretty horny and ended up having same room sex with another couple, i have never ever felt her that wet! she kept eyeballing him while she was sucking my cock i was very surprised at her reaction to the situation she was very horny,i dont know id i can actually go through with the fantasy but i just want to know from the girls out there if, based on what we have already done do you think she can go through with it.


What i want to know is if she is open to doing what shes already done do you think going the next step is not hard?

All i want is to watch her give head.

[flkeyscouple]

Originally Posted by ausbloke

All i want is to watch her give head.

But what does SHE want? You need to talk about it with her and the two of you must agree before going ahead with anything.

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by flkeyscouple

But what does SHE want? You need to talk about it with her and the two of you must agree before going ahead with anything.

Dito

It's all fine and good to have a fantasy, but reality is another matter. Until you can come to grips with the fact that your wife may have a fantasy or two of her own...which might involve considerably more than just giving another man head...you might be better off keeping this one just as it is.

Talk to her. A LOT. And don't do anything until you get all of the 'what ifs' worked out.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by ausbloke

i was very surprised at her reaction to the situation she was very horny

Why were you surprised? She went with you to a swing club - where sex would be in the air. If she wanted to go, my guess is that she was probably expecting some sort of sexual charge out of the experience. Why did she agree to go to the club in the first place? I might have been surprised or slightly disappointed if she wasn't turned on and said it wasn't her thing - but if she was excited, I think that would have simply confirmed all of the conversations that we'd had leading up to going there.

Originally Posted by ausbloke

What i want to know is if she is open to doing what shes already done do you think going the next step is not hard?

Impossible to tell...

There are plenty of couples who enjoy same room sex only - and any cross play is a giant leap that they won't take. How high that next step is depends entirely on your fiance.

Spoomonkey

[WesternSwing]

I agree with everyone above. You have to ask your fiance what she wants and if she wants to take it a step further. I understand what you are saying, I absolutely love watching Mrs. WS give a guy a blowjob, but the real issue is whether or not she wants to do it. Is it your fiance's fantasy also? Or is just the same room sex enough for her at this point in her life and your relationship? Remember, it has to be both of your fantasies, not just one of your's.

But, like Spoo said, she went there and very willingly participated up to this point, so talking with her about the "what ifs? should be easy from here. Just be prepared to accept any answer as valid and correct for her at this moment in time and don't judge her or try to coerce, manipulate, or convince her of something if her answer doesn't meet eye-to-eye with your ideas at this time.

Mr. WS

[mfmyeahbaby]

I totally agree with you, watching my wife give a blowjob is damn erotic and a beautiful thing. Is that what she wants? I think to about your fantasies is a good way to understand where each other stands. If you guys haven't talked about it, then doing is a very bad idea.

[ausbloke]

Thanks for the feedback people, i understand what you are all saying and myself and mrs ausbloke have spoken about it in great detail, i just think that she is a little embarassed about the fact the she would like the act. I think there is a part of her that believes that i will think less of her if she admits that the thought of sucking another guy turns her on. I guess that i want to know a female point of view if giving head is a big deal when your in a realationship. ie. is full sex very different.

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by ausbloke

I guess that i want to know a female point of view if giving head is a big deal when your in a realationship. ie. is full sex very different.

Ooops, I guess I never actually answered the question, did I?

No, sex with other people came surprisingly easy. I was really shocked at how natural it felt. Mr. intuition and I looked at one another, saw that we were okay, and continued happily.