Going to our first house party...

[justdoit222000]

So we've been invited to our first house party were we will only know the host couple, and were wondering if anyone could give us some pointers as to what we can expect, etiquette, etc. Thank you in advance for your advice
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[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by justdoit222000

give us some pointers as to what we can expect, etiquette, etc.

Speaking from our own experience, you can expect a house party having Lifestyle guests to look and feel just like any other house party for at least the first hour or so -- guys gathering around a TV set watching a sporting event, gals in the kitchen engaged in girl talk. After a while, people tend to quietly pair off (or go off in threes or fours) to a private room. They they re-appear. One particular host and hostess of our acquaintance make a big point of putting an inflatable mattress into the front room and telling the guests, "this is for group sex." I never seems to happen. I think people prefer priivate. Another host and hostess have games. My favorite was when the guys were given a small stack of $100 Monopoly notes when they arrived. The female guests could get money from the guys for "doing something nice" without defining or suggesting what "something nice" might mean. There were first second and third prizes for the women who gathered the most moeny. It got things moving very nicely.

After your event, let me know what you experienced. We'll compare notes.

Michael

[justdoit222000]

Thanks for the feedback. We will definatley have to share notes LOL What you said made me feel a bit more comfortable too, so thanks for that!!

[lookingfornow]

We had a slightly different experience with our first house party. The couple hosting it was a couple with whom we had played a couple times just prior to the event. They knew that we were relatively new to swinging at the time and that it was our first house party. So, they knew we were a bit apprehensive but excited.

When we arrived, the host and hostess made a point of introducing us around to all the other people. There were three other couples and a single female. They also walked us around the house to show us the rooms that had been set up as play areas (two bedrooms and a big group area in the basement).

We did our best to make small talk with all of the other people for the first 45 or so minutes. At about that time, the hostess appeared in a much more revealing set of clothing and encouraged everyone to get more comfortably dressed. I had brought along a cute little nightie in anticipation of this. My husband was wearing some pj bottoms under his pants, but quickly felt over dressed as all of the other males stripped nude.

Couples did sort of pair off a little. The host and one of the other wives went off to one of the bedrooms to play. But most everyone else headed to the basement. One of the other women with whom we had been talking grabbed my husband’s cock and started giving him head on the bed while two of the guys started paying attention to me on a mattress on the floor. Things just naturally progressed from there.

Now, I want to be clear about one thing. NO ONE WAS FORCING US TO DO ANYTHING. If we had wanted to sit back and watch, I think everyone would have been very comfortable with that. I think they were all pleasantly surprised that we jumped in and played so quickly and readily. Candidly, I was surprised, too. I definitely went to the party with a wait and see attitude. However, I found myself completely caught up in the moment.

We have come to learn that every party is a little different and very much depends upon the personality of the hosts. We were fortunate in that most of the couples at our party knew one another and had played together before. As the newbies to the group, we were sort of treated as honored guests.

I would also add that we went to the party with a very, very open mind. Though we had intended to mostly be voyuers, we had also discussed the possibility of playing. We agreed in advance that if we played our focus would be on having a good time and taking the experience for what it was worth--group sex in a fun atmosphere. As a result, we were not necessarily applying the same standards of play that we have for hooking up with a couple one-on-one. I don’t want to say that we would have played with anyone who was at the party. But, I definitely wasn’t as concerned about finding the "right" partner for me playing in the group setting, if that makes any sense. I mean, the focus really was on the sex and the different sexual experiences that were possible. I think I was mostly caught up in the moment and in wanting to have those experiences.

I would recommend that you take along something to lounge in between play times. We had never really considered it, but the sex went on for quite some time with couples and individuals taking breaks to get drinks or whatever (particularly the men). We sat and talked with one couple between interludes for quite a while, then walked around the house watching others in their play. All very hot. It would have been nice to have thought to bring a robe or something else to wear. My nightie really didn't qualify as good lounge wear.

Anyway, that was our first time. To this day it is one of the most exciting experiences we've had as a couple. I hope it helps!!

[justdoit222000]

Thank you for your advice. We had not thought about the clothes and lounge wear. every bit of advice is helping, so again thank you!!

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by justdoit222000

So we've been invited to our first house party were we will only know the host couple, and were wondering if anyone could give us some pointers as to what we can expect, etiquette, etc. Thank you in advance for your advice
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Hi justdoit,

House parties can vary a whole lot. Personally, I'd ask your hosts a lot of questions before you go about how their parties usually go. They will probably be more than happy to fill you in. Ask them for tips on what items might come in handy for you to have, and anything else that comes to mind.

I hope you let us know about it after the party.

[justdoit222000]

I will definatley fill you in after next sat (mar 24). We're nervous and excited about the party

[justdoit222000]

Well we've done it!!! Our first house party!! We had such a great time made some really FUN new friends, and were made to feel comfortable by all. Thanks to everyone who gave me advice, because it helped alot with the pre party nerves! It was such a fun experience and we cant wait for the next one!!!!!!

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by justdoit222000

Well we've done it!!! Our first house party!

Wonderful! And thanks for letting us all know how it went.