House Parties

miacpl30 · 11-06-2006, 04:55 PM

We are new to the scene. Not interested in clubs but a private house party seems like a good way to get our feet wet in soft swing etc. We are on a few sites like sdc and sls. Whats the best way to meet folks lkg for the same thing....

N&G · 11-06-2006, 06:37 PM

In my opinion the best way is to find another couple who are very experienced and think the same way as you. If you hit it off they will introduce you to their friends and you may be invited to some of their parties. It's also less apprehensive to go to a party where you already know at least one couple. Unfortunately it may take some time and a lot of luck but it's worth it.

**Pepper & Drew** · 11-06-2006, 10:24 PM

Actually, I think private house parties are more high pressure than off premises clubs. At house parties, usually some (or all) of the couples have at least met, if not played before, which usually means the real deal starts a little faster. The play area is usually RIGHT THERE, as opposed to a lot of off premises clubs, which usually have hotel rooms nearby. You won't see any sex at the club, where at a houseparty, it more than likely will end up being a free-for-all right there in the livingroom. At a off prem party, you more than likely won't be the only newbie, whereas with fewer people at a houseparty, you may be the only newbies.

We were apprehensive about going to a club too...just because we had all sorts of preconceived notions about how it would be. Turns out now it's our prefered way to meet people.

Pepper

flkeyscouple · 11-06-2006, 10:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by N&G

If you hit it off they will introduce you to their friends and you may be invited to some of their parties.

This would be my suggestion too! That and read the profiles of others on the web sites. Look for people whose profiles say that they like to host house parties.

Good luck!

Sarah

gatorvol64 · 11-06-2006, 10:49 PM

We haven't been to a club but we have been to a house party. I agree with Pepper. I'd try the off premises club first.

Vol

**good times** · 11-06-2006, 11:48 PM

Dito

with what Pepper said, and I am not just saying that because she is hot and I want to get on her good side. If it works out that way though, that is ok too.

We have been to house parties and on-premise clubs, haven't been to an off-premise club yet, but the house parties that we have been to were much more high pressure than the on-premise clubs are. So for what you are looking for I wouldn't recommend a house party either.

**LikeMinds321** · 11-07-2006, 12:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

Actually, I think private house parties are more high pressure than off premises clubs. At house parties, usually some (or all) of the couples have at least met, if not played before, which usually means the real deal starts a little faster. The play area is usually RIGHT THERE, as opposed to a lot of off premises clubs, which usually have hotel rooms nearby. You won't see any sex at the club, where at a houseparty, it more than likely will end up being a free-for-all right there in the livingroom. At a off prem party, you more than likely won't be the only newbie, whereas with fewer people at a houseparty, you may be the only newbies.

We were apprehensive about going to a club too...just because we had all sorts of preconceived notions about how it would be. Turns out now it's our prefered way to meet people.

Pepper

I concur.

LM

NandTfromCA · 11-07-2006, 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by good times

Dito

with what Pepper said, and I am not just saying that because she is hot.

Dito, but her avatar is OUT OF CONTROL! facelick

We were amazed at how relaxed and low pressure the first off premise club we went to was. Imagine a regular dance club...mellow out the pressure level by a couple notches...take away the puffy attitude of the people looking to be noticed...add in a bunch of very normal, secure, and nice people...and that's what we found.

As far as finding a house party, N&G gave some good advice.

**Pepper & Drew** · 11-07-2006, 07:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by good times

Dito

with what Pepper said, and I am not just saying that because she is hot and I want to get on her good side. If it works out that way though, that is ok too.

Pepper

Thrax · 11-07-2006, 07:24 PM

Excuse me, but do I just have to get in a "Pepper" line, or take a number, or what?

I wanna know and I'm just a little...anxious.

Thrax

ShellyM · 11-07-2006, 07:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thrax

Excuse me, but do I just have to get in a "Pepper" line, or take a number, or what?

I wanna know and I'm just a little...anxious.

Thrax

CHEATER

I thought I had you to myself.
LOL, JK

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11-06-2006, 04:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
miacpl30 Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 13 Location: South Florida Status: Couple	House Parties We are new to the scene. Not interested in clubs but a private house party seems like a good way to get our feet wet in soft swing etc. We are on a few sites like sdc and sls. Whats the best way to meet folks lkg for the same thing....

11-06-2006, 06:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
N&G Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 116 Location: Northern New Jersey Status: Couple	Re: House Parties In my opinion the best way is to find another couple who are very experienced and think the same way as you. If you hit it off they will introduce you to their friends and you may be invited to some of their parties. It's also less apprehensive to go to a party where you already know at least one couple. Unfortunately it may take some time and a lot of luck but it's worth it.

11-06-2006, 10:24 PM	#3 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,024 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple SLS Name:alhedonists	Re: House Parties Actually, I think private house parties are more high pressure than off premises clubs. At house parties, usually some (or all) of the couples have at least met, if not played before, which usually means the real deal starts a little faster. The play area is usually RIGHT THERE, as opposed to a lot of off premises clubs, which usually have hotel rooms nearby. You won't see any sex at the club, where at a houseparty, it more than likely will end up being a free-for-all right there in the livingroom. At a off prem party, you more than likely won't be the only newbie, whereas with fewer people at a houseparty, you may be the only newbies. We were apprehensive about going to a club too...just because we had all sorts of preconceived notions about how it would be. Turns out now it's our prefered way to meet people. Pepper __________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

11-06-2006, 10:49 PM	#5 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,342 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple & half of a quad Blog Entries: 11	Re: House Parties We haven't been to a club but we have been to a house party. I agree with Pepper. I'd try the off premises club first. Vol __________________ He is the Gator and she is the Vol.

11-06-2006, 11:48 PM	#6 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,420 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: House Parties Dito with what Pepper said, and I am not just saying that because she is hot and I want to get on her good side. If it works out that way though, that is ok too. We have been to house parties and on-premise clubs, haven't been to an off-premise club yet, but the house parties that we have been to were much more high pressure than the on-premise clubs are. So for what you are looking for I wouldn't recommend a house party either. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

11-07-2006, 07:24 PM	#10 (permalink)
Thrax Celebrate perversity Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,396 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male SLS Name:Thrax	Re: House Parties Excuse me, but do I just have to get in a "Pepper" line, or take a number, or what? I wanna know and I'm just a little...anxious. Thrax __________________ You get what you play for.

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