Ideal Situation - nudists/friends/swingers

[jjtrindc]

One place we would suggest is a place like Desire. Last time we went, the crowd we ended up hanging with was made up of swingers and nudists...but nobody actually used any labels. It was pretty easy to pick up on who were swingers and who were nudists by the type of vibe they put out. Key is to avoid going during a takeover which tends to be a much more sexual crowd. As for us, we deliberately picked a takeover crowd for our return to Desire Cancun...lol!

[PlayingTogether]

Originally Posted by MidWestVirgins

We appreciate everyone's feedback. It's not so much that we are looking for camps/ resorts/ colonies... We are more of an intimate group kind of couple. We'd really enjoy same-room play or soft-swapping, then all fall asleep in the same room and not be in a rush the next morning to get dressed just to have coffee. Is that just crazy??

I don't think it is crazy at all. In researching swinging lifestyles, one thing my wife and I have found time and time again is the need for respect of desires and boundaries. In fact, swingers seem to have a better handle on this than most of the rest of the world. My wife and I have both been involved in full swap in the past (before we knew each other). Now that we are together, we have settled into exactly what you and your husband are looking for. That is what makes US happy. Isn't that what sharing a swinging experience is all about? It is more difficult to find people with similar desires. But, it sure is fun when you do. Different strokes for different folks?

[Mr_n_Dr_Hottie]

Originally Posted by jjtrindc

One place we would suggest is a place like Desire. Last time we went, the crowd we ended up hanging with was made up of swingers and nudists...but nobody actually used any labels. It was pretty easy to pick up on who were swingers and who were nudists by the type of vibe they put out. Key is to avoid going during a takeover which tends to be a much more sexual crowd. As for us, we deliberately picked a takeover crowd for our return to Desire Cancun...lol!

We still very much consider ourselves newbies at this, but this technique has worked well for us. In fact, thus far it has been the ONLY way we have hooked up with other couples. It helps that we live only two hours from Sea Mountain in Palm Springs. The environment there is similar to Desire on a takeover week, but it is like that all the time.

We have made lots of very good friends there over the past year that we have been going, and have recently begun playing with some. But we have also played with couples that we just met that day and felt comfortable with.

Last Monday we returned from a week at Desire, with a non-takeover crowd, and were really bored with the "activity" level there. I think that even a non-swinging nudist would have felt somewhat bored as well because of so many people being dressed or only partially nude. Maybe we just went at a bad time. Or maybe, as I suspect, we have just gotten used to hanging out in a nude, openly sexually-charged atmosphere.

[wilinct]

Going from prude to nude and then to swinging in gradual steps at your own pace is easy to do at Hedonism II in Jamaica. Try going during a Lifestyles week. Good luck.
wilinct