want to watch my wife with another guy

[Silkywt]

Wow! It's awesome reading all of this.. hearing about how you love to see your woman pleasured by another man. It gives me HOPE (lol) that one of these days we might experience something like that

[panhead]

My wife and I have discussed this a great length...she is very willing but is nervous...I was hoping that maybe some of the women on this thread could share how it makes them feel and any suggestions of finding the right guy

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[nycplforfun1]

Wow, thanks for all those GREAT stories, helps us feel more "normal" ... LOL ... whatever "normal" is? We are long time swingers, began at Plato's in NYC years ago. During our encounters we found sometimes the female of the other Cpl wasn't interested in play. That is when I discovered how much I truly enjoyed watching my wife with another guy or 2. This is no doubt our #1 type of fun, although we still go to swing clubs sometimes deep inside I can't wait till after when I can have her (my wife) after several other men have had her.

[celtic239]

Panhead,
I think I'm in the same boat as you. My wife and I agreed to go to a clothing optional resort for our anniversary. The reason I suggested this type of vacation was that she had stated that she had lost the desire to have sex. I did some research on the web and it appeared that she may have a sexual dysfunction.
I presented her with the research and within days she agreed to go to the resort and seemed to look forward to going. I told her that she wouldn't have to engage in any activity that she felt uncomfortable with and that I thought it was important for her to be immersed in a sexually charged enviorment. To my surprise she agreed and I booked the tickets a month ago
Just tonight we were talking about the resort and I reassured her that all shapes and sizes will be there and that in my eyes she will be the sexiest gal there. Then out of the blue she says "I don't think I want to do that swing stuff", but if you want to do it it's OK". My reply was that the whole reason I got into this was to have HER sex life get out of the dumps and to experience the enjoyment and pleasure of sex.
We are still going but have any of you guys, who only want the Mrs to be sexually satisfied and don't mind another guy helping you out, ever ran into this last minute change of heart or is it just a case of jitters on her part.
Any advice would be appreciated.

[clyde1035]

I first became intrigued when my wife(then Fiance) was telling me about an incident that happened when she moved in with me and my parents and my 5 brothers. One had been sneaking in to our bedroom closet and was watching her undress, and then he would climb into bed with her, whispering to her to be quite. My parents were in the bedroom next door. I worked the grave yard shift. Seems that my oldest brother wanted some of my future wife before we were to be married.She never did give in,but he did pull her panties off and got her off orally, several times.This went on for several weeks, until one day he tried to penetrate her, she ran. No one was home.
She told me about it when I got home, she told me that he had tried to rough her up and that he was drunk.I was furious, After getting the whole story out of her it was arousing me that she had been doing this for a while, so she must have liked it.So later on during our lovemaking, I would have her tell me in detailed what they use to do. I would get off to it. We have been married now for 26 years. Two years ago, he started flirting with her, and she would tell me about it. I told her to play along. He was all over her, grabbing her nice round butt, and squeezing her tits. He offered her $500 if she let him lay her. She told him that she would think about it. I told her that I would love to finally see her have sex with him after all these years, but it would be impossible, he didnt know that i knew. So I had a double sided full length mirror on our bedroom door. It worked. It was the best climax I have ever had, watching my brother hammer my wife, he was like a caveman, slamming her hard, and the harder and faster he put it to her, she would moan. I came three times in the closet. He did every thing to her. Wow...that was the first and best time. After he left, I came out of the closet and gave her a high five, before we screwed for two hours.

[cumhungrycouple]

Originally Posted by celtic239

Panhead,
I think I'm in the same boat as you. My wife and I agreed to go to a clothing optional resort for our anniversary. The reason I suggested this type of vacation was that she had stated that she had lost the desire to have sex. I did some research on the web and it appeared that she may have a sexual dysfunction.
I presented her with the research and within days she agreed to go to the resort and seemed to look forward to going. I told her that she wouldn't have to engage in any activity that she felt uncomfortable with and that I thought it was important for her to be immersed in a sexually charged enviorment. To my surprise she agreed and I booked the tickets a month ago
Just tonight we were talking about the resort and I reassured her that all shapes and sizes will be there and that in my eyes she will be the sexiest gal there. Then out of the blue she says "I don't think I want to do that swing stuff", but if you want to do it it's OK". My reply was that the whole reason I got into this was to have HER sex life get out of the dumps and to experience the enjoyment and pleasure of sex.
We are still going but have any of you guys, who only want the Mrs to be sexually satisfied and don't mind another guy helping you out, ever ran into this last minute change of heart or is it just a case of jitters on her part.
Any advice would be appreciated.

Oh yes. My wife say "no way its disgusting!"

But after a couple of MFM 3somes she now want to try two or more extra males at the same time..........

But you have to know your wife well. Mine loved porn and kinky talk and is turned on by being filmed and having sex where we can be discovered. I knew she would like it as I know her well. And we had an active sex life

for you.....

Prob best you lay off the swinging ideas and build up communication with your wife what makes her sexy. I think your approach souds very "male and ego centric". You say "I did some research on the web and it appeared that she may have a sexual dysfunction" sounds like you are being home doctor!!!!

Do think of seeking help but do realise its never just one persons fault. You may have already upset your wife deeply without realing it by blaming her for a lack of sex. So she basically say "you go and fuck others"

I hear a divorce coming if you do. Work on the relationship

You may notice things like

- kids
- work
- getting old
- getting fat
- humdrum life

all make us "unsexy". How romantic are you? treat her to facials? hairdresser? a make over? do you talk to her as 'mother and cook' or as your wife?

think about it

[Edison Carter]

Susan here--for the men wanting examples from a woman's perspective--The first moment of penetration with another woman's husband/bf is a total rush for me. So much in that moment: permission, trust, lust, welcoming, etc just . Then the more we just get into it the more I orgasm and I love when the men just gets sooooo into me.

[Alura]

Thank you, Susan, for an insightful and sensuous post.

Let's see... there must be a map to Indianana somewhere around here...


Mr. Alura