Feel threatened by my husband's desire to swing

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Originally Posted by kgncc

hello,
i am a 21 yrd old female, husband is 28, very into this. i however, think i might have a slight jelousy problem that im not sure how to get past. honestly, i think the only part about this that bothers is having a single girl over. i would really like to just do couples. because i feel neglected and jelous because im not the center of attention. my husband seems to want to do this on a regular basis, and i would like to do this every once a while. a regular basis for him is like once a month, and i feel that is over done. because that makes me feel threatened. i dont know how to make him understand, he is really pressuring me on the idea. i agreed to ya know ever few monthes or so, but he wants a commitment time and i would really like to ease into this, without really knowing if am going to like it. how do i break this down for my husband in "man Terms"

Oh dear. Sounds like trouble! Tell him its best to start slow and try it out. But to be honest he sounds like he is selfish and just wants other women. Explain to him that you want some extra men. See his reaction! Fairs fair.....

Dont want to be harsh but a man should respect his wife at all times. My wife and I have a solid agreement. Either says "no" or "never again" we immediately stop or would never do it again. This is based on trust and committment to our marriage. Its essential to enjoy swinging "jealous free"

Maybe you are not ready for this?