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Wives who like to watch?

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Old 07-15-2004, 01:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
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We read about husbands who like to watch their wives have sex with another man or woman, but do some wives also enjoy watching their husbands have sex with another woman?
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Old 07-15-2004, 02:02 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Hi every one.Mrs C said she like to see men get it on but not the ladies.She must be trying to till me something. I gess thats fair.After all we men like to see the ladies. C and D
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Old 07-15-2004, 02:02 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Although I LOVE to watch Mrs Naughty, watching me really isnt her thing.

But we have been with one couple where the woman wanted to stop for a bit to watch her hubby with Mrs naughty. Which was fine with me because that is my favorite part as well!!
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Old 07-15-2004, 11:26 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I for one LOVE LOVE LOVE to watch! It's so erotic watching him get pleasure from and give pleasure to another woman. When we met up with our first couple she had asked me what we wanted to get out of swinging and that was one of the first things I said...I want to see my husband with another woman. This is something I've fantasized about for years. For the longest time I used to fantasize about restraining him and blindfolding him and bringing another woman in to play with him while I sat back and watched and see how long before he realized it wasn't me. This was just a fantasy and not something I plan on doing but I've been able to get myself off numerous times just playing it over and over in my mind.
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Old 07-15-2004, 12:03 PM   #5 (permalink)
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My wife says she loves to watch me with other women. It's one of the things she gets out of swinging. Whether it's flirting or gettin' busy, she says she likes watching me... be me. She says it's like "see that, that's MY MAN doin' that." I guess that's how some men feel about watching their wife with another man. Kind of a pride thing???

I am personally neutral about watching her have intercourse with another man. But I love to watch her give another man a blow job. I think that is really sexy. Definitately a pride thing. Hearing another guy say "oh, God.. oh, God" to her oral skills makes me smile and think to myself, "yup, I know she's the bomb... I'm a lucky bastard."

Analyzing it, I guess it's because for me watching her have intercourse with another man is really watching him "in action", where watching her do a blow job is watching purely her "in action". So the reason is probably allot the same as her's of watchin' me "in action".

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Old 07-15-2004, 01:58 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Mrs. Denver2some here ...

While the Mr loves to watch me in action, I can't really say the same. I'm glad that he's having fun but I'm not a voyeur by nature. Plus I find it distracts me from my partner, and that can lessen the experience.

While my husband would kind of like to show off for me, he understands that it's just not my thing.
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Old 07-15-2004, 09:13 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I enjoy watching Mr. with another woman. A couple of times my partner and I have finished prior to Mr. and his and it was fun to sit back and watch them finish their fun. I also like making eye contact with him occasionally while we are both busy just to see if he will give me the "this is fun" look. It definatley puts a smile on my face when I see that.
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Old 07-15-2004, 09:32 PM   #8 (permalink)
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When we first got into the lifestyle I didn't think I would like to see let alone watch the Mr with another woman. Well things changes sooooo quickly. Once we jumped in I have discovered there are a lot of things I like that I didn't think I would.

The first time I became aware of how much I liked watching him was during a 5some we had with a single female and another couple. Everyone kind of shifted around periodically and at one point while the female of the couple and I were busy (my first bi experience) I looked over at our two husbands with the single girl and it got me so hot watching the Mr with her, well . . . .

Then recently we had a 3some with another female and I actually surprised the Mr by sitting away from them a little and watching. I don't know who was more surprised him or me, but I loved it! I loved that he was really enjoying himself and that she was enjoying him as well . . . and he's mine all mine!!! Sort of like WesternSwing said "It's kind of a pride thing".

So, now I have to say YES, I love watching Mr Spoomonkey from his flirting around at the club to any form of pile up we wind up in. It turns me on to watch him do all the fantastic things he does to me to someone else. facelick

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Old 07-15-2004, 09:47 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I positively LOVE to watch him with another female!!
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Old 07-15-2004, 10:19 PM   #10 (permalink)
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we are still new, but i do love the idea of getting to watch him with another lady. there is just some turn on about the whole idea
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Yes, I would love to see my husband have a great time, I would get a lot of satisfaction and it woul bond our trust. Just don;t play without me.
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Hmmm, had to think on this in order to give an accurate answer. I am not a voyeur by nature; I'm more the exhibitionist type.
That being said, I love thinking about either of my men having fun and getting pleasure from another. I want to hear them tell me about it and how it felt, what was good. It gives me insight on what does it for them. I would love to watch while a lady gave them pleasure; watch them be under her control. I am less interested in watching my man be in control. facelick
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We have wondered ourselves if I was alone in this!!! Glad to see I am not! I being the female half of the couple LOVE to watch my husband with other females. A lot of people think I do not want to play...and this is so so far from the truth, but I dont want to be so busy that I can't watch him either.
I can just sit in a chair..and watch my husband and without touching myself ...get off. I know what some of you are saying..that this isnt true... Ahhh but yet it is! I am waiting for another chance just to watch..but most couples we are with don't like that idea.

I thought I was odd..gladd to see I am not the only one who likes watching!!!
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Old 04-05-2007, 06:44 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Oh, I can tell, my wife really like to watch me flirt, have sex, please and get pleasure from anther woman

I guess I am lucky!
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