Should I tell my husband that I crossed a boundary? - Page 2

Nymph an' Satyr · 08-31-2003, 11:58 PM

I think that you chose wisely. Which does not mean that the decision is free of pain.

Best of luck!

ready2pla · 09-01-2003, 08:36 AM

That had too be one of the hardest things to do not knowing how your husband was going to react. But you still done the rite thing.
There are always humps and bumps in all relationships and swinging relationships just mutiply it. One good thing is your husbad now know's that you will tell him everything even if it is bad. Let us know if your swinging relationship survives with the couple. Good friends are hard to come by and swinging friends are even harder to find.

OhioCouple · 09-01-2003, 10:09 AM

Wildflower. I am so glad you chose the path you did. You have to feel a lot better! And as ready2pla said, which couldn't have been said better...

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One good thing is your husbad now know's that you will tell him everything even if it is bad

This should only serve to strengthen your bond with your husband.

BradAndJanet · 09-01-2003, 11:47 AM

WildFlower that is wonderful! I agree with OC and ready2pla, this has the potential to strengthen the relationship you have with your husband, as he knows you won't hold anything back, and you know that he will be understanding when you reveal things of a difficult nature.

-B

Brit_Pair · 09-05-2003, 11:23 AM

Glad to hear that you went with your instincts, and that your husband reacted in the way that he did. Hope things continue to work out for you both.

***JustAskJulie*** · 09-05-2003, 04:09 PM

Glad to see you told your husband. The fact that this guy even asked you to keep it secret sends up so many red flags in my head.

**good times** · 09-05-2003, 05:24 PM

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Originally posted by JustAskJulie
The fact that this guy even asked you to keep it secret sends up so many red flags in my head.

Thats exactly what I was thinking when I read this. When somebody says don't tell it's usually because something isn't right.

R

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Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	Glad to hear that you went with your instincts, and that your husband reacted in the way that he did. Hope things continue to work out for you both.
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08-31-2003, 11:58 PM	#16 (permalink)
Nymph an' Satyr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 352 Location: Street, Maryland Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:nymphansatyr	I think that you chose wisely. Which does not mean that the decision is free of pain. Best of luck!

09-01-2003, 08:36 AM	#17 (permalink)
ready2pla Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 80 Location: kansas	That had too be one of the hardest things to do not knowing how your husband was going to react. But you still done the rite thing. There are always humps and bumps in all relationships and swinging relationships just mutiply it. One good thing is your husbad now know's that you will tell him everything even if it is bad. Let us know if your swinging relationship survives with the couple. Good friends are hard to come by and swinging friends are even harder to find.

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