Wanted to go further, husband intervened

[joseph3d]

A thought I had was that someone wrote this for the reaction. It doesn't seem real. Like someone else said, we have never observed anyone who acted like that in our experiences in the clubs.

[Lovers6770]

I also believe the post to be false in at least some regard. First it sounds like it was written by a guy, not a woman. Second, while we have seen some VERY racy and hair-raising things happen at times at clubs, (depends on the club) Most clubs would put an immediate stop to somebody having anal sex without a condom and the people caught would be banned from the club. The liability is just too great to permit this type of action to occur.

With that said however, I would argue that this kind of thing could and does happen in general (just not likely out at a club), i.e. a woman "loosing all control" and sense of "reason" in her desire for sex with a very arrousing guy. My wife & I have been there ourselves twice in the last 3+ years we have been swinging, so to that extent I can believe it COULD have happened.

My wife is not on anything and has had unprotected sex twice with fertile guys, but not cumming in her which is a DOUBLE TROUBLE. Once at the house of a couple the first time we met them, and once with a single male we know that she enjoys and have had several MFM encounters.

Some females dislike condoms as much as some guys do for a variety of "logical" reasons. drying-out, pain/comfort, enhanced pleasure/excitement, personnal choice, latex allergies and (what I suspect to be the most common "reason" of all) just not thinking before acting and getting "caught up on the moment"

This is the one I believe "caught" my wife the first time. The second I suspect had more to do with that we have used the withdrawal method for the last 5+ years so she "perfers" bareback.

[Brit_Pair]

I'm glad to know that I'm not alone in doubting the reality of this post.

[Flori_DAMAN]

I personally have a hard time believing that anyone could doubt that a woman could sink that low.

For instance could a man sink that low?

Hey the chick came on here with a statement that no one can claim is false.

Ok, maybe it is a guy or whatever but to me it just sounds like a female that hasn't been round the block.

It would be nice to see compassion and recognition that she maybe has some problems that we could solve.

It is easy to say she is a fake, but it is hard to accept the fact that she could be real.

I assume people are real unless they contradict themselves.

I would suggest lightening up on the poster and think about the scenario that was laid out.

It sounds believable to me.

I have indeed witnessed much more bizarre behaviour.

IF you blow everyone off that says something you have never experienced then there wont be much left.

I suggest we get back to the original post.

Maybe she is confused about his feelings and her own.

John

[imsnowman]

It would certainly help if the writer returned and replied to some of the original replies that were helpful and to the point.

[JustAskJulie]

I agree with John here. THe reason we allow anonymous posting is because situations like this do occur where someone may not feel comfortable giving any information about themselves, but they do want some feedback/help regarding their situation. I also agree that it would be helpful if she would return and comment whether it be to those who have given advice or just to post and say "hey yes I am real". However, given that she is an anonymous poster that may be hard for her. While we do allow initial topics to be started by unregistered users we do require them to register if they want to reply to a topic, so it's a bit of a Catch-22 for her.

If you (the original poster) are still reading the responses to your question and you do want to respond but stay anonymous. It is very easy to do. Go to Yahoo or Hotmail and set up an email address strictly for use on this board. Then you can register with that email address and come back and respond.

[GirlieZ]

Originally posted by Unregistered
My husband and I have always swung in the same room. However, recently I hooked up with Eric, our local stud at a party. This guy is to die for and all the ladies are nuts over him. The problem is his ego is almost as big as his huge dick. He knows how to work both. With his ego comes the knowledge that what one woman might hesistate to do another with gladly do.

Basically, after some great foreplay and teasing the two of us starting getting really naughty. My hubby was in the room watching us from a corner that I forgot he was there. Eric brought me to seventh heaven time and time ago while calling me all sorts of nasty things. He got a little rough too but I was really getting off on it. When he finally threw me on the bed, ripped off his rubber and said he was going to ass rape me, my hubby stepped in. Eric just laughed said screw this and walked out. I ran after him begging him back and my hubby ran after me. It's kind of funny now. The sad thing was that I told my hubby off and sucked Eric off after he had anal sex with one of my friends. My hubby was mortified that I would degrade myself so much but it kind of turned me on.

Should be both admit that we may want different things and start swinging separately at times? I really get off being with someone like Eric who's rough and tough and really nasty as opposed to my loving and caring husband. What should I do?

This almost sounds like a story out of Penthouse Letters...for example...

1. She used the name Eric--I hope that if this was a real post she wasn't breaching the code of ethics of swinging. I truly hope that she changed names to protect the innocent. A local stud?? Give me a break! I wonder if they even exist anymore

2. What woman would be stupid enough to run after a man...begging him back going to the point of sucking him off after he had anal sex with another woman? I wager that it wouldn't be a woman who regularly swings.

3. Why would you disrespect your own husband in front of a group of people?

Zgirl

Lovers don't finally meet somewhere
They're in each other all along.

[SluttyWife]

Whoa! Slutty Wife is blushing here, too!
May I ask you if Rough Guy had enough courtesy to
wash himself thoroughly before your chowing down on him?

He doesn't sound like the kind of guy who could even
do that.

I am wondering how hubby feels...your swinging with hubby
should be a mutual, consensual thing. Are you aware
that you may are alienating your spouse by taking sides
with a stranger who obviously couldn't care less about you, your health, or your feelings?




Yes..."Lucy! You've got some 'splaining to do!"--- Ricky Ricardo


;-*

Slutty Wife

[IndyGirl2004]

As far as having compassion for the poster, I do have because I agree with John that maybe she has some problems that she and her husband need to address. Her method of acting out without talking with her husband first about her feelings is incredibly inappropriate to say the least.

Eric I won't even discuss except to say that his actions show how uncaring, self-centered and insensitive he is. Why anyone who knows this about him would still want to have sex with him is for a better brain than mine to consider.

Her husband thought she was being mistreated and took very appropriate and loving action. Yet she ran after someone who was inconsiderate of her husband's feelings, her safety, and his own safety.

This lady is to be given compassion for obviously having some issues here, but it only goes so far if she doesn't realize that the way she handled herself and her relationship with her husband was just plain wrong.

That's as I see it.

[Alura]

I think the whole story is fiction.

Besides that, I'm wondering how one "rips off" a condom. It's been my experience that they are anything but easy to remove before the penis is flaccid. I suppose one could actually tear it off, but I still think it wouldn't be easy.

Mr. Alura

[meowkittyhascla]

Running after a guy who was so disrepectful, (if this story is true) is one thing you will never find Miss Kitty doing.

[TES]

Well I didn't take the time to read all of the follow up post but must say "What a classless person!" Ever consider why the guy has an attitude? Low class women like you feeding his ego!

[TES]

Follow-up....................I must add that after more thought to this person's email I must say that odds are this is just a tale by someone with nothing better to do. Lets don't buy into such nonsense!