She Broke the Rules, it turned me on.

My wife and I have an open relationship with pretty much the only rule being safe sex and condoms. She got back from her date this weekend and was very sensitive to my advances and insisted on showering first. I surprised her in the shower and before she knew it I had my mouth on her vagina. Before I knew it I was tasting cum ... her lover cum. She started to cry and say how sorry she was and this and that. My dick got harder and harder. We were fucking like rabbits before we knew it. She still feels guity and that she's betrayed me. I feel that it was great and wouldn't mind her going condom free if she wants. She would never forgive me for such a indisretion and here I am wanting to encourage her. What's wrong with me?

[Alura]

This may be explained by a recently developed theory called "Sperm Wars." In some research it has been learned that a man, who normally ejaculates, say, a million sperm, will ejaculate, say, five million or more if he thinks the woman's vagina contains the sperm of another man.

The additional sperm is not to impregnate but to hunt down and kill the sperm of the other man. (This has been discussed in another thread; perhaps Lori can locate it and provide a link...)

Maybe the horniness is caused by the same phenomenon. Sperm Wars is covered in the book, The Lifestyle.

Mr. Alura

[Brit_Pair]

The link to the aforementioned thread is:

The Lifestyle

[Uneed_Love]

Originally posted by Unregistered
.... here I am wanting to encourage her. What's wrong with me?

Please I don't understand the meaning of this last sentence... Are you saying You want to encourage Your wife to have sex withouth the use of a condom or encouraging her to have sex only with the use of a condom ?

For the first aspect I am not sure how You then could react if You learn later that she has get AIDS while having fun with no protection. Sex is fun but doesn't not mean that it's more fun if we encourage our partners to have insecure sex... but it's just my opinion.

Untill now even the three therapies can delay the apparition of the first syndromes but they do not cure... at least this is what french doctors say and generally death is the issue

If I missunderstand - which is quite possible - then I apologize to appear so "negative" here.

JC who think we are never too cautious about AIDS

[naughty A]

I admit I was a little worried about the unprotected sex from a disease risk aspect as well.

[Brit_Pair]

I appreciate that it's the naughtiness (or is that nastiness?) of your wife taking another man's semen inside her that's turning you on, but I've got to agree with JC and Naughty A: there's not much eroticism to be found in STDs, especially HIV and AIDS.

If you intend to continue down this road, for both your sakes you need to find a playmate who you can *medically* certify is clean - bearing in mind that 100% certainty is a hard thing to come by.

[ciscosv]

I do find it erotic for my wife and I to have unprotected sex with some degree. But the real is a dangerous place. My wife and I have made the choice to use condoms if and when a swapping scenario fruitates. We will keep the unprotected sex fantasies just a fantasy. I would be highly disappointed if my wife had unprotected sex behind my back. Do what you will. The advice you will get from mostof us is to use CONDOMS. Ignorance is bliss.

BTW: I am under the impression that healthy ejaculate contains 45 to 50 million sperm.

[OhioCouple]

I have to agree with everyone else here. As many of you know my husband and I do not use condoms unless requested, the difference here being...geesh I feel like I have to justify it. Is that we seek partners that are much like us, that are in long term relationships and don't play with just any body that flaunts their way. We have used condoms with one couple as the female half is still of childbearing age and my husband is not V-safe. We will not play with anyone that we don't feel we know pretty well and we won't play with anyone that we think may have been exposed to disease or practices bed post knotching.

That said... This couple says they have an open relationship, which leads me to believe that you can just go out and pick up who ever, whether or not you know them. In that case, they are foolish to not wear a condom. I made the men I had sex with during my single years between marriages ALWAYS wear a condom or there wasn't any loving gonna be happening. I still laugh today, I think the only reason my husband asked me to move in and then married me was so he could chuck the condom. Yep, I made him use one too.

As turned on as this man is by it, it is a much safer practice for himself and his wife to make sure the little guy is covered.

Lori

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by ciscosv
BTW: I am under the impression that healthy ejaculate contains 45 to 50 million sperm.

And just imagine how many sperm are in a healthy ejaculate that are seeking to attack the last 45 to 50 million invaders....

Ya'll are gonna ruin me on sex with this sperm war thing!

Lori

[Uneed_Love]

Originally posted by OhioCouple
And just imagine how many sperm are in a healthy ejaculate that are seeking to attack the last 45 to 50 million invaders....

Oh my godness for sure this can be called a WOMD - war of massive destruction... uh oh guess what will happen if BUSH is learning about this... he will send his troops to intropecte all the vagina he can... LOL

JC

[Alura]

Originally posted by ciscosv


BTW: I am under the impression that healthy ejaculate contains 45 to 50 million sperm.

You're probably right, Cisco. As usual I was lazy and picked an arbitrary figure to make the point.

Mr. Alura

[Nymph an' Satyr]

This sperm wars thing is fascinating.

I too have fantasied about "sloppy 2nds, 3rds, and even 4ths" We have never done it however because of health concerns. Hell, we haven't done with condoms yet, but one day.....