Uninvited Touching at a Swinger Party

JnCC · 04-05-2006, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Alura

My goodness!

Is it possible that I disagree with Western Swing and Intuition while agreeing with JnCC? I'd never have guessed it!

You know....the people who's opinions I value the MOST, are the ones I can count on NOT to agree with me just because they think it's a condition of our friendship. They're the ones who bring me back into line when I'm wrong, and who cement my thoughts and ideas when I'm right.

If I wanted people to blow rose petals up my ass and tell me how terrific I am, I sure wouldn't come HERE, that's for damn sure...

The Fuse · 04-05-2006, 05:15 PM

Simply doing one's own thing at a party (but not in an "anything goes" group room), if sex in full view is the norm, while not doing anything to deliberately entice someone who's not playing with you at the time, is not enough to justify anyone touching without permission. Period. They would bear no responsibility for what happened and would be perfectly justified trying to get the hosts to address the situation.

If the ladies were, say, smiling at those guys while they were playing with each other, that might be enough for them to ask permission or feel invited. They could even ask permission before being smiled at or even looked at. But approaching closely or touching without being invited is definitely over the line in my opinion, no matter what the women were doing with each other, and regardless of whether there were any men present.

My handle "The Fuse" does not refer to my temper, but I'll be sure to show that I have one if this happens to me!

The Fuse · 04-05-2006, 05:17 PM

....and P.S., I think single males are great. Making some of them as happy as I can is definitely on my list and I can't wait. I'm sure the swinging world wouldn't be as good without them. facelick

Darkane · 04-11-2006, 06:18 AM

Once you realized the dirt bags were a problem you should have first told them to stop, and when they didn't stop you should have removed the fuel from the fire (stopped making out), found the hosts, and let them know what was up.

You aren't to blame for someone touching you when they had no right to, however, you didn't exactly do anything to difuse the situation once you realized they had no respect and were obviously jerks.

And if I were your husband, I would have done everything short of eating their souls. I'm a real nice guy, until someone disrespects my wife.

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04-05-2006, 05:15 PM	#17 (permalink)
The Fuse Abstraction Distraction Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 590 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: M. Female SLS Name:The_Fuse	Re: what brought us here is.... Simply doing one's own thing at a party (but not in an "anything goes" group room), if sex in full view is the norm, while not doing anything to deliberately entice someone who's not playing with you at the time, is not enough to justify anyone touching without permission. Period. They would bear no responsibility for what happened and would be perfectly justified trying to get the hosts to address the situation. If the ladies were, say, smiling at those guys while they were playing with each other, that might be enough for them to ask permission or feel invited. They could even ask permission before being smiled at or even looked at. But approaching closely or touching without being invited is definitely over the line in my opinion, no matter what the women were doing with each other, and regardless of whether there were any men present. My handle "The Fuse" does not refer to my temper, but I'll be sure to show that I have one if this happens to me! __________________ “Brains are an asset to the woman in love who's smart enough to hide 'em.” -- Mae West

04-05-2006, 05:17 PM	#18 (permalink)
The Fuse Abstraction Distraction Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 590 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: M. Female SLS Name:The_Fuse	Re: what brought us here is.... ....and P.S., I think single males are great. Making some of them as happy as I can is definitely on my list and I can't wait. I'm sure the swinging world wouldn't be as good without them. facelick __________________ “Brains are an asset to the woman in love who's smart enough to hide 'em.” -- Mae West

04-11-2006, 06:18 AM	#19 (permalink)
Darkane Active Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 27 Location: Earth Status: M. Male	Re: what brought us here is.... Once you realized the dirt bags were a problem you should have first told them to stop, and when they didn't stop you should have removed the fuel from the fire (stopped making out), found the hosts, and let them know what was up. You aren't to blame for someone touching you when they had no right to, however, you didn't exactly do anything to difuse the situation once you realized they had no respect and were obviously jerks. And if I were your husband, I would have done everything short of eating their souls. I'm a real nice guy, until someone disrespects my wife.

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