Let Wife's boss touch her while she was passed out

[themonster]

I welcome any thing to be pointed out where I have personally attacked anyone on this site.....I have however thoroughly shown where some have said conflicting and ridiculous things, yes, but attack people personally, no, I'll leave that to those who are harshly judging a guy who comes with a heavy heart looking for help because he has hurt someone he loves.......

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by themonster

I welcome any thing to be pointed out where I have personally attacked anyone on this site.....I have however thoroughly shown where some have said conflicting and ridiculous things, yes, but attack people personally, no.....

Ok, here you go.

Here's a few examples:

... more ridiculous affirmation that it should be ok

one more to further illustrate the lack of credible thinking here.......

I see politics in your future.....

I have however thoroughly shown where some have said conflicting and ridiculous things, yes,...

The above quotes, taken from your last few posts, are what we consider personal attacks on this board. As MJ pointed out, differing opinions are welcome, but not personal attacks.

[themonster]

hmmmm???? ok....there is a serious lack of comprehension here. (statement of fact, not attack) here's why:

Your post of my "quotes" and my responses:


Ok, here you go.

Here's a few examples:

Quote:
... more ridiculous affirmation that it should be ok (response) if you post the entire statement you will not lose the context of this statement ...here it is....
... more ridiculous affirmation that it should be ok to lose total control over your bodily functions to the point that you are not aware that someone is "raping, molesting, or assaulting " you because you have a "protector".

Are you disagreeing that it is ridiculous to lose total control over your bodily functions to the point of unconsciousness and put yourself at risk??? More to the point should that be something we should be applauding and promoting? I would hope not......this is a STATEMENT that I'm quite sure the vast majority of intelligent people would agree with, not a personal attack.

Quote:
one more to further illustrate the lack of credible thinking here....... (response) Again, I will complete the quote so as not to be taken out of context...so as not to confuse, this is a quote of me qouting the "uncredible thoughts"

one more to further illustrate the lack of credible thinking here......."you can sugar coat it anyway you want...rape=rape=rape....molest=molest=molest!!! "
........and then in the same post a few sentances later.... "The next time he may allow this person or some other one to actually rape her..."
....to which I resonded ""actually rape her"???...wait a second.....I thought you were so dead set on the fact that it WAS rape and molesting the FIRST time????" Good point indeed if I do say so myself.

These thoughts(statements) ARE in fact NOT credible. When you say one thing and then in the same paragraph state something completely contradictory it's safe to say most intelligent people would see this as not credible, after all, which are you to believe? Again a statement of fact with no personal attack.

Quote:
I see politics in your future.....(response) ok, now this one I can see that if the humor sneaks by that it could be taken the wrong way. However I anticipated that not everyone would recognize my humor so I put one of those GIANT smiling smileyfaces there to make sure....that should've sufficed.
And for the record it was making reference to saying one thing one minute and another the next.....just like a politician....see, that's pretty funny(and unfortunately true) <----another giant smiley face....


Quote:
I have however thoroughly shown where some have said conflicting and ridiculous things, yes,... (response) ...well this one really should need no response as it seems self explanatory, but nonetheless.....it is in response to this.... "I can appreciate it when people have differing opions, however I don't appreciate it when you take it to a level where you feel you have to personally attack others for having a differing opinon. " ....and I was quite simply explaining that some conflicting and ridiculous things ARE being said. And they are......if I was to personally attack someone it would be just that...personal......something like (hypothetically speaking)"your momma's so ugly.......", or "who's watchin' the trailer park", or "when you fell from the stupid tree you sure hit a lot of branches", or downright derrogatory stuff that's just not my style at all and you all know what that stuff is I think anyway.


The above quotes, taken from your last few posts, are what we consider personal attacks on this board. (response) It should now be pretty clear the lack of personal attacks and we can continue disagreeing on this one....but who knows, we might just find each other on the same side sometime, you never know.

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by themonster

Quote:
... more ridiculous affirmation that it should be ok (response) if you post the entire statement you will not lose the context of this statement ...here it is....
... more ridiculous affirmation that it should be ok to lose total control over your bodily functions to the point that you are not aware that someone is "raping, molesting, or assaulting " you because you have a "protector".

Are you disagreeing that it is ridiculous to lose total control over your bodily functions to the point of unconsciousness and put yourself at risk??? More to the point should that be something we should be applauding and promoting? I would hope not......this is a STATEMENT that I'm quite sure the vast majority of intelligent people would agree with, not a personal attack.

I think what you are not seeing here is the fact that no matter how much you drink, or what state you are in, it does not give anyone the go ahead to assault you or molest you in any way. I am not saying that we should promote drinking until passing out, I am saying we need to place the blame where it belongs, on the more heinous action, the boss being allowed to manhandle her while she was incapacitated.

If we went by what you are saying, we could say someone who is raped while unconscious should be held partially responsible for the attack because she got that drunk. Sorry but there is no situation where this kind of activity can be approved of or allowed, regardless of the mental state of the person at the time of the activity.

I think the reason we see your comments as personal attacks is that you imply that because we are not agreeing with your statements are not logical intellegent people or that our opinons are not credible or are in some way ridiculous. You can deemen others without name calling or derogetory remarks.

[biblonde]

THEMONSTER... just to clear up one thing then I am done with this post....
the statements of rape=rape=rape.....molest=molest=molest....

that is not saying they they are one in the same....rape is rape no matter what.AND molest is molest. You either are or your not one of the two.There is no grey erea in this.. It is kinda like being sorta prego! you either are or your not. and saying because she was drunk it isnt molest isnt much of an excuse for what happened. All (or most)of us at one time or another have drank to much and should assume that our SO or our friends would watch over us...it is called trust.

[BiDrywallChick]

::: kicking back with a diet pepsi and a cig:::: i would like to take this pause to say... lol I havent even had a chance to use fucktard yet today!

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by BiDrywallChick

::: kicking back with a diet pepsi and a cig:::: i would like to take this pause to say... lol I havent even had a chance to use fucktard yet today!

And here I thought I was the only one with a diet pepsi addiction....*cracks one open*

[BiDrywallChick]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

And here I thought I was the only one with a diet pepsi addiction....*cracks one open*

lol oh no no no.. according my my hubby, i will become homicidal if i run out!

[Vespertine]

I'm a Coke girl myself, but I really like the new Diet Pepsi with Lime. Have ya'll tried that yet?

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I'm a Coke girl myself, but I really like the new Diet Pepsi with Lime. Have ya'll tried that yet?

Mr LM just brought the Pepsi Lime home last week!

He loves it...and he doesn't ever drink pop!

Me, I took one sip and said no thanks. Give me a lemon-flavored Propel any day.

LM

P.S. What will he surprise me with next?

[EvilMJ]

Okay, now I am feeling left out.
They don't have diet pepsi with lime here (just coke with lime) and I have never heard of propell...LM..send me a care pacakge woukd you

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by BiDrywallChick

lol oh no no no.. according my my hubby, i will become homicidal if i run out!

now see you could have used your fucktard here instead of homicidal...he he he

[BiDrywallChick]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I'm a Coke girl myself, but I really like the new Diet Pepsi with Lime. Have ya'll tried that yet?

not yet... I am planning on it though. I like diet coke with lime ( even if i have to put the lime in myself)

[Vespertine]

Funny thing is I LOVE Coke and won't drink Pepsi but I tried the Coke with lime and I hated it. Yuck. Ew.

Then I had a Diet Pepsi with Lime and I really, really enjoyed it.

LM- My husband's hooked on Propel of all flavors.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

Okay, now I am feeling left out.
They don't have diet pepsi with lime here (just coke with lime) and I have never heard of propell...LM..send me a care pacakge woukd you

Oops. My mistake.

I pulled an empty out of the trash. It is Coke with Lime.

No matter, you still won't get me drinking the brown stuff...unless it's Root Beer...with ice cream...in a tall glass...with a straw...and a spoon. facelick


Propel is a "Fitness Water:" - Vitamin Enhanced from Gatorade. I laugh at myself for drinking it. I'm NOT one of those women who carries a water beverage with her like a purse. It has no status for me.

I picked one up while buying gas one day, I was dying of thirst, and it hit the spot. I probably get over my love affair with the stuff soon enough. Tap water with fresh lemon is my usual drink.

LM

P.S. MJ - I'll toss one to you. It should take a few hours to reach you.