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      What do all those acronyms mean? What in the world is a MWC? Here's where you will find your answers.





      420
      refers to marijuana use
      AC/DC
      Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity (see BI; BISEXUAL)
      ADULT
      Euphemism for pornographic.
      AFF
      Refers to the website Adult Friend Finder
      ALL CULTURES
      Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)
      AMERICAN CULTURE
      Man on top, the missionary position.
      ANAL SEX
      Anal intercourse (see GREEK; GREEK CULTURE)
      ANALINGUS
      Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.
      ANIMAL TRAINING / ANIMALS
      Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women (see BESTIALITY)
      ARTS
      Euphemism for fetishes (see CULTURE)
      B&D or B/D
      Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE; DISCIPLINE; BDSM)
      BBC
      Big Black Cock
      BBW
      Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their "ideal" weight,
      but are comfortable with the size that they are..
      BDSM
      A combination of three terms: BD (Bondage & Discipline), DS (Dominance & Submission), and SM (Sadism & Masochism). A wide range of sexual activities having to do with power.

      BESTIALITY
      (see ANIMAL TRAINING)
      BI
      Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC)
      BI-COMFORTABLE
      A Male or Female who is open to bi-sexual activities within swinging, but does not consider themselves bi-sexual or attracted to the same sex. (see also HETERO-FLEXIBLE and SOCIALLY BI)
      BI-CURIOUS
      A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
      BIZARRE
      Unusual sexual desires
      BONDAGE
      A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
      BUKKAKE
      a Japanese sexual term that refers to showering a receiver with sperm from one,
      several or many men. It is always a sperm shower and, therefore, those on the
      giving end are always male.
      BYOB
      Used to indicate that visitors must supply their own alcohol, common practice at clubs where local ordinances may prevent the sale of alcohol. However, they will usually provide "mixers" (ie. sodas, juices, ice). (See also MIXERS PROVIDED)
      CAN ENTERTAIN / CAN HOST
      Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
      CAN TRAVEL /WILL TRAVEL
      Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
      CANING
      A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
      CHEATING
      Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent.
      CLEAN
      Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
      CLOSED DOOR
      (see CLOSED SWINGING)
      CLOSED SWINGING
      Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy.
      CLOSET SWINGER
      A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)
      COUGAR
      Name for an older woman who is seen to be aggressive in pursuing younger men.
      COUPLE
      In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
      CPL
      (see COUPLE)
      CUCKOLD
      While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition.
      CULTURE
      Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.
      CUNNILINGUS
      Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE)
      D/D FREE
      Drug/Disease Free, meaning that a couple/person is is STD free and does not use drugs.
      DILDO
      An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
      HALL PASS
      1. A permission given to one married partner by the other to independently find and engage in sexual play. 2. A permission to play away from home without the presence of the other married partner.
      DIRECTOR
      The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.
      DISCIPLINE
      A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
      DISCREET OR DISCRETION
      Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
      DOCILE
      Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
      DOGGING
      Dogging is a British euphemism for engaging in sexual acts in a semi-public place (typically a secluded car park or a movie theater) or watching others doing so. Frequently, there are more than two participants; group sex and sometimes even gang bangs can occur. Observation is encouraged, thus voyeurism and exhibitionism are closely associated with dogging. The two sets of people involved often meet either randomly or (increasingly) arrange to meet-up beforehand over the internet.
      DOMESTIC TRAINING
      Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
      DOUBLE PENETRATION
      Being penetrated in two orifices at the same time (usually refers to anal and vaginal, may also include oral)
      DP
      Double Penetration
      DOMINANT
      A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
      ENGLISH CULTURE:
      Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning
      ENTERTAIN
      (see CAN ENTERTAIN)
      EUROPEAN STYLE CLUB
      One that requires clothing to be removed (sometimes after a certain time of night).
      EXHIBITIONIST
      Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.
      F
      Female





      FELLATIO
      Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
      FETISH
      Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
      FFM or FMF
      Threesome involving two women and one man (see THREESOME). FFM refers to a threesome that is female-centric, where the women play with each other. FMF refers to a threesome where he women only play with the man.
      FLAGELLATION
      Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
      FRENCH CULTURE:
      Oral-genital sexual activity (see FELLATIO; CUNNILINGUS)
      FRIENDS FIRST:
      Interested in developing some level of friendship prior to sexual play (see INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP)
      FULL SWAP
      Two couples exchanging partners for sexual intercourse (see SOFT SWAP)
      FUN AND GAMES
      Euphemism for sexual activity.
      GAY
      A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
      GBM
      Gay Black Male
      GENEROUS
      Refers to money for sex.
      GIRL-GIRL
      The girls will play while the guys watch.
      GOLDEN SHOWER
      Refers to urine play (see WATERSPORTS)
      GREEK CULTURE:
      Anal-penile intercourse
      GROUP ROOM
      Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).
      GROUP SEX
      Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
      GWM
      Gay White Male
      HARD CORE
      A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
      HARD SWINGING
      (see HARD CORE)
      HEAD
      Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see FRENCH CULTURE; FELLATIO; CUNNILINGUS)
      HEDONIST
      Someone who lives for pleasure.
      HETERO-FLEXIBLE
      (see BI-COMFORTABLE)
      HETEROSEXUAL
      Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
      HOMOSEXUAL
      Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
      HORNY
      Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
      HUNG
      Refers to a man with a large penis.
      HWP
      Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.
      INDOOR
      Swinging activities in general
      INDOOR SPORTS
      (See INDOOR)
      INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP
      Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. (See FRIENDS FIRST)
      IR
      Interracial
      IRL
      In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat
      ISO
      In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female
      LEATHER
      A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments.
      LESBIAN
      A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY; HOMOSEXUAL)
      LTR
      Long Term Relationship
      M
      Male
      MARITAL AIDS
      Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.
      MASOCHISM
      Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
      MASTER/SLAVE
      Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D; BONDAGE; DISCIPLINE; BDSM)
      MATROOM /MATTRESS ROOM
      Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).
      MBC
      Married Black Couple
      MBiC
      Married Bisexual Couple
      MEET & GREET (M&G)
      A swinger event, usually held in a public place, for the purpose of meeting other swingers.
      MEET FOR PLEASURE
      Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
      MENAGE A TROIS
      Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD)
      MFM or MMF
      Threesome involving two men and one woman (see THREESOME), however different types of threesomes. MFM refers to two straight males and a female, while MMF refers to two bi-males and a female.
      MILF
      "Mom I'd Like to Fuck" - used to refer to older women that are attractive
      MIXERS PROVIDED
      Used to indicate that the club/party will provide mixers (juice, sodas, ice) for those in attendance. You will need to bring your own alcohol. (see BYOB)
      MORESOMES
      More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX)
      MWC
      Married White Couple
      NASCA
      The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.




      NEWCOMERS
      New people in swinging; First-timers.
      NONSMOKER
      Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
      NSA
      No Strings Attached. Sex without any expectations beyond that encounter.
      OFF-PREMISE
      No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.
      ON-PREMISE
      A club where sexual play is allowed. Private and Public rooms are usually provided for play.
      OPEN DOOR
      (see OPEN SWINGING)
      OPEN RELATIONSHIP
      A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners; may or may not be a polyamorous couple; may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage.
      OPEN SWINGING
      A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.
      ORAL-GENITAL
      (see FRENCH; CUNNILINGUS; FELLATIO; HEAD)
      ORGY
      Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete
      absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex.
      PARTY
      Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
      PARTY CLOTHES
      Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
      PARTY HOUSE
      A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
      PASSIVE
      Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)
      PASSIVELY BI
      A male or female that will accept same sex touch/ attention but will not return it. (You can go down on me, but I don't go down on you).
      PHOTO
      Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
      PHOTOGRAPHY
      Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
      PLAYDAR
      That internal feeling you get that another couple may also be swingers (think Gaydar for swingers).
      POLYAMORY
      A love relationship involving more than 2 people.
      P/P
      Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
      PRO
      Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
      RECREATIONAL SWINGER
      A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment.
      RESTRAINT
      Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
      ROMAN
      Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE)
      ROMAN CULTURE:
      Sexual orgies
      RUBBER
      Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
      SAFE
      Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile.
      SAME ROOM
      Refers to playing together in the same room. May include soft swinging or full-swap.
      SAME ROOM SWAP
      Refers to swapping partners in the same room. As opposed to SEPARATE ROOM.
      S.A.S.E.
      Self-addressed stamped envelope.
      SBF
      Single Black Female
      SBiF
      Single Bisexual Female
      SBM
      Single Black Male
      SEPARATE ROOM
      Couples will split up and go into separate rooms to swap partners.
      SGL
      Single(see SINGLE)
      S&M or S/M
      Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM; MASOCHISM; BDSM)
      SCAT
      refers to the use of excrament/fecal matter.
      SCZ
      refers to the website Swingers Zone Central
      SDC
      refers to the website Swingers Date Club
      SINGLE
      A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status.
      SLS
      Swing Lifestyle, usually used to refer to SwingLifestyle.com, one of the more popular swinger ad sites.
      SOCIAL
      A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
      SOCIAL SWING CLUB
      A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
      SOCIALLY BI
      (see BI-COMFORTABLE)
      SODOMY
      Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.
      SOFT SWINGERS
      Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.
      SOFT SWAP
      Two couples exchanging partners for certain types of sexual activity (defined by the couples involved); if intercourse takes place it is only between primary partners (see FULL SWAP)
      SOFT SWINGING
      The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).
      SRS
      Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).
      STD
      Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.
      STR or STR8
      straight(see STRAIGHT)
      STRAIGHT
      Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.
      SUBMISSIVE
      Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive)
      SWAPPING
      Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. (see SOFT SWAP; FULL SWAP)
      SWEDISH CULTURE:
      Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another
      SWF
      Single White Female
      SWM
      Single White Male
      SWING MAGAZINE
      A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.
      SWINGING
      An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.
      SWINGING LIFESTYLE
      Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
      SWINGING MARRIAGE
      Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
      SWM
      Single White Male
      TAN
      Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS)
      THREESOME
      Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois)
      TICKET
      A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
      TOYS
      Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
      TRANSGENDERED
      Individual who does not identify with his/her biologically assigned sex. Not related to sexual orientation.
      TRANSSEXUAL
      Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion
      TRANSVESTITE
      A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual.
      TRAVEL
      (see CAN TRAVEL)
      TRIAD
      Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
      TRIOLISM
      Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD)
      TUBAL LIGATION
      Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
      UNICORN
      the term Unicorns represent a single female, bisexual or straight. Who is willing to have sex with a couple. To some, that seems mythical. Hence, the name/title.
      UTOPIAN SWINGER
      A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
      VANILLA
      Typically refers to non-swingers (ie. "vanilla friends")
      VASECTOMY
      Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
      VERSATILE
      Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
      VIBRATOR
      Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
      VOLUPTUOUS
      Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
      VOYEUR
      A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
      VOYEURISM
      Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.
      WATERSPORTS
      Typically refers to urine play.(see GOLDEN SHOWER)
      WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS
      Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional.
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