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    What do all those acronyms mean? What in the world is a MWC? Here's where you will find your answers.


    420
    refers to marijuana use
    AC/DC
    Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity (see BI; BISEXUAL)
    ADULT
    Euphemism for pornographic.
    AFF
    Refers to the website Adult Friend Finder
    ALL CULTURES
    Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)
    AMERICAN CULTURE
    Man on top, the missionary position.
    ANAL SEX
    Anal intercourse (see GREEK; GREEK CULTURE)
    ANALINGUS
    Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.
    ANIMAL TRAINING / ANIMALS
    Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women (see BESTIALITY)
    ARTS
    Euphemism for fetishes (see CULTURE)
    B&D or B/D
    Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE; DISCIPLINE; BDSM)
    BBC
    Big Black Cock
    BBW
    Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their "ideal" weight, but are comfortable with the size that they are..
    BDSM
    A combination of three terms: BD (Bondage & Discipline), DS (Dominance & Submission), and SM (Sadism & Masochism). A wide range of sexual activities having to do with power.
    BESTIALITY
    (see ANIMAL TRAINING)
    BI
    Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC)
    BI-COMFORTABLE
    A Male or Female who is open to bi-sexual activities within swinging, but does not consider themselves bi-sexual or attracted to the same sex. (see also HETERO-FLEXIBLE and SOCIALLY BI)
    BI-CURIOUS
    A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
    BIZARRE
    Unusual sexual desires
    BONDAGE
    A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
    BUKKAKE
    a Japanese sexual term that refers to showering a receiver with sperm from one, several or many men. It is always a sperm shower and, therefore, those on the giving end are always male.
    BYOB
    Used to indicate that visitors must supply their own alcohol, common practice at clubs where local ordinances may prevent the sale of alcohol. However, they will usually provide "mixers" (ie. sodas, juices, ice). (See also MIXERS PROVIDED)






    CAN ENTERTAIN / CAN HOST
    Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
    CAN TRAVEL /WILL TRAVEL
    Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
    CANING
    A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
    CHEATING
    Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent.
    CLEAN
    Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
    CLOSED DOOR
    (see CLOSED SWINGING)
    CLOSED SWINGING
    Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy.
    CLOSET SWINGER
    A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)
    COUGAR
    Name for an older woman who is seen to be aggressive in pursuing younger men.
    COUPLE
    In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
    CPL
    (see COUPLE)
    CUCKOLD
    While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition.
    CULTURE
    Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.
    CUNNILINGUS
    Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE)
    D/D FREE
    Drug/Disease Free, meaning that a couple/person is is STD free and does not use drugs.
    DILDO
    An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
    HALL PASS
    1. A permission given to one married partner by the other to independently find and engage in sexual play. 2. A permission to play away from home without the presence of the other married partner.
    DIRECTOR
    The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.
    DISCIPLINE
    A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
    DISCREET OR DISCRETION
    Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
    DOCILE
    Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
    DOGGING
    Dogging is a British euphemism for engaging in sexual acts in a semi-public place (typically a secluded car park or a movie theater) or watching others doing so. Frequently, there are more than two participants; group sex and sometimes even gang bangs can occur. Observation is encouraged, thus voyeurism and exhibitionism are closely associated with dogging. The two sets of people involved often meet either randomly or (increasingly) arrange to meet-up beforehand over the internet.
    DOMESTIC TRAINING
    Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
    DOUBLE PENETRATION
    Being penetrated in two orifices at the same time (usually refers to anal and vaginal, may also include oral)
    DP
    Double Penetration
    DOMINANT
    A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
    ENGLISH CULTURE:
    Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning
    ENTERTAIN
    (see CAN ENTERTAIN)
    EUROPEAN STYLE CLUB
    One that requires clothing to be removed (sometimes after a certain time of night).
    EXHIBITIONIST
    Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.






    F
    Female
    FELLATIO
    Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
    FETISH
    Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
    FFM or FMF
    Threesome involving two women and one man (see THREESOME). FFM refers to a threesome that is female-centric, where the women play with each other. FMF refers to a threesome where he women only play with the man.
    FLAGELLATION
    Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
    FRENCH CULTURE:
    Oral-genital sexual activity (see FELLATIO; CUNNILINGUS)
    FRIENDS FIRST:
    Interested in developing some level of friendship prior to sexual play (see INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP)
    FULL SWAP
    Two couples exchanging partners for sexual intercourse (see SOFT SWAP)
    FUN AND GAMES
    Euphemism for sexual activity.
    GAY
    A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
    GBM
    Gay Black Male
    GENEROUS
    Refers to money for sex.
    GIRL-GIRL
    The girls will play while the guys watch.
    GOLDEN SHOWER
    Refers to urine play (see WATERSPORTS)
    GREEK CULTURE:
    Anal-penile intercourse
    GROUP ROOM
    Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).
    GROUP SEX
    Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
    GWM
    Gay White Male
    HARD CORE
    A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
    HARD SWINGING
    (see HARD CORE)
    HEAD
    Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see FRENCH CULTURE; FELLATIO; CUNNILINGUS)
    HEDONIST
    Someone who lives for pleasure.
    HETERO-FLEXIBLE
    (see BI-COMFORTABLE)
    HETEROSEXUAL
    Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
    HOMOSEXUAL
    Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
    HORNY
    Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
    HUNG
    Refers to a man with a large penis.
    HWP
    Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.
    INDOOR
    Swinging activities in general
    INDOOR SPORTS
    (See INDOOR)
    INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP
    Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. (See FRIENDS FIRST)
    IR
    Interracial
    IRL
    In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat
    ISO
    In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female

    LEATHER
    A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments.
    LESBIAN
    A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY; HOMOSEXUAL)
    LTR
    Long Term Relationship
    M
    Male
    MARITAL AIDS
    Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.
    MASOCHISM
    Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
    MASTER/SLAVE
    Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D; BONDAGE; DISCIPLINE; BDSM)
    MATROOM /MATTRESS ROOM
    Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).
    MBC
    Married Black Couple
    MBiC
    Married Bisexual Couple
    MEET & GREET (M&G)
    A swinger event, usually held in a public place, for the purpose of meeting other swingers.
    MEET FOR PLEASURE
    Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
    MENAGE A TROIS
    Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD)
    MFM or MMF
    Threesome involving two men and one woman (see THREESOME), however different types of threesomes. MFM refers to two straight males and a female, while MMF refers to two bi-males and a female.
    MILF
    "Mom I'd Like to Fuck" - used to refer to older women that are attractive
    MIXERS PROVIDED
    Used to indicate that the club/party will provide mixers (juice, sodas, ice) for those in attendance. You will need to bring your own alcohol. (see BYOB)
    MORESOMES
    More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX)
    MWC
    Married White Couple
    NASCA
    The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.
    NEWCOMERS
    New people in swinging; First-timers.
    NONSMOKER
    Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
    NSA
    No Strings Attached. Sex without any expectations beyond that encounter.
    OFF-PREMISE
    No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.
    ON-PREMISE
    A club where sexual play is allowed. Private and Public rooms are usually provided for play.
    OPEN DOOR
    (see OPEN SWINGING)
    OPEN RELATIONSHIP
    A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners; may or may not be a polyamorous couple; may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage.
    OPEN SWINGING
    A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.
    ORAL-GENITAL
    (see FRENCH; CUNNILINGUS; FELLATIO; HEAD)
    ORGY
    Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex.




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    PARTY
    Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
    PARTY CLOTHES
    Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
    PARTY HOUSE
    A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
    PASSIVE
    Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)
    PASSIVELY BI
    A male or female that will accept same sex touch/ attention but will not return it. (You can go down on me, but I don't go down on you).
    PHOTO
    Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
    PHOTOGRAPHY
    Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
    PLAYDAR
    That internal feeling you get that another couple may also be swingers (think Gaydar for swingers).
    POLYAMORY
    A love relationship involving more than 2 people.
    P/P
    Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
    PRO
    Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
    RECREATIONAL SWINGER
    A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment.
    RESTRAINT
    Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
    ROMAN
    Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE)
    ROMAN CULTURE:
    Sexual orgies
    RUBBER
    Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
    SAFE
    Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile.
    SAME ROOM
    Refers to playing together in the same room. May include soft swinging or full-swap.
    SAME ROOM SWAP
    Refers to swapping partners in the same room. As opposed to SEPARATE ROOM.
    S.A.S.E.
    Self-addressed stamped envelope.
    SBF
    Single Black Female
    SBiF
    Single Bisexual Female
    SBM
    Single Black Male
    SEPARATE ROOM
    Couples will split up and go into separate rooms to swap partners.
    SGL
    Single(see SINGLE)
    S&M or S/M
    Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM; MASOCHISM; BDSM)
    SCAT
    refers to the use of excrement/fecal matter.
    SDC
    refers to the website Swingers Date Club
    SINGLE
    A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status.
    SLS
    Swing Lifestyle, usually used to refer to SwingLifestyle.com, one of the more popular swinger ad sites.
    SOCIAL
    A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
    SOCIAL SWING CLUB
    A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
    SOCIALLY BI
    (see BI-COMFORTABLE)
    SODOMY
    Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.
    SOFT SWINGERS
    Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.
    SOFT SWAP
    Two couples exchanging partners for certain types of sexual activity (defined by the couples involved); if intercourse takes place it is only between primary partners (see FULL SWAP)
    SOFT SWINGING
    The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).
    SRS
    Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).
    STD
    Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.
    STR or STR8
    straight(see STRAIGHT)
    STRAIGHT
    Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.
    SUBMISSIVE
    Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive)
    SWAPPING
    Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. (see SOFT SWAP; FULL SWAP)
    SWEDISH CULTURE:
    Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another
    SWF
    Single White Female
    SWM
    Single White Male
    SWING MAGAZINE
    A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.
    SWINGING
    An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.
    SWINGING LIFESTYLE
    Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
    SWINGING MARRIAGE
    Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
    SWM
    Single White Male
    SZC
    refers to the website Swingers Zone Central






    TAN
    Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS)
    THREESOME
    Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois)
    TICKET
    A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
    TOYS
    Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
    TRANSGENDERED
    Individual who does not identify with his/her biologically assigned sex. Not related to sexual orientation.
    TRANSSEXUAL
    Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion
    TRANSVESTITE
    A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual.
    TRAVEL
    (see CAN TRAVEL)
    TRIAD
    Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
    TRIOLISM
    Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD)
    TUBAL LIGATION
    Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
    UNICORN
    the term Unicorns represent a single female, bisexual or straight. Who is willing to have sex with a couple. To some, that seems mythical. Hence, the name/title.
    UTOPIAN SWINGER
    A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
    VANILLA
    Typically refers to non-swingers (ie. "vanilla friends")
    VASECTOMY
    Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
    VERSATILE
    Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
    VIBRATOR
    Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
    VOLUPTUOUS
    Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
    VOYEUR
    A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
    VOYEURISM
    Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.
    WATERSPORTS
    Typically refers to urine play.(see GOLDEN SHOWER)
    WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS
    Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional.