I know that we've touched upon this somewhere in the course of the various threads, but I wanted to get a little more specific.
When you are corresponding with a couple or couples outside of the initial reply to an add, who does the talking.
This issue came about in my house because hubby feels that we only ever get to talk with the men. He feels like when I am online I am always getting IM's and emails from men, but the women never seem to be around. So, it makes him feel that maybe both parties are not in agreement, or maybe the guys are online without their wives knowledge. I hope that makes sense.
I find that I talk to both. But I do find that in some couples I talk to one more than the other. For instance, and forgive me if you'd rather not be an example and I will change this a bit. I always talk with Mr. Alura and not Mrs. And at the same time I may chat with Mrs. O but never Mr.
The point... who does the talking, you or your spouse.