Chat Room Protocal?

[redeye69]

OK can some one explain whats the chat room is all about? Is it specifically for sex talk or just a bit of chit chat? whats the protocol if any? I have just discovered it recently and so far the majority of users are single males who don't seem to have any posts on the board and say very little if anything in the chat room so whats it all about?

yours Mr naivety

[fun4Ds]

I think its just a place to chit chat mostly if there are real couples there at the time. Yes for the most part, its mostly single males just like any other chat room. Checking in with the usual, whats your stats? where you from? kinda stuff. I have met some authentic couples there with genuine questions about the lifestyle, and try to either direct them to the forms, or give an honest answer about how we feel. Ill be honest I like the fact that its quiet there. I'm not a fast chatter. I've been asked everything from how do I feel about meeting, to are we into fisting. I cant say that anyone has ever taken anything to a harassment level though. Thats a good thing....

I'm thinking there was a time that a few here were thinking of having a chat meeting on a given date... I dont know where that idea went? I think Julie said they used to do that. Lets see whats in the search fields.

[redeye69]

It makes me feel like Ive just entered a room full of sad lonely old men with overcoats on.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by redeye69

OK can some one explain whats the chat room is all about? Is it specifically for sex talk or just a bit of chit chat? whats the protocol if any? I have just discovered it recently and so far the majority of users are single males who don't seem to have any posts on the board and say very little if anything in the chat room so whats it all about?

yours Mr naivety

There are many different portions of this site beyond the forums. MOST people tend to gravitate to one area or the other of the site (whether it be the forums, the stories, the chat room or something else). The chat room is there to be available to those who want to use it and that is it. There is no "protocol", schedule or theme. Some people like chat rooms and use it and others don't. Who you find and how many people are there varies widely from time of day and day of the week. Private chat is available in the chat room, so if you like to chat with people and want an easy way to do that with people you meet on the site you are welcome to use it for that. Or you can do as many do and just pop in and see who is there and talk about whatever.

If someone is causing problems then we do request that you report it. We do keep a constant log of what goes on in the public chat to be reviewed when/ if needed. Although we really haven't had any issues there since we started requiring registration to use the chat room.

[redeye69]

There's been no problems Julie just curious as I have logged in there said hi to whom ever and get no response so I just wondered what they were waiting for any way it all good as I'm just cruising around the site gleaning information and knowledge as i go thanks

ps some one changed my title and miss spelt protocol is that fixable?

[jojochawda]

yeah you do get some weird ppl in the chat room, i tend to gravitate towards the chat room and i am single and 28, but that does not mean, we all are sick ppl and old.
and swinging does not mean its only for couples, their are singles who live and love this lifestyle and make our own and another couples fantasy come to life, im one of them.
We also tend to come across couples that freak us out as well. no two men are alike.

cheers

jojochawda

[redeye69]

bula bula jojochawada, My apologies for the above post , it was done to get a reaction so please don't take offence especially as you were one of the few that did respond to me in the chat room . I guess I was just trying to find out what its all about. I never thought for one minute that this life style was for couples only, in fact the only knowledge I have on this life style is what I have read on here .

cheers

[jojochawda]

none taken, and how did you know what Bula meant (welcome), that makes my day just with that word, i hope u have a great time in this site, and like i said u will come across the bad and the good, just dont loose heart, and make friends as much as u can.


Moce jojochawda