New to scene...what I have learned and kudos

lyric · 01-06-2005, 01:32 PM

I just joined this board a day ago. Yes my hubby and I are newbies on to this scene so take this with a grain of salt. We have had two swing sessions both of which were wonderful but one did end on a bit of a bad note so to speak.

We joined - needed clairificaion and suggestions. Which we have received. Thank you!

For those new to joining...check out the help sections, check out areas that you have confusion about. Check it all out. And then read it again as a couple. You won't be disappointed, and it may help you to avoid confusion and perhaps mistakes.

Know at all times you are playing with fire, which can be fun, but painful if you don't understand the limits. If pain does hit - go back to reviewing the topics within this board and don't ever be afraid to put your feelings into print....its amazing what what the responses can do for you. One other thing - ALWAYS communicate with your SO. Pain or no pain. If you don't communicate there is never any gain.

lyric <our half notes make a wonderful, full couple>

**LikeMinds321** · 01-06-2005, 01:49 PM

lyric -

I'm so pleased that you have come away with so much after being on the board for only a day!

I also understand how wonderful it feels to have "friends" to talk to about swinging. It's why I am still here after a year; there is always somebody ready to listen and help you out.

I'm going to move your thread to the New Swingers forum because I feel more people will see it there and your post is very pertinent to new--and old--swingers.

LM

lyric · 01-06-2005, 01:50 PM

Thank you to everyone who responed. We are happy to be here, have already recieved some great information and reponses. Hope to run into you all soon! This truly is a great place to be.

Cheers,
lyric

**Alura** · 01-06-2005, 01:51 PM

Thank you, Lyric! It's posts like yours that make us proud to be members of the SwingersBoard.

Alura

lyric · 01-06-2005, 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alura

Thank you, Lyric! It's posts like yours that make us proud to be members of the SwingersBoard.

Alura

Great to be proud eh! We are very happy to have found this board and yes honestly I am the emotional one of the two half notes here so for me it is great!!!

lyric <two half notes make a beautiful lyric>

**good times** · 01-06-2005, 03:58 PM

Thank you Lyric, I hope you choose to stick around and contribute as you have done so far. This board was so helpfull to my wife and I when we first started that we have stuck around here in hopes that some of our experiances will do the same for others.

BradAndJanet · 01-08-2005, 10:54 AM

I've said it before and I'll say it again, without this board Janet and I would not be swingers. That's why I've stuck around and tried to do what I can around here. Lyric, it's good to know that you're found what you needed here too. Thanks for starting this thread!

-B

Vespertine · 01-08-2005, 11:46 AM

I'm glad you're enjoying the board, lyric!

Like the others are saying, this board is the reason we're in the Lifestyle! We have learned so much and the members here are terrific people. Just like you!

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01-06-2005, 01:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
lyric Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Ontario Status: Couple	New to scene...what I have learned and kudos I just joined this board a day ago. Yes my hubby and I are newbies on to this scene so take this with a grain of salt. We have had two swing sessions both of which were wonderful but one did end on a bit of a bad note so to speak. We joined - needed clairificaion and suggestions. Which we have received. Thank you! For those new to joining...check out the help sections, check out areas that you have confusion about. Check it all out. And then read it again as a couple. You won't be disappointed, and it may help you to avoid confusion and perhaps mistakes. Know at all times you are playing with fire, which can be fun, but painful if you don't understand the limits. If pain does hit - go back to reviewing the topics within this board and don't ever be afraid to put your feelings into print....its amazing what what the responses can do for you. One other thing - ALWAYS communicate with your SO. Pain or no pain. If you don't communicate there is never any gain. lyric <our half notes make a wonderful, full couple>

01-06-2005, 01:49 PM	#2 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 Let's get comfortable... Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 8,547 Location: On the couch Status: Married to Mr LM	Re: New to scene...what I have learned and kudos lyric - I'm so pleased that you have come away with so much after being on the board for only a day! I also understand how wonderful it feels to have "friends" to talk to about swinging. It's why I am still here after a year; there is always somebody ready to listen and help you out. I'm going to move your thread to the New Swingers forum because I feel more people will see it there and your post is very pertinent to new--and old--swingers. LM

01-06-2005, 01:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
lyric Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Ontario Status: Couple	To all, we thank you! Thank you to everyone who responed. We are happy to be here, have already recieved some great information and reponses. Hope to run into you all soon! This truly is a great place to be. Cheers, lyric

01-06-2005, 01:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,126 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Married to Mrs. Alura	Re: New to scene...what I have learned and kudos Thank you, Lyric! It's posts like yours that make us proud to be members of the SwingersBoard. Alura __________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers

01-06-2005, 03:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,418 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: New to scene...what I have learned and kudos Thank you Lyric, I hope you choose to stick around and contribute as you have done so far. This board was so helpfull to my wife and I when we first started that we have stuck around here in hopes that some of our experiances will do the same for others. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

01-08-2005, 10:54 AM	#7 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Re: New to scene...what I have learned and kudos I've said it before and I'll say it again, without this board Janet and I would not be swingers. That's why I've stuck around and tried to do what I can around here. Lyric, it's good to know that you're found what you needed here too. Thanks for starting this thread! -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

01-08-2005, 11:46 AM	#8 (permalink)
Vespertine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: New to scene...what I have learned and kudos I'm glad you're enjoying the board, lyric! Like the others are saying, this board is the reason we're in the Lifestyle! We have learned so much and the members here are terrific people. Just like you! __________________ Ves The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral.

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