CAUTION

08-17-2002, 01:47 PM

CAUTION TO WOULD BE POSTERS HERE:

I HAVE ASKED JULIE TO REMOVE MY PROFILE AND MY MESSAGES AND SHE HAS REFUSED! SHE HAS EVEN BLOCKED ME FROM EDITING MY OWN MESSAGES! IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!

***JustAskJulie*** · 08-17-2002, 02:00 PM

This is too funny. DO you think that by changing your Display names and your location that people won't know who you are? You do realize (because we discussed this when you first signed up) that when you change your Display name is changes it on EVERY post you've made prior to the change.

Yes, you are the reason I disabled the ability for users to edit their messages. And no I won't go back and delete a person's posts because they changed their mind about posting here. What is posted here stays. That goes for pretty much any message board you will post on anywhere.

I could have just as easily blocked you from posting altogether and left message editing open for others to continue to use but I didn't want to do that. Why? Because I didn't want you to feel (as you have already stated that you do) that you weren't welcome here. Everyone is welcome here (except for the drive-by spammers). But I also don't want people abusing the board or the board users. If anyone could go back anytime and change their mind about their posts and delete them or decide they had gotten the answer they needed (or not gotten it in your case) and delete their posts then that would seriously detract from the value of the board.

Quin · 08-17-2002, 02:59 PM

Yes, Julie, I totally agree. This is just too funny. And especially now because it's being revealed just how DECEPTIVE this person is. Was I right or was I right??? He can change his idenity as much as he wants, believe me, we will ALWAYS know!! And to be truthful, the people here will be better off with this one gone, I'm convinced. He can't be straight up with having only one idenity here, he has to have several, so how can he be trusted to be straight up on anything he says?

I don't know what the big deal is about the posts and about deleting a profile....why don't he just go in, take everything out of every one of his profiles (which equals what now...4...5 different names and profiles?) possible and just leave???? It's quite elementary.

L&D you're NOT going to tarnish Julie's image here. There is absolutely no way on Earth you can do that. She has been straight up with all of us whereas you have been nothing but deceptive and a liar. My patience has worn out with this new post of yours. And I'm appalled that a human being could be so deceitful then turn around and attempt to defame Julie. You have the victim part down pat...and I have a feeling that nothing is ever your fault and you are quite adept at playing the victim.

One word of advice that I think many will agree with...GROW THE FUCK UP!!! We are all adults here and your deception is only indicitive of a very sick individual. Seek some help and seek it fast! And NOT online....run as quick as you can to the nearest psychiatrist and deal with YOUR issues that you have. And for God's sake, don't bring anymore innocent swingers into your web of deceptiveness...think of someone besides your self for once and don't indulge and possibly put someone and/or their marriage in jeopardy because of your being a liar and a deceiver.

Quin
<img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" />

CanadianCouple · 08-17-2002, 07:49 PM

All I can say is I've never seen 106 previous posts from an Australian couple named John and Marry (sp?).

To post using different handles without making it known you're doing so can only be for one reason -- deception.

Dan

OhioCouple · 08-17-2002, 08:23 PM

<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by John and Marry:
CAUTION TO WOULD BE POSTERS HERE:

I HAVE ASKED JULIE TO REMOVE MY PROFILE AND MY MESSAGES AND SHE HAS REFUSED! SHE HAS EVEN BLOCKED ME FROM EDITING MY OWN MESSAGES! IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!<hr /></blockquote>OKAY L&D/kspartycouple/leftcoast9/Gemini/John and Marry (thats a new one I didn't know about)

Do you think we are all STUPID here? Let's see, now you are from South Wales (can't remember, old age setting in...trying to think....) How many screen names do you have floating around on this board? Julie, didn't know that one user on the same computer could sign up under so many different screen names. Tells ya right there that I not am not computer knowegable.

Buddy boy from Kansas...take a Freaking Hike and get the HELL off of this board...getting laid in your own personal bedroom with DING will have to suit you and hopefully you can make her cum 20 times 'cause there isn't anyone within a 7 state region that is gonna help you to help her with it.

Lori ~ Goodness, you just made my day!

OhioCouple · 08-17-2002, 08:29 PM

One more thing I want to add,

I resent the fact that I cannot edit my posts due to some of the "IDIOTS" on this board and if I ever have the opporunity to get to Kansas.....You can bet your ass I will look ya up and it won't be for a sexual adventure!

Lori~ Sorry all, I am not mean by nature but it felt darn good to say it!

OhioCouple · 08-17-2002, 09:05 PM

<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by John and Marry:
CAUTION TO WOULD BE POSTERS HERE:

I HAVE ASKED JULIE TO REMOVE MY PROFILE AND MY MESSAGES AND SHE HAS REFUSED! SHE HAS EVEN BLOCKED ME FROM EDITING MY OWN MESSAGES! IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!<hr /></blockquote>I Suppose I was not done speaking my piece.

Julie provides a totally "FREE" web site which allows others to get info on "Real Life Issues" pertaining to not only the lifestyle, but every other aspect of our lives and I am sure that she spends countless hours to provide it.

And as for the WhoEverCouple they are...we will have to live with our restrictions for now, it is a shame that everyone has to suffer the fate of a few. <img border="0" alt="[Sad]" title="" src="graemlins/sad.gif" />

Julie, WE, for one thank you for all that you do and your work and effort which you put into the board daily.

Lori and Gene

***JustAskJulie*** · 08-18-2002, 11:21 AM

Just wanted to answer the questions here on the username issue.

John and Marry is L&D. This is obvious as if you go to any of L&D's posts the name is now changed to John & Marry.

If you change the "Display Name" on your profile it will change your name on every post you have made up to that point (and any in the future).

As for the other handles that many believe to be L&D as well. I can't say one way or the other. They are seperate handles with seperate email addresses.

OhioCouple · 08-18-2002, 02:02 PM

<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by JustAskJulie:
Just wanted to answer the questions here on the username issue.

John and Marry is L&D. This is obvious as if you go to any of L&D's posts the name is now changed to John & Marry.

If you change the "Display Name" on your profile it will change your name on every post you have made up to that point (and any in the future).

As for the other handles that many believe to be L&D as well. I can't say one way or the other. They are seperate handles with seperate email addresses.<hr /></blockquote>Julie,

It is good to know you can change all of your posts by changing the "Display Name" in your profile. I was gonna ask that question myself since I fear my youngest may stumble on here. Wouldn't matter tho, I am honest enough to include my name with each post and she is no one's fool. Guess that option is out for me. <img border="0" alt="[Sad]" title="" src="graemlins/sad.gif" />

You have several monitors on this board that help to keep it spam free in addition to offering good advice, of which I am sure their time and efforts are a donation of their own, in order to insure the upkeep of what they feel is a quality website. (Which We do also).

The ability of being able to change names and posting repeatedly as another "drive by" name are a real hinderence. Not sure you can do anything about that, but what we as members can do is expose them (in a polite manner of course) and send them on their merry way.

It bothers me when VERY good questions are asked and some people want to trash it or condemn our society as a whole. What new members need to realize is that there is wealth of information on this board. Keep reading, ask questions and ignore the idiots, you'll learn quickly who they are.

Lori ~ Geez hope my spelling is in check. <img border="0" alt="[LOL]" title="" src="graemlins/lol.gif" />

CanadianCouple · 08-18-2002, 02:23 PM

<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by John and Marry:
 IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!<hr /></blockquote>I find this statement quite telling. First of all, if a couple posting here were to change their minds about participating in the lifestyle, leaving the posts here would do them no harm at all. They'd simply post that they're going to forgo further swinging, at least for now, and will be back if they change their minds. Now, I'm trying to imagine a situation where someone would indeed want all their prior posts removed, and I can't think of a single instance where past deception isn't a motivating factor. If this individual hadn't been posting using various handles while pretending to be entirely separate couples, he wouldn't have had to worry about suffering foot in mouth disease, would he?

Oh what a tangled web we weave, when we ......

Dan

Quin · 08-18-2002, 03:05 PM

<blockquote>quote:<hr />You have several monitors on this board that help to keep it spam free in addition to offering good advice, of which I am sure their time and efforts are a donation of their own, in order to insure the upkeep of what they feel is a quality website. (Which We do also).
<hr /></blockquote>ITA, Lori. And I don't think that Julie, CanadianCouple, MichiganCouple and Walrus are ever given enough praise that they certainly deserve (sorry if I missed any of Julie's helpers). Julie gives us a haven away from everything else to come discuss matters of swinging and even non-swinging without expecting a penny from us (tho we're always free to make a donation). And her helpers donate their time to assist her in making this the most enjoyable *community* on the website, IMHO. I have nothing but the upmost respect for all of them, not to mention I just think they're great people all around!!

I'm not that naive that I don't know that evil, deceptive, sick people exist within this world. Heaven knows you run into them everyday...even in the grocery. But it just tees me off that someone who has and continues to be deceptive spouts out about an injustice done to them (tho it really wasn't an injustice, it was the correct thing to do) and not only blames everyone and their mother for THEIR lies, deceptiveness and illness but then tries to bad mouth someone such as Julie who has never EVER been unfair to any person here and goes more than out of her way to help people, make people comfortable here and be an intregral part of the swinger community with respect. THAT pisses me off. I tolerated (and probably shouldn't have) the lies, the deception but when this person targeted Julie because she had done what she thought was best for this community and the people here (which really was the best decision short of blocking him totally if that was possible), well that's the straw that broke the poor camel's back.

Julie and all her helpers...you guys are the greatest and you ARE appreciated and respected by many here! <img border="0" alt="[kiss]" title="" src="graemlins/kiss1.gif" />

Quin (and yeah, that's my real name to, so I could just as easily be busted also)
<img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" />

Quin · 08-18-2002, 03:09 PM

<blockquote>quote:<hr /> I find this statement quite telling. First of all, if a couple posting here were to change their minds about participating in the lifestyle, leaving the posts here would do them no harm at all. They'd simply post that they're going to forgo further swinging, at least for now, and will be back if they change their minds. Now, I'm trying to imagine a situation where someone would indeed want all their prior posts removed, and I can't think of a single instance where past deception isn't a motivating factor. If this individual hadn't been posting using various handles while pretending to be entirely separate couples, he wouldn't have had to worry about suffering foot in mouth disease, would he?

Oh what a tangled web we weave, when we ......

Dan <hr /></blockquote>I only have three words to say in response to this, Dan.... NAIL, HAMMER, HEAD .

Quin
<img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" />

CanadianCouple · 08-18-2002, 04:18 PM

Quin --

One of the things that sets this site apart from the majority (other than the fact it's free) is that there are other things here not necessarily sexually oriented. For instance, as I told Julie in email, I do enjoy her periodical updates in the journal section on her own website. Hey, shampooing carpets isn't the least bit sensual (although no doubt someone will chime in to the contrary, lol), neither is holding a yard sale or discussing your plans to sell your home etc., but these commonplace occurrances are something many of us can personally relate to. They're all things that make up our real lives, not fantasies, and that's what makes it enjoyable reading -- hey, this person has the same daily experiences and headaches we all do, something the rest of us can identify with.

Note to Julie -- hope Steve's tooth is better, and he can get it professionally treated very soon. Been there myself. Oh, have I. <img border="0" alt="[Sad]" title="" src="graemlins/sad.gif" />

Dan

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08-17-2002, 01:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
Len & Ding Posts: n/a	CAUTION CAUTION TO WOULD BE POSTERS HERE: I HAVE ASKED JULIE TO REMOVE MY PROFILE AND MY MESSAGES AND SHE HAS REFUSED! SHE HAS EVEN BLOCKED ME FROM EDITING MY OWN MESSAGES! IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!

08-17-2002, 02:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	This is too funny. DO you think that by changing your Display names and your location that people won't know who you are? You do realize (because we discussed this when you first signed up) that when you change your Display name is changes it on EVERY post you've made prior to the change. Yes, you are the reason I disabled the ability for users to edit their messages. And no I won't go back and delete a person's posts because they changed their mind about posting here. What is posted here stays. That goes for pretty much any message board you will post on anywhere. I could have just as easily blocked you from posting altogether and left message editing open for others to continue to use but I didn't want to do that. Why? Because I didn't want you to feel (as you have already stated that you do) that you weren't welcome here. Everyone is welcome here (except for the drive-by spammers). But I also don't want people abusing the board or the board users. If anyone could go back anytime and change their mind about their posts and delete them or decide they had gotten the answer they needed (or not gotten it in your case) and delete their posts then that would seriously detract from the value of the board. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

08-17-2002, 02:59 PM	#3 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Yes, Julie, I totally agree. This is just too funny. And especially now because it's being revealed just how DECEPTIVE this person is. Was I right or was I right??? He can change his idenity as much as he wants, believe me, we will ALWAYS know!! And to be truthful, the people here will be better off with this one gone, I'm convinced. He can't be straight up with having only one idenity here, he has to have several, so how can he be trusted to be straight up on anything he says? I don't know what the big deal is about the posts and about deleting a profile....why don't he just go in, take everything out of every one of his profiles (which equals what now...4...5 different names and profiles?) possible and just leave???? It's quite elementary. L&D you're NOT going to tarnish Julie's image here. There is absolutely no way on Earth you can do that. She has been straight up with all of us whereas you have been nothing but deceptive and a liar. My patience has worn out with this new post of yours. And I'm appalled that a human being could be so deceitful then turn around and attempt to defame Julie. You have the victim part down pat...and I have a feeling that nothing is ever your fault and you are quite adept at playing the victim. One word of advice that I think many will agree with...GROW THE FUCK UP!!! We are all adults here and your deception is only indicitive of a very sick individual. Seek some help and seek it fast! And NOT online....run as quick as you can to the nearest psychiatrist and deal with YOUR issues that you have. And for God's sake, don't bring anymore innocent swingers into your web of deceptiveness...think of someone besides your self for once and don't indulge and possibly put someone and/or their marriage in jeopardy because of your being a liar and a deceiver. Quin <img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" /> __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

08-17-2002, 08:23 PM	#5 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by John and Marry: <strong>CAUTION TO WOULD BE POSTERS HERE: I HAVE ASKED JULIE TO REMOVE MY PROFILE AND MY MESSAGES AND SHE HAS REFUSED! SHE HAS EVEN BLOCKED ME FROM EDITING MY OWN MESSAGES! IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">OKAY L&D/kspartycouple/leftcoast9/Gemini/John and Marry (thats a new one I didn't know about) Do you think we are all STUPID here? Let's see, now you are from South Wales (can't remember, old age setting in...trying to think....) How many screen names do you have floating around on this board? Julie, didn't know that one user on the same computer could sign up under so many different screen names. Tells ya right there that I not am not computer knowegable. Buddy boy from Kansas...take a Freaking Hike and get the HELL off of this board...getting laid in your own personal bedroom with DING will have to suit you and hopefully you can make her cum 20 times 'cause there isn't anyone within a 7 state region that is gonna help you to help her with it. Lori ~ Goodness, you just made my day! __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

08-17-2002, 07:49 PM	#4 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	All I can say is I've never seen 106 previous posts from an Australian couple named John and Marry (sp?). To post using different handles without making it known you're doing so can only be for one reason -- deception. Dan

08-17-2002, 08:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	One more thing I want to add, I resent the fact that I cannot edit my posts due to some of the "IDIOTS" on this board and if I ever have the opporunity to get to Kansas.....You can bet your ass I will look ya up and it won't be for a sexual adventure! Lori~ Sorry all, I am not mean by nature but it felt darn good to say it! __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

08-17-2002, 09:05 PM	#7 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by John and Marry: <strong>CAUTION TO WOULD BE POSTERS HERE: I HAVE ASKED JULIE TO REMOVE MY PROFILE AND MY MESSAGES AND SHE HAS REFUSED! SHE HAS EVEN BLOCKED ME FROM EDITING MY OWN MESSAGES! IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I Suppose I was not done speaking my piece. Julie provides a totally "FREE" web site which allows others to get info on "Real Life Issues" pertaining to not only the lifestyle, but every other aspect of our lives and I am sure that she spends countless hours to provide it. And as for the WhoEverCouple they are...we will have to live with our restrictions for now, it is a shame that everyone has to suffer the fate of a few. <img border="0" alt="[Sad]" title="" src="graemlins/sad.gif" /> Julie, WE, for one thank you for all that you do and your work and effort which you put into the board daily. Lori and Gene __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

08-18-2002, 11:21 AM	#8 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Just wanted to answer the questions here on the username issue. John and Marry is L&D. This is obvious as if you go to any of L&D's posts the name is now changed to John & Marry. If you change the "Display Name" on your profile it will change your name on every post you have made up to that point (and any in the future). As for the other handles that many believe to be L&D as well. I can't say one way or the other. They are seperate handles with seperate email addresses. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

08-18-2002, 02:02 PM	#9 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by JustAskJulie: <strong>Just wanted to answer the questions here on the username issue. John and Marry is L&D. This is obvious as if you go to any of L&D's posts the name is now changed to John & Marry. If you change the "Display Name" on your profile it will change your name on every post you have made up to that point (and any in the future). As for the other handles that many believe to be L&D as well. I can't say one way or the other. They are seperate handles with seperate email addresses.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Julie, It is good to know you can change all of your posts by changing the "Display Name" in your profile. I was gonna ask that question myself since I fear my youngest may stumble on here. Wouldn't matter tho, I am honest enough to include my name with each post and she is no one's fool. Guess that option is out for me. <img border="0" alt="[Sad]" title="" src="graemlins/sad.gif" /> You have several monitors on this board that help to keep it spam free in addition to offering good advice, of which I am sure their time and efforts are a donation of their own, in order to insure the upkeep of what they feel is a quality website. (Which We do also). The ability of being able to change names and posting repeatedly as another "drive by" name are a real hinderence. Not sure you can do anything about that, but what we as members can do is expose them (in a polite manner of course) and send them on their merry way. It bothers me when VERY good questions are asked and some people want to trash it or condemn our society as a whole. What new members need to realize is that there is wealth of information on this board. Keep reading, ask questions and ignore the idiots, you'll learn quickly who they are. Lori ~ Geez hope my spelling is in check. <img border="0" alt="[LOL]" title="" src="graemlins/lol.gif" /> __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

08-18-2002, 02:23 PM	#10 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by John and Marry: <strong> IF YOU EVER THINK YOU MAY EVER HAVE A CHANGE OF MIND DON’T EVER POST HERE !!!!!</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I find this statement quite telling. First of all, if a couple posting here were to change their minds about participating in the lifestyle, leaving the posts here would do them no harm at all. They'd simply post that they're going to forgo further swinging, at least for now, and will be back if they change their minds. Now, I'm trying to imagine a situation where someone would indeed want all their prior posts removed, and I can't think of a single instance where past deception isn't a motivating factor. If this individual hadn't been posting using various handles while pretending to be entirely separate couples, he wouldn't have had to worry about suffering foot in mouth disease, would he? Oh what a tangled web we weave, when we ...... Dan

08-18-2002, 03:05 PM	#11 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">You have several monitors on this board that help to keep it spam free in addition to offering good advice, of which I am sure their time and efforts are a donation of their own, in order to insure the upkeep of what they feel is a quality website. (Which We do also). </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">ITA, Lori. And I don't think that Julie, CanadianCouple, MichiganCouple and Walrus are ever given enough praise that they certainly deserve (sorry if I missed any of Julie's helpers). Julie gives us a haven away from everything else to come discuss matters of swinging and even non-swinging without expecting a penny from us (tho we're always free to make a donation). And her helpers donate their time to assist her in making this the most enjoyable community on the website, IMHO. I have nothing but the upmost respect for all of them, not to mention I just think they're great people all around!! I'm not that naive that I don't know that evil, deceptive, sick people exist within this world. Heaven knows you run into them everyday...even in the grocery. But it just tees me off that someone who has and continues to be deceptive spouts out about an injustice done to them (tho it really wasn't an injustice, it was the correct thing to do) and not only blames everyone and their mother for THEIR lies, deceptiveness and illness but then tries to bad mouth someone such as Julie who has never EVER been unfair to any person here and goes more than out of her way to help people, make people comfortable here and be an intregral part of the swinger community with respect. THAT pisses me off. I tolerated (and probably shouldn't have) the lies, the deception but when this person targeted Julie because she had done what she thought was best for this community and the people here (which really was the best decision short of blocking him totally if that was possible), well that's the straw that broke the poor camel's back. Julie and all her helpers...you guys are the greatest and you ARE appreciated and respected by many here! <img border="0" alt="[kiss]" title="" src="graemlins/kiss1.gif" /> Quin (and yeah, that's my real name to, so I could just as easily be busted also) <img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" /> __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

08-18-2002, 03:09 PM	#12 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif"> I find this statement quite telling. First of all, if a couple posting here were to change their minds about participating in the lifestyle, leaving the posts here would do them no harm at all. They'd simply post that they're going to forgo further swinging, at least for now, and will be back if they change their minds. Now, I'm trying to imagine a situation where someone would indeed want all their prior posts removed, and I can't think of a single instance where past deception isn't a motivating factor. If this individual hadn't been posting using various handles while pretending to be entirely separate couples, he wouldn't have had to worry about suffering foot in mouth disease, would he? Oh what a tangled web we weave, when we ...... Dan </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I only have three words to say in response to this, Dan.... NAIL, HAMMER, HEAD . Quin <img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" /> __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

08-18-2002, 04:18 PM	#13 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	Quin -- One of the things that sets this site apart from the majority (other than the fact it's free) is that there are other things here not necessarily sexually oriented. For instance, as I told Julie in email, I do enjoy her periodical updates in the journal section on her own website. Hey, shampooing carpets isn't the least bit sensual (although no doubt someone will chime in to the contrary, lol), neither is holding a yard sale or discussing your plans to sell your home etc., but these commonplace occurrances are something many of us can personally relate to. They're all things that make up our real lives, not fantasies, and that's what makes it enjoyable reading -- hey, this person has the same daily experiences and headaches we all do, something the rest of us can identify with. Note to Julie -- hope Steve's tooth is better, and he can get it professionally treated very soon. Been there myself. Oh, have I. <img border="0" alt="[Sad]" title="" src="graemlins/sad.gif" /> Dan

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