an awesome site!

dandd4sumfun · 10-11-2001, 08:08 AM

Hello everyone! This is my first post to this site and i just want to say, Julie, you have probably the easiest to use, most informative swinger's site that I've seen yet.

We haven't tried the lifestyle yet, just been talking about it. But I've been finding answers to almost every question that we've had or could even possibly ask on the message board or your FAQ's. Which in turn is helping to ease alot of nervousness that I, and especially her, have had. Unfortunately we'll still have to wait at least a couple of months to give it a shot as I'm in the Army and stationed in Korea until mid-Nov while she's back in the states waiting.

I also love how friendly everyone seems, especially to newbies as us. It really helps us to feel more at ease with becoming a part of this type of friendship. Well that's all for now. I'm sure you will here more of us later on. Have fun everyone, and once again, great job Julie!

Drew and Dionne

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-11-2001, 11:05 AM

Welcome to the board. You do realize that once you start posting... you can't stop (it's like eating lays potato chips...hehehe).

Glad to have you on board. Sorry to hear you are seperated from your wife by distance tho... I know that really sucks. Once you do get back home. I can tell you there really is an active community of swingers in the military.. you just have to be very discreet about it (as if you don't any time).

Where is your wife stuck waiting for you?

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

cltlmass · 10-11-2001, 12:48 PM

I have to agree...This is the most informative site. I have had a lot of questions answered...Thanks to Julie and the good people that post to this board. Thank you ALL and my wife and I are looking forward to getting into the lifestyle soon.

dandd4sumfun · 10-12-2001, 08:08 AM

Hey Julie, she's in Tampa right now, actually Brandon, right outside of Tampa. Also, when I come home, I'll be off of active duty, so I'm not really worried about being discrete. Well, at least not that much, lol. Also, thanks for the welcome!

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***JustAskJulie*** · 10-12-2001, 12:01 PM

So you're about done serving your time and are getting out once you get home?

Actually, my bro is in the military and is a swinger... he learned quickly after he got in what a hotbed of swingers the military is. At first they were really scared of anyone finding out.. but the more active they have gotten in their area the more they have ended up swinging with other military personal. Just not something you want to go screaming through the barracks

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

dandd4sumfun · 10-14-2001, 04:09 AM

no I'm sure you wouldn't want to! But yes, I'm out when I get home, time to move on to other things. Plus, I'm not crazy about being married while in the military. One reason is that alot of military wives, and husbands, like to take up swinging while their spouse is in the field or deployed, without their spouse's knowledge or permission, lol. It's not that I don't trust my fiance, I trust her completely. I just don't trust other single soldiers.

As the old saying goes, "Trust me with your life, not your money or your wife".

Drew

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[This message has been edited by dandd4sumfun (edited 10-14-2001).]

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-14-2001, 12:06 PM

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Originally posted by dandd4sumfun:
no I'm sure you wouldn't want to! But yes, I'm out when I get home, time to move on to other things. Plus, I'm not crazy about being married while in the military. One reason is that alot of military wives, and husbands, like to take up swinging while their spouse is in the field or deployed, without their spouse's knowledge or permission, lol. It's not that I don't trust my fiance, I trust her completely. I just don't trust other single soldiers. As the old saying goes, "Trust me with your life, not your money or your wife".

Drew

Um... that's not swinging... that's cheating... big difference

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

LIZA · 10-14-2001, 03:54 PM

As long as you trust your WIFE, it should not matter if there are other single men around, soldiers or not.........right?

dandd4sumfun · 10-14-2001, 07:03 PM

You're right, it shouldn't matter, I do trust her and don't think she would do anything. But how do you think YOUR husband would feel if you had all these guys hanging around and hitting on you that you weren't interested in, but they don't listen and won't leave you alone. 'Cause that's what alot of young single soldiers are like. I'm not saying all of them, but alot are. I'm sure you'd agree that no means no, and doesn't mean come and hit on my fiance or wife while I'm gone.

Drew

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10-11-2001, 08:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
dandd4sumfun Registered Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 8 Location: Tampa, FL, USA	an awesome site! Hello everyone! This is my first post to this site and i just want to say, Julie, you have probably the easiest to use, most informative swinger's site that I've seen yet. We haven't tried the lifestyle yet, just been talking about it. But I've been finding answers to almost every question that we've had or could even possibly ask on the message board or your FAQ's. Which in turn is helping to ease alot of nervousness that I, and especially her, have had. Unfortunately we'll still have to wait at least a couple of months to give it a shot as I'm in the Army and stationed in Korea until mid-Nov while she's back in the states waiting. I also love how friendly everyone seems, especially to newbies as us. It really helps us to feel more at ease with becoming a part of this type of friendship. Well that's all for now. I'm sure you will here more of us later on. Have fun everyone, and once again, great job Julie! Drew and Dionne

10-11-2001, 11:05 AM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Welcome to the board. You do realize that once you start posting... you can't stop (it's like eating lays potato chips...hehehe). Glad to have you on board. Sorry to hear you are seperated from your wife by distance tho... I know that really sucks. Once you do get back home. I can tell you there really is an active community of swingers in the military.. you just have to be very discreet about it (as if you don't any time). Where is your wife stuck waiting for you? Julie http://www.swingersboard.com __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

10-12-2001, 12:01 PM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	So you're about done serving your time and are getting out once you get home? Actually, my bro is in the military and is a swinger... he learned quickly after he got in what a hotbed of swingers the military is. At first they were really scared of anyone finding out.. but the more active they have gotten in their area the more they have ended up swinging with other military personal. Just not something you want to go screaming through the barracks Julie http://www.swingersboard.com __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

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10-11-2001, 12:48 PM	#3 (permalink)
cltlmass Registered User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 2 Location: Central Massachusetts, USA	I have to agree...This is the most informative site. I have had a lot of questions answered...Thanks to Julie and the good people that post to this board. Thank you ALL and my wife and I are looking forward to getting into the lifestyle soon.

10-12-2001, 08:08 AM	#4 (permalink)
dandd4sumfun Registered Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 8 Location: Tampa, FL, USA	Hey Julie, she's in Tampa right now, actually Brandon, right outside of Tampa. Also, when I come home, I'll be off of active duty, so I'm not really worried about being discrete. Well, at least not that much, lol. Also, thanks for the welcome! ------------------ D and D

10-14-2001, 04:09 AM	#6 (permalink)
dandd4sumfun Registered Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 8 Location: Tampa, FL, USA	no I'm sure you wouldn't want to! But yes, I'm out when I get home, time to move on to other things. Plus, I'm not crazy about being married while in the military. One reason is that alot of military wives, and husbands, like to take up swinging while their spouse is in the field or deployed, without their spouse's knowledge or permission, lol. It's not that I don't trust my fiance, I trust her completely. I just don't trust other single soldiers. As the old saying goes, "Trust me with your life, not your money or your wife". Drew ------------------ D and D [This message has been edited by dandd4sumfun (edited 10-14-2001).]

10-14-2001, 03:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
LIZA Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 426 Location: ORANGE COUNTY, CA Status: Married Fem.	As long as you trust your WIFE, it should not matter if there are other single men around, soldiers or not.........right?

10-14-2001, 07:03 PM	#9 (permalink)
dandd4sumfun Registered Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 8 Location: Tampa, FL, USA	You're right, it shouldn't matter, I do trust her and don't think she would do anything. But how do you think YOUR husband would feel if you had all these guys hanging around and hitting on you that you weren't interested in, but they don't listen and won't leave you alone. 'Cause that's what alot of young single soldiers are like. I'm not saying all of them, but alot are. I'm sure you'd agree that no means no, and doesn't mean come and hit on my fiance or wife while I'm gone. Drew ------------------ D and D

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