Cheaters network???

Contact1 · 09-29-2003, 11:50 AM

Is there really such a thing as a websites of men and women who are in relationships but looking for affairs?

You see adds for them but they look like trash. Just trying to hook the average horny guy.

wrnakedru · 09-29-2003, 12:13 PM

The one I see advertised is either "Married and lonely" or "Lonely and married" - words to that effect.

Yes, I agree with what you are saying - and men are not the only ones who do get horny.

Scratching that itch doesn't cure lonely, however.

And if "lonely" is the problem, it would seem that the match-ups the site geared toward that might bring - might also bring the end of one relationship - and the beginning of another.

Or it may just provide an outlet for those in similar situations - and who have no intention of ending their existing relationship.

"Lonely" is a feeling - and doesn't require an "alone" status to be felt.

Contact1 · 09-29-2003, 01:40 PM

Very Good point, well said.

Either way I think these site might be just a ploy anyway.

Thanks

naughtygirl27 · 09-29-2003, 01:56 PM

I have seen one advertised on TV!! Yes a website that says "hey wanna cheat? come here!!"

on thier homepage it says this " For Attatched Woman Seeking Romantic Affairs & The Men Who Want To Fulfill Them"
Also says "When Monogamy Becomes Monotony"

Can ya believe it?!?!

naughtygirl27

Contact1 · 09-29-2003, 02:26 PM

Thats why I am so happy to have found this place. Real people.

I doubt any of the adds on these places are real. Just models with fake profiles.
Like AFF (can I say the name here) I hate that place. Almost all fakers and no oversite to bann lowlife solicitors.

Plus men are so easy to hook if we are horny enough.

Just pay 39.99 a month and dream about one of these beautifull women actually wanting you...

2SHARE · 09-29-2003, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by Contact1
Plus men are so easy to hook if we are horny enough.

Now that's what I call a man with insite!!!!

Welcome By the way!!

Deb

Contact1 · 09-30-2003, 02:35 PM

Why Thank you. Compliments are always welcome, particularly after slandering my own gender.

Bessos.

2SHARE · 10-01-2003, 09:15 AM

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Originally posted by Contact1
......slandering my own gender.

Bessos.

That was NOT ment as slander my dear.....you ARE a very refreshing man....PERIOD!!

Elusive BiFem · 10-01-2003, 09:28 AM

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Originally posted by 2SHARE
That was NOT ment as slander my dear.....you ARE a very refreshing man....PERIOD!!

You know, I thought the same thing yesterday when I read this. Guess I should have posted similar comments.
Refreshingly honest....- EBF

Contact1 · 10-01-2003, 10:02 AM

(taking bows) thank you, thank you very much.

Back on topic, lest I begin talking about myself.
Do you think there are actually married women on there looking for affairs? Would they not just be in places like this? Or maybe AFF.

Even some swing sites are crap.

Elusive BiFem · 10-01-2003, 10:59 AM

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Originally posted by Contact1
(taking bows) thank you, thank you very much.

Back on topic, lest I begin talking about myself.
Do you think there are actually married women on there looking for affairs? Would they not just be in places like this? Or maybe AFF.

Even some swing sites are crap.

Ok..getting back on topic...I don't know for fact, but I would suspect there are married women out there looking for affairs. I don't recall the statistics, but I've read there is a huge % of married women having affairs...and really, the numbers did not differ that significantly from married men. The biggest difference was in the reason for the affairs...men looking for sex, women looking for emotional fulfillment or some such thing.

Now...why would you be interested? Are you trying to find a married woman to have an affair with? If so, why? And if yes, I think you would probably fare better on some of the other sites.

And no, I don't think married women looking for an affair would be found in a place like this. Swinging, by most everyone's definition, involves couples sharing sexual activities and pleasures - together, and occasionally involving a single male or female. Most swingers, at least those that post here, would not want to become involved in anyone's cheating - male or female. If you go back and read through the many posts, you will see that the idea of someone cheating is greatly frowned upon by most. (and yes, there are a few exceptions)

So...may I ask, please...what is your point in asking? And I'm not trying to be offensive with the question...I'm really just not getting it.

Thanks! - EBF

Contact1 · 10-01-2003, 11:22 AM

Actually I just asked because I got spammed and the question popped into my head. Knowing how people generally feel about adultery, even people in this lifestyle.

Really what other forum would or could I ask people's point of view on it without the typical catholic going to hell rhetoric.

No I am not looking for a cheating wife. That type of "excitement" does not appeal to me.

The other reason I asked is that I wanted to strike up some conversation. Which I did and I am pleased with the result.

Its too bad more people dont have a good enough sense of themselves to be more open about there sexuality.

2SHARE · 10-01-2003, 02:23 PM

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Originally posted by Contact1
Back on topic, lest I begin talking about myself.....

I'd listen!!! But back on task!!

Yes there are many, men and woman looking for affairs -- ONLY. I met one 'single' woman in a yahoo group who openly admitted that she was cheating and looking for sex -- her swing partner was the same. Some have reasons -- some don't.

But again to each his own. I think in that situation, as long as honesty prevails she's done nothing wrong towards me. Towards her hubby -- now that's a whole other subject, and I have VERY strong opinions about that!!

flamethrow CHEATERS

Deb's 2 sense

Elusive BiFem · 10-01-2003, 03:01 PM

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Originally posted by Contact1

The other reason I asked is that I wanted to strike up some conversation. Which I did and I am pleased with the result.

Its too bad more people dont have a good enough sense of themselves to be more open about there sexuality.

Conversation...good...good...we love conversation! And I agree with your comment on people not being more open about their sexuality. Unfortunately, I think that is what is sometimes the basis of cheating...people can't really open up to each other about their real thoughts and fantasies, and end up resorting to cheating. - EBF

Contact1 · 10-01-2003, 03:20 PM

"Unfortunately, I think that is what is sometimes the basis of cheating...people can't really open up to each other about their real thoughts and fantasies, and end up resorting to cheating. - EBF "

Exactly. But how do people deal with that?
There's a good question!

How do you tell your partner that you have fantasies you would like to fulfill such as threesomes or foursomes or being watched or watching, Without getting kicked out of your house?

How do you let your partner know that it is not because you don't love them or that they are not good enough?

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09-29-2003, 11:50 AM	#1 (permalink)
Contact1 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Massachusetts Status: Single Male	Cheaters network??? Is there really such a thing as a websites of men and women who are in relationships but looking for affairs? You see adds for them but they look like trash. Just trying to hook the average horny guy.

09-29-2003, 12:13 PM	#2 (permalink)
wrnakedru Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 1,989 Location: Bliss Status: Female	I have seen ads......... The one I see advertised is either "Married and lonely" or "Lonely and married" - words to that effect. Yes, I agree with what you are saying - and men are not the only ones who do get horny. Scratching that itch doesn't cure lonely, however. And if "lonely" is the problem, it would seem that the match-ups the site geared toward that might bring - might also bring the end of one relationship - and the beginning of another. Or it may just provide an outlet for those in similar situations - and who have no intention of ending their existing relationship. "Lonely" is a feeling - and doesn't require an "alone" status to be felt.

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naughtygirl27 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 36 Location: Ontario, Canada Status: Couple	I have seen one advertised on TV!! Yes a website that says "hey wanna cheat? come here!!" on thier homepage it says this " For Attatched Woman Seeking Romantic Affairs & The Men Who Want To Fulfill Them" Also says "When Monogamy Becomes Monotony" Can ya believe it?!?! naughtygirl27
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09-29-2003, 01:40 PM	#3 (permalink)
Contact1 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Massachusetts Status: Single Male	Very Good point, well said. Either way I think these site might be just a ploy anyway. Thanks

09-29-2003, 02:26 PM	#5 (permalink)
Contact1 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Massachusetts Status: Single Male	Thats why I am so happy to have found this place. Real people. I doubt any of the adds on these places are real. Just models with fake profiles. Like AFF (can I say the name here) I hate that place. Almost all fakers and no oversite to bann lowlife solicitors. Plus men are so easy to hook if we are horny enough. Just pay 39.99 a month and dream about one of these beautifull women actually wanting you...

09-30-2003, 02:35 PM	#7 (permalink)
Contact1 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Massachusetts Status: Single Male	Why Thank you. Compliments are always welcome, particularly after slandering my own gender. Bessos.

10-01-2003, 10:02 AM	#10 (permalink)
Contact1 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Massachusetts Status: Single Male	(taking bows) thank you, thank you very much. Back on topic, lest I begin talking about myself. Do you think there are actually married women on there looking for affairs? Would they not just be in places like this? Or maybe AFF. Even some swing sites are crap.

10-01-2003, 11:22 AM	#12 (permalink)
Contact1 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Massachusetts Status: Single Male	Actually I just asked because I got spammed and the question popped into my head. Knowing how people generally feel about adultery, even people in this lifestyle. Really what other forum would or could I ask people's point of view on it without the typical catholic going to hell rhetoric. No I am not looking for a cheating wife. That type of "excitement" does not appeal to me. The other reason I asked is that I wanted to strike up some conversation. Which I did and I am pleased with the result. Its too bad more people dont have a good enough sense of themselves to be more open about there sexuality.

10-01-2003, 03:20 PM	#15 (permalink)
Contact1 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Massachusetts Status: Single Male	"Unfortunately, I think that is what is sometimes the basis of cheating...people can't really open up to each other about their real thoughts and fantasies, and end up resorting to cheating. - EBF " Exactly. But how do people deal with that? There's a good question! How do you tell your partner that you have fantasies you would like to fulfill such as threesomes or foursomes or being watched or watching, Without getting kicked out of your house? How do you let your partner know that it is not because you don't love them or that they are not good enough?