Swinging with Girlfriend not Wife

[JustAskJulie]

Originally posted by pammyjgcurious
Oh boy, I just posted my dilemma on the wrong thread, oh well. A couple wants to meet us and he is married but his partner is not his wife. I didn't ask if his wife knows about this but I don't feel that comfortable with it. Is it me? From what I've been reading, cheating is no. I do like that.

I moved your posts out of the other thread and into this one.

[pammyjgcurious]

Thanks Julie

[Quin]

It is really none of my business if he is married and cheating, I don't even know if his wife knows about this.

Yeah, it is your business if he's married and he's wanting to cheat on his wife with you. Chances are, his wife is fine, in great health and unaware of her husband's cheating ways. Put yourself in her place...would you want to find your spouse cheating on you? And further yet, as a woman...can you honestly be party to something that might possibly (and probably would as all cheaters are eventually found out) cause a lot of pain and hurt to a woman who is the innocent in this cheating situation? Would you wish that kind of pain on your best friend? On yourself? On your sister/daughter/mother? No...so why then would you want to risk putting another woman in pain by playing with her cheating husband? Not to even mention the pain that his children (if there are children) would go thru just because their mother is in pain and hurting.

There are far too many single guys out there, ready willing and able, for a threesome if that's what you want. And if he's putting pressure on you, regardless of when you feel this pressure, you need to leave him alone and walk away.

Just my 4 cents (inflation, ya know).

Quin
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