Is it cheating?

[Michcouple]

If it's behind your partners back then it's cheating

[alabamafuntonig]

and if its just from behind its just good sex!

[Couple_DFW]

Originally posted by alabamafuntonig
and if its just from behind its just good sex!

From behind is good.....

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by Couple_DFW
From behind is good.....

If you do it from behind and he is in front then its not cheating.

Thats that.

John

[calidascope_cpl]

Since we are still new to the board, haven't quite figured out how to use all of the gadgets on the post page

We are in TOTAL agreement with
windsor
naughty
bccp
vevay
florid
bear
sorry about not having your full names been up all night.


Thanks for a great topic

[SyberG&C]

We agree cheating is when your
partner doesen't know

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by SyberG&C
We agree cheating is when your
partner doesen't know

Is it cheating then to flirt at work? You both know it won't go anwhere and who can difinately difine flirting?

Just trying to stir the pot.

John

[Elusive BiFem]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
Is it cheating then to flirt at work? You both know it won't go anwhere and who can difinately difine flirting?

Just trying to stir the pot.

John

Dad-gummit, John!! Just when I was getting ready to pounce
after reading that thing about "is it cheating to flirt at work?" - and then to see the comment "Just trying to stir the pot."

Where is the smilie for a droopy, let-down face? It's no fun to pounce when someone is standing there ready to catch ya.

The bestest and the funnest kind of flirting is when you both know it won't go anywhere. That's called "practice."

-EBF

[stonyo]

Here's another twist:

Who is cheating if 2 bi girls get together and one tells her hubby and the other doesn't? And the one who doesnt tell her hubby, tells the other girl not to tell her hubby either... so the girl who had already told her hubby tells the girl she won't tell her hubby...
sorry if this is too confusing...

but this has happend twice to us recently in different variations...

once with the girl half of a couple we had both played with in the past.. and now the girl doesnt want the guys to play anymore- but my partner told me that the girls would like to play without the guys.. and the other girl just wants to keep it a secret... we are ok with girls only nite - but dont like the fact the other girl doesnt want her hubby to know... we tried to convince her he would be understanding - but she and her hubby just dont communicate like they should... probably we should stop playing with them until they can get their act together...!!!


the other time was a couple we have been "testing the waters" with but nothing has happened... til when the other couple was visiting our house the other girl took my wife to the bathroom to make out and my wife told me all about it afterwards...(it was obvious something was going on to me) but the next day the girl called my wife and said dont tell your hubby... and my wife did not tell her...ooops i've already told him.... she just said ok...

[Alura]

Don't tell me anything you don't want Mrs. Alura to know.

The trouble with keeping secrets is remembering who isn't supposed to know.

The trouble with lies is remembering what you were supposed to have said.

It's all much too complicated for this simple hick Okie.

Mr. Alura

[TNT]

I agree with Mr. Alura...If you don't want both of us to know, don't tell either one of us.

If Ted's buddies knew that I know all their dirty little secrets (ones that their wives don't know ) they would probably never come over to the house again.

We tell each other EVERYTHING.

Teresa

[yawanna]

I don't know how to work the dang controls here beyond the smilies so I can't post quotes anyhoo.......

is it cheating to flirt?

I think that anything is 'cheating' if you are doing something you know would put a rift between you and your partner.

If you can't or won't tell your partner, it's cheating.

online chats, flirting, Bill Clinton sex, anything.

And to Flori_DAMAN.. we don't consider ourselves, as swingers, to be sexually monogamous...it's spiritual, emotional and intellectual monogamy that we have. Sex we share with others as we choose

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by yawanna


And to Flori_DAMAN.. we don't consider ourselves, as swingers, to be sexually monogamous...it's spiritual, emotional and intellectual monogamy that we have. Sex we share with others as we choose

Monogomous is monogomous. The definition is sexual. A couple that is honest with each other need not fear sexual deception. You can have sex with others and thats fine, but by definition its not monogamy.

I like your thinking, but words and there definition need to be taken seriously. Monogomy is having sex with MONO...ONE.

Just a thought. The words are important. Swinging by definition is not monogamous. IT can be spiritually, physically and emotionally positive but it just aint monogamy.

John

[nikkilynn74]

Originally posted by yawanna
And to Flori_DAMAN.. we don't consider ourselves, as swingers, to be sexually monogamous...it's spiritual, emotional and intellectual monogamy that we have. Sex we share with others as we choose

That is a great way of putting it!!!



Nikki

[yawanna]

"marriage to only one person"

But monogamy ain't the word defining sex or the limit of one sex partner.

Find and quote another dictionary definition....I'm curious